| 1) I most identify as a | ||
| Male | 0.00% | |
| Female | 100.00% | |
| 2) My sexual orientation is | ||
| Gay | 5.24% | |
| Straight | 72.05% | |
| Bisexual | 22.71% | |
| 3) My age is | ||
| Under 18 | 1.75% | |
| 18 - 25 | 50.66% | |
| 26 - 35 | 35.37% | |
| 36 - 45 | 8.30% | |
| 46+ | 3.93% | |
| 4) I lost my virginity when I was | ||
| Under 18 | 55.90% | |
| 18 - 20 | 33.62% | |
| 21 - 25 | 6.11% | |
| 26 + | 0.00% | |
| I’m a virgin | 4.37% | |
| 5) It was | ||
| Awesome | 12.66% | |
| All right | 41.92% | |
| Awkward | 26.64% | |
| Awful | 14.41% | |
| Absent, because I’m a virgin | 4.37% | |
| 6) Tell us a bit about your first time: | ||
| Vote ID : 8387 | I was 15, he was 18, his mom was in the next room telling us that there was no sex allowed in the house unless she was having it, and I definitely did it to be cool. Note to self, tell my future daughters it's not that cool. | |
| Vote ID : 8390 | staring at the moon through the window with the power out with my first love who was tender and concerned and took every measure to be sure i was alright, a girls first time is always a bit painful, but this was one for the book in first times... he was the one and i didnt sleep with anyone else for 3 years after we broke up, i was young, he was the one and i wasn't giving it up just cause i had my moment | |
| Vote ID : 8409 | I cried. | |
| Vote ID : 8410 | drunk on a train track | |
| Vote ID : 8411 | It was painful, but pleasant after the initial shock. | |
| Vote ID : 8413 | Ugh, do I have to? | |
| Vote ID : 8419 | There were roses, and it was very long, and somewhat painful. | |
| Vote ID : 8420 | My insides hurt from being fingered too much and I needed the relief of a massage from another body part. | |
| Vote ID : 8424 | bled like a stuck pig afterwards | |
| Vote ID : 8427 | My sweety shared an apartment with his mom and little brother, and a room with said brother. We were quick and in fear of his mom (who did NOT approve of me) coming in. Otherwise, quite nice ;) | |
| Vote ID : 8442 | Shrek 2 was playing on the T.V. | |
| Vote ID : 8448 | it was with my bf of three months and was the first time for both of us, I had full control of everything going on and before he knew it we had both just lost our virginity. | |
| Vote ID : 8450 | My parents were out of town, it was cute and fun and we got pizza afterwards! #firsttimewin | |
| Vote ID : 8467 | Was with a guy twice my age (which was highly illegal and he wasn't really worried about me, just wanted to get himself off); Found out later he got another girl pregnant in the same way.... | |
| Vote ID : 8476 | It took about 12 seconds, a little painful. | |
| Vote ID : 8479 | It was sweet and a little awkward. | |
| Vote ID : 8484 | had some guy just take advantage of me. I wasn't sure what to do, was very awkward. he did his part and i just lay there. | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | It hurt so much that I cried, | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | Painful, awkward, and drunken. The condoms were in the "Narnia bag" | |
| Vote ID : 8507 | With my boyfriend after 2 years of dating | |
| Vote ID : 8514 | Wine & roses | |
| Vote ID : 8515 | Painful | |
| Vote ID : 8520 | It was on Tweety the Bird sheets with awful Pop music in the background. | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | raped | |
| Vote ID : 8530 | Got drunk with a group of friends at a ski chalet, decided to go for it with a guy I had a crush on, only it was not his first time and he didn't know it was mine, so it wasn't the most romantic to say the least. . | |
| Vote ID : 8539 | painful, embarrassing | |
| Vote ID : 8540 | It was just boring, | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | I slept with the first guy I fell in love with and he loved me back. it was pretty awesome and WAAAY better than most people I've talked to. it wasn't the best sex on the planet of course, we were virgins, but I'd not change it at all. He kissed me on the forehead in the middle of it! How cute is that, right? | |
| Vote ID : 8550 | Back seat of a car | |
| Vote ID : 8562 | Ah, the awkwardness of having your first gay experience in your bedroom next door to your mom's... | |
| Vote ID : 8586 | someone who didnt love me just some pervert loser guy | |
| Vote ID : 8588 | amazing. unforgettable | |
| Vote ID : 8589 | my sister told before that i was just suppose to lay there, i've learned abit since | |
| Vote ID : 8594 | Drunk with a casual acquaintance | |
| Vote ID : 8596 | In the back of his Ford Tempo, on my lunch break, with someone that I hated. | |
| Vote ID : 8598 | Too planned. Not romantic. | |
| Vote ID : 8607 | Bathroom of a badass jacks. | |
| Vote ID : 8621 | I was in love but it wasn't great | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | I'm a FREAKING VIRGIN PEOPLE!!!! DIDN'T YOU NOTICE THE LAST TWO ANSWERS?! V.I.R.G.I.N. | |
| Vote ID : 8631 | 15 years old, drunk, in a cabin at the lake, he was my ex-boyfriend's older brother, he was hot, the sex was kinda hot | |
| Vote ID : 8639 | We (both virgins) had planned to have sex the next time we were left alone in a house together. We couldn't wait, of course, so instead we lost it to his parents shrieking upstairs. We kept 'stopping' with paranoia every minute or so. No regrets. | |
| Vote ID : 8640 | He couldn | |
| Vote ID : 8643 | Much older guy talked me into it. I really wish it hadn't happened with him. | |
| Vote ID : 8652 | Way too drunk, out of town, with a friend's roommate | |
| Vote ID : 8654 | didn't seem to work that well, I guess my second time was really my first time. | |
| Vote ID : 8655 | It was in a musty basement during a break from school and when it was all done, I crawled out of his window and ran back to school, mostly out of shock. It could definitely have been a lot more romantic...sigh. | |
| Vote ID : 8659 | He lasted about 20 seconds..... Then I laughed my ass of for the next 5 minits. Smooth move on my part | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | It took a long time for us to actually "do it", but it was very lovely. | |
| Vote ID : 8668 | It was at my boyfriend's house in the basement rec room, trying to be quiet because his mom was upstairs. | |
| Vote ID : 8679 | not enjoyable but not bad | |
| Vote ID : 8681 | raped by acquaintence | |
| Vote ID : 8725 | I was so bored I thought about minesweeper. You know, the computer game? | |
| Vote ID : 8728 | loving high school relationship.. waterbed.. so pleasant, but not without its challenges | |
| Vote ID : 8729 | Overrated - it may have been my first penis but not my first time having something inside me | |
| Vote ID : 8733 | Awesome, everything I had hoped it would be and more. I was lucky because I had the house to myself for a week with my boyfriend, so my first time was followed closely by a 2nd, 3rd, 4th all the way up to 30th time. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | I was drunk. he was drunk. it was in my friends parents bed. how terrible | |
| Vote ID : 8756 | It was with a boy that I loved and it was perfect | |
| Vote ID : 8784 | The only reason we decided to "do it" was because we'd been given a pile of free condoms at a concert the day before. It was awkward. I don't think either of us were even full undressed. The Red Hot Chili Peppers played in the background. | |
| Vote ID : 8786 | Nothing special. | |
| Vote ID : 8788 | hurt like hell. Screamed loud enough from pain that there was sudden silence throughout the house (my bf had a room in the basement of a shared accomodation). Incredibly embarrasing for both of us - luckily, none of the roomates made any comments! | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | Painful | |
| Vote ID : 8793 | Doesn't matter, scroll down to "most fun moment"...question | |
| Vote ID : 8795 | I cried before, during, and after... and kinda felt like I had said goodbye to an old friend of 17 years. | |
| Vote ID : 8803 | basement of my boyfriends house, sneaky and quiet. | |
| Vote ID : 8805 | Painful as fuck. | |
| Vote ID : 8820 | 5 seconds. | |
| Vote ID : 8839 | my best friend's big brother climbed in my bedroom window. he was drunk. it was mostly weird and a little scary. | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | Didn't really know what was happening- it was over before it began... | |
| Vote ID : 8869 | High school boyfriend...both virgins...got better with practice! | |
| Vote ID : 8889 | The person I had a crush on got me drunk, and I really don't remember it. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | counterintuitive position. in the dude's room while his WHOLE family was home. | |
| Vote ID : 8915 | His mom walked in on us! But we were so in love we didn't care! | |
| Vote ID : 8921 | It was with my high school sweetheart, a little painful and awkward, but nice because we were so in love. | |
| Vote ID : 8922 | I never really dated much or had a boyfriend. But one day I just decided I was ready. So I picked a moderately cute boy at the bar ("You'll do"), went to his hotel room, and that was it. | |
| Vote ID : 8924 | ha. as his first time too. he was too nervous to get it up.. so our second time. was well better then that, hardly good to what I have further experienced. But exciting and wonderful none the less. | |
| Vote ID : 8931 | Short. | |
| Vote ID : 8932 | Short. | |
| Vote ID : 8943 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8944 | My very first boyfriend had been pressuring me for 6 months. I didn't want to have sex because I didn't know if I loved him yet, but after many fights and him being a douchebag I finally just wanted to get it over with. We did it on his mattress on the floor. The soundtrack was "Michael Jackson's Greatest Hits." | |
| Vote ID : 8946 | two months into my first serious relationship, in the "heat of the moment" one thing lead to another. | |
| Vote ID : 8972 | I was 16, he was 21. He knew that I wanted it to be special, so there were candles and music and 'romance'. Too bad he turned out to be an abusive, psychotic, controlling piece of sh*t. | |
| Vote ID : 8981 | At his parents house in a bunk bed ughhhh | |
| Vote ID : 8984 | I decided I wanted to have sex with a guy I had known all my life. We had a number of other "firsts" and I wanted him to be part of this one. So I showed up at his house, brought the condoms, and said "let's do this". Needless to say, he was into it! | |
| Vote ID : 8996 | I didn't admit that it was my first time. There was an annoying western on in the backround. I never came. | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | Nothing memorable but glad it was with a long time boyfriend be it after we broke up. Yup odd that ! | |
| Vote ID : 9011 | It was with a guy twice my age, and if it would have happened recently, he could be in jail, JERK! | |
| Vote ID : 9051 | Good, with my boyfriend of the time. Kind of boring to be honest. | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | babysitting, boyfriend came over. "Splash" was on tv. it was over pretty quick, his first time too. It felt way different than I thought. fin. | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | Sloppy awkward girl-on-girl at a sleepover in summertime. | |
| Vote ID : 9070 | I was 15 and it was so painful and quick i didn't even think my boyfriend was in me. | |
| Vote ID : 9075 | Two days after I got my drives licence I drove into the city from my rural community and had sex with the college-aged guy I was seeing at the time. | |
| Vote ID : 9117 | I was fifteen. A considerably more experienced young man sought me out while I was heavily intoxicated at a keg party being held and populated by complete strangers. He led me into the woods, undressed me, fucked me and then laughed at me while I tried to find my panties and struggled to get dressed. He had been holding the underwear the entire time. I was unconscious for the majority of that life changing event, but in the end...it only really affected my self esteem. So it wasn't all bad.... | |
| Vote ID : 9119 | We did it first thing in the AM, and I learned first hand that it's best to pee before having sex. Why? Because I definitely lost all bladder control that first time. | |
| Vote ID : 9122 | it was outside with the first guy I ever loved. Sadly I had a long bike ride home after... :p | |
| Vote ID : 9125 | One of the most painful and tender experiences I've ever had. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | It was a long time coming but a little anti-climatic. | |
| Vote ID : 9149 | scary, but romantic | |
| Vote ID : 9150 | Mostly we laughed and made fun of ourseleves. It wasn't too bad. | |
| Vote ID : 9151 | I was raped while on a date with a guy who was a good friend of a friend... | |
| Vote ID : 9161 | It was in a hotel room with all the fixins' like champagne, strawberries etc...it wasn't very good. | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Exhilarating at the time, but boring in retrospect. | |
| Vote ID : 9174 | Fast and the guy had no idea it was | |
| Vote ID : 9192 | reverse cowgirl at a music festival, slightly random | |
| Vote ID : 9200 | at my boyfriend's parents house on the floor while we were supposed to be studying for midterms | |
| Vote ID : 9214 | It was with my now husband. I didn't plan on losing my viginity to someone who would become my husband, but c'est la vie. He's an amazing man, but he doesn't know he was my first. I don't want to give him the upper hand. | |
| Vote ID : 9243 | neither of us knew what we were doing | |
| Vote ID : 9245 | standard 16-year-old stuff; just wanted to get it overwith | |
| Vote ID : 9250 | A let down really | |
| Vote ID : 9271 | It wasn't planned, just seemed like the next logical thing! No big deal. | |
| Vote ID : 9282 | It was just like I hoped it would be! | |
| Vote ID : 9290 | Looking back it certainly wasn't the best sex ever, but I was 23 and worried I would turn into the 40 year old virgin, so in my mind it was amazing! | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | Long-term boyfriend, the evening before a family member's wedding. It was clumsy but sweet. | |
| Vote ID : 9315 | It was not planned and took place in back of a store on the deck located along the front street of my home town | |
| Vote ID : 9318 | I was in the wood's during lunch hour at school. | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | I was date raped. | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | It was completely unsatisfying. I had done it because I had felt I was ''supposed to'' and that I owed it to the guy. Now, when I lost my 'virginity' the first time I had sex with a female it was a completely wonderful and amazing experience. It allowed me to want to pursue the wonders of sex with both males and females, despite the previous more horrible 'penis predicament'. | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | I just knew i was ready to lose my virginity so when i started seeing someone after i knew i was ready I did it. it wasnt anything special. | |
| Vote ID : 9351 | Kind of sucked. Kind of rocked. Mostly just mediocre. | |
| Vote ID : 9355 | It just hurt. I am happy to have gotten it over with with someone I will never love. | |
| Vote ID : 9361 | So painful. His nickname was moose. | |
| Vote ID : 9388 | underwhelming | |
| Vote ID : 9392 | Used to sneak out of the house to fool around with my older brothers best friend.. | |
| Vote ID : 9393 | The summer after tenth grade, my boyfriend, a few years older than me got me wasted on wine coolers at a small town bush party and waited until I passed out to make a move. I remember waking up for a second, but wasn't really sure it had happened until I found the evidence in my underpants the next day... | |
| Vote ID : 9405 | Ehh what's to tell? Two virgins that didn't really know what they were doing. | |
| Vote ID : 9417 | very romantic | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | I was drunk and it just kinda happened, and it lasted for hours, litterly i watched the sun rise and got bored so I decided we should stop. LOL | |
| Vote ID : 9487 | quick and painful | |
| Vote ID : 9490 | My BF of the time and I were in his basement watching a movie and making out, it just made it's way to sex. It was nothing special other than that it was my first time. | |
| Vote ID : 9499 | Ok, wasn't as painful as people tell you it is/ | |
| Vote ID : 9532 | I should have dumped that dickhead the second he started whining and complaining and pressuring me to have sex, after I expressed some nervousness and anxiety about the deed. Instead, I caved in and fucked him. What can I say - I was naive. /facepalm | |
| Vote ID : 9547 | It hurt like a bitch but it was still a lot of fun and my man was so good about taking our time and everything, and by the end it started to be rather pleasurable! | |
| Vote ID : 9561 | N/a | |
| Vote ID : 9564 | On the floor in a college computer lab... | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | I was 16, and thought i got prego. Turns out I was just insane..... | |
| Vote ID : 9576 | it was a choice I was in control of and it was with someone I loved and trusted - I waited a long time. It was pretty good. | |
| Vote ID : 9590 | It didn't hurt, but it was irritatingly long and uncomfortable. We waited a long time and there were I-love-yous and tea candles, but the experience was overall, pretty meh. I didn't bleed, which made my partner suspicious, but then, he was an asshole. It don't remember it all that well and it didn't really influence how I developed sexually. The first time is not as important as it's made out to be. | |
| Vote ID : 9591 | I finally enticed someone to have sex with me - I was so pleased! After he left, I ate chocolate cake to celebrate. | |
| Vote ID : 9602 | Scared out of my mind with another woman, felt like i was comiting a crime. | |
| Vote ID : 9605 | meh it was boring | |
| Vote ID : 9608 | I was 12, he was 17. Everything up to intercourse had been amazing. The pain was insane, but in the end worth it. | |
| Vote ID : 9609 | On a blanket on a school field | |
| Vote ID : 9633 | 16, at summer camp with my ex-boyfriend who was also a camp counsellor | |
| Vote ID : 9636 | no | |
| Vote ID : 9657 | My boyfriend was older and had just come back from working in Ontario for the summer. I thought it would be kinda awesome but it turned out to be totally boring and I remember thinking at the time that even doing the dishes would be more exciting! | |
| Vote ID : 9667 | Regretful | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | There was a waterbed, I was in the middle of my menstral cycle so there was naked dry humping for a bit, but obviously tampons make you hornier so the heat was on and I said fuck-it, Let's Do IT!...too bad i can't remember any of their names. I do have one of the guys initials scarred onto my left fore arm. | |
| Vote ID : 9687 | the guy was delish! still the template for my preference in male physique! :) | |
| Vote ID : 9699 | It was a short romp to the sweet sound of Metallica | |
| Vote ID : 9701 | It depends on what you count as the "first time". First time I tried, or first time it happened? I was scared of the pain, so it took about a week before my partner and I had real sex, but when we did it was pretty awesome. But I was pretty disappointed the first time we tried and it didn't happen (full intercourse). | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | We were both virgins and my boyfriend must have done alot reading cause he did know what to do. | |
| Vote ID : 9718 | first comfortable time was after watching trainspotting in bed | |
| Vote ID : 9723 | I was black out drunk and came back to conciousness halfway through the act. | |
| Vote ID : 9727 | n/a | |
| Vote ID : 9737 | It was on a guy's dirty mattress ... I just wanted to get it over with. In hindsight, not the best thing to do! I wish I would've waited. | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | I was inebriated and was really just wanting to get it over with - I figured I'd waited long enough. | |
| Vote ID : 9786 | I was 14, it lasted 30 seconds, and we giggled like school kids for the next two hours. | |
| Vote ID : 9793 | It was with my boyfriend. We had been dating for almost a year! I can't believe we waited that long, but we both come from rather conservative religious roots. Anyways, February 2009 we went to Jasper for a week of snowboarding. We knew it was going to happen that weekend but we hadn't planned it out. The one night I was ready but he fell asleep watching a movie. I went outside for a midnight stroll and ran into an elk! I was semi-terrified when I made it back to the cabin and he was awake and wondering where I was... and then the magic happened. Nothing like a little scare to intensify an experience. It hurt because it was the first time, but the feeling of connection was amazing. | |
| Vote ID : 9794 | On my parents couch! | |
| 7) In the past month I have had sex: | ||
| Never | 23.58% | |
| Once or twice | 9.17% | |
| A few times | 18.34% | |
| A bunch of times | 42.79% | |
| At least once a day | 6.11% | |
| 8) In the past month I have masturbated | ||
| Never | 11.79% | |
| Once or twice | 15.72% | |
| A few times | 26.64% | |
| A bunch of times | 38.86% | |
| At least once a day | 6.99% | |
| 9) In the past 12 months I have had | ||
| 0 sex partners | 10.04% | |
| 1 sex partner | 49.34% | |
| 2 - 4 sex partners | 31.88% | |
| 5 - 10 sex partners | 6.99% | |
| More than 10 sex partners | 1.75% | |
| 10) The longest I’ve ever gone without sex is | ||
| one day | 0.44% | |
| one week | 5.24% | |
| one month | 12.66% | |
| more than one month | 42.36% | |
| one year | 10.04% | |
| more than one year | 24.89% | |
| All the time up until now because I'm a virgin | 4.37% | |
| 11) Why did you go that long? | ||
| Vote ID : 8387 | Because my stupid boyfriend tours most of the year and makes me masturbate via video chat instead of actually getting to see him in person for more than a week out of every two months or so. | |
| Vote ID : 8390 | only from my first love till i was ready again....umm there werent many breaks after that | |
| Vote ID : 8410 | wasnt attracted to my partner anymore | |
| Vote ID : 8411 | I'm single, and I only have 1 booty call. | |
| Vote ID : 8413 | Husband works out of town too much! Also, had a baby... | |
| Vote ID : 8419 | Did not have a partner | |
| Vote ID : 8420 | Bad breakups sometimes coerce you into celibacy but it never lasts too long. | |
| Vote ID : 8424 | didn't want it, didn't go looking for it | |
| Vote ID : 8427 | Unattached and very fussy. | |
| Vote ID : 8436 | high standards? fear of intimacy? who knows. probably lots of little reasons. | |
| Vote ID : 8442 | Hadn't met anyone worth while. | |
| Vote ID : 8448 | was single and im not a huge fan of random hook ups or one night stands, plus i had just moved back to edmonton so i lost my booty call buddy and was looking for a new one. | |
| Vote ID : 8450 | uhmm dry spell. | |
| Vote ID : 8467 | Had surgery on some of my female parts and wasn't able to... | |
| Vote ID : 8471 | ennded a marriage | |
| Vote ID : 8476 | I had surgery | |
| Vote ID : 8479 | I was on vacation without my boyfriend. | |
| Vote ID : 8484 | Just no sex drive | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | Got out of a serious relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | Moved to a new city and looked for a job, rather than people. Plus, trying to figure out this country and culture all over again. | |
| Vote ID : 8507 | Without a Boyfriend | |
| Vote ID : 8514 | I was trying not to be such a slut | |
| Vote ID : 8515 | He was out of town | |
| Vote ID : 8520 | My relationship was long-distance | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | to try something different | |
| Vote ID : 8530 | Still am... Decided to not have sex again until I was in a serious relationship, and that hasn't happened yet. | |
| Vote ID : 8536 | after a bad break up, I decided to take a break from relationships and therefore sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8539 | got divorced and never entered a new relationship | |
| Vote ID : 8540 | Bad breakup, bad relationship before it. | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | I don't sleep with guys I'm not in relationships with due to total- and legit- fear of diseases haha. And no one worth it was around me back then. | |
| Vote ID : 8550 | Extremely busy with life no time | |
| Vote ID : 8562 | Not attracted to a lot of people, and I rather have sex in relationships vs. hook-ups. | |
| Vote ID : 8586 | didnt have a boyfriend or suitable partner I would consider sleeping with, dont sleep with just anyone!..after the first time I mean lol | |
| Vote ID : 8588 | period | |
| Vote ID : 8589 | sick | |
| Vote ID : 8594 | No sex partner | |
| Vote ID : 8596 | Time in between relationships. | |
| Vote ID : 8598 | Broke up with my boyfriend. | |
| Vote ID : 8600 | I wasn't in a relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 8607 | Only met bastards who I had no interest in sexing up. Also, was busy with other things. | |
| Vote ID : 8621 | I recently broke off a longer term relationship, I am seeing someone from out of town, we haven't slept together yet. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | Because I'm not ready to have sex yet. | |
| Vote ID : 8631 | In between relationships | |
| Vote ID : 8639 | Single, sulky, and a little broken. | |
| Vote ID : 8652 | Not in a relationship | |
| Vote ID : 8653 | Depression. | |
| Vote ID : 8654 | between boyfriends | |
| Vote ID : 8655 | Because I was a fool. I had broken up with my high school boyfriend and I was "waiting" for him...I didn't want to ruin our reuniting with having been with anyone else. Ha! I wish I could go back and slap that stupid girl for waiting for that ass. | |
| Vote ID : 8659 | Single | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | Because I hadn't figured out that I was queer, and didn't want to have sex with a man. | |
| Vote ID : 8668 | Longterm relationship had ended, and was not too interested in sex at that point. | |
| Vote ID : 8679 | had my heart broken | |
| Vote ID : 8681 | lack of worthy partner | |
| Vote ID : 8725 | I was apparently out of my mind... | |
| Vote ID : 8728 | absence of meaningful opportunities | |
| Vote ID : 8729 | Second husband wouldn't put out | |
| Vote ID : 8733 | Newly single after almost 6 years of being in a relationship. Decided to process the break-up before moving into the next relationship and also to concentrate on being a young, single 21 year old and see what that was about (without the sex). | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | Dry spell?? | |
| Vote ID : 8756 | it just never happened. Right guy didn't come along | |
| Vote ID : 8786 | Broke up with a long-term boyfriend. All of a sudden I went back to the "boys are gross" mentality. | |
| Vote ID : 8788 | I'm picky about who I sleep with... and I also work far too many long hours. | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | No prospects | |
| Vote ID : 8793 | no man | |
| Vote ID : 8795 | Didn't want to have meaningless, casual sex | |
| Vote ID : 8803 | no relationship at the time | |
| Vote ID : 8805 | Because I didn't have a boyfriend at the time and I'm not promiscuous. | |
| Vote ID : 8820 | The bad breakup to end bad breakups. | |
| Vote ID : 8839 | i was in a long term relationship and we just weren't having sex | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | Got divorced- no guy was worth the hassle-got a BOB(Battery Operated Boyfriend) instead | |
| Vote ID : 8872 | Just because. | |
| Vote ID : 8889 | I broke up with my boyfriend | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | meh. | |
| Vote ID : 8915 | Didn't want a boyfriend, didn't feel like hooking up with a stranger. | |
| Vote ID : 8921 | Broke up with my boyfriend; didn't date anyone else. | |
| Vote ID : 8922 | I'm particular. I won't just give it up to anyone. Being with me sexually is an amazing experience and not just anyone can have that. | |
| Vote ID : 8924 | Holding out on the new boyfriend! ha | |
| Vote ID : 8931 | No partner | |
| Vote ID : 8932 | No partner | |
| Vote ID : 8943 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8944 | I took a vow of celibacy to quell my insatiable lust. The first two months I went crazy and then afterwards I got used to it; I still masturbated though. | |
| Vote ID : 8946 | wasn't dating anyone. | |
| Vote ID : 8948 | Because I was single. | |
| Vote ID : 8966 | Out of town :( | |
| Vote ID : 8984 | No sex drive after pregnancies.... And bad marriage | |
| Vote ID : 8996 | I've lost my libido entirely. | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | I prefer meaningful relationships but due to energy level and the way I live life it is best for me to become involved with partners at least ten years younger | |
| Vote ID : 9011 | Had surgery to have some of my special lady parts repaired and wasn't able to have sex until everything healed. | |
| Vote ID : 9045 | Away from partner | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | no viable partners available | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | I'm picky! | |
| Vote ID : 9070 | I wanted to try being celibate for as long as i could | |
| Vote ID : 9075 | Lack of ability to trust other men after my first long-term, founding relationship didn't work out | |
| Vote ID : 9117 | I was agoraphobic and dealing with severe negative image issues. Also, I was fat. | |
| Vote ID : 9119 | Was single. | |
| Vote ID : 9122 | several reasons, including not feeling good enough about myself to be vulnerable with someone else. Glad I'm over that! | |
| Vote ID : 9125 | Once when he lived with his parents across town and it was hard to find the energy, and once when I was being treated for genital warts. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | I went without sex for a week before my first child was born (just timing) and two weeks after. | |
| Vote ID : 9144 | married and not doing it as much as I'd like | |
| Vote ID : 9148 | There is a drought of good men! | |
| Vote ID : 9149 | my boyfriend at the time died, so i wasnt emotionally able | |
| Vote ID : 9150 | Was out of a relationship for that long of a period of time and don't like have casual encounters. | |
| Vote ID : 9151 | The person I was dating was out of town | |
| Vote ID : 9161 | Was too busy and stressed to think about it and bf was out of town. | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Did not encounter anyone I wanted to jump into the sack with. | |
| Vote ID : 9174 | no good boys | |
| Vote ID : 9191 | To take a break, focus on other parts of my life, an intentional break. | |
| Vote ID : 9192 | I was in university, I didn't feel I was respected from males in my age group, psychological issues (depression, stress). | |
| Vote ID : 9200 | never got around to having sex | |
| Vote ID : 9201 | in a relationship with someone who felt guilty after sex, which also made me feel guilty. | |
| Vote ID : 9214 | Busy, tired, stressed. | |
| Vote ID : 9243 | was dating a virgin | |
| Vote ID : 9245 | I don't remember; it was years ago. I think I just felt like there was no one around that I wanted to sleep with. | |
| Vote ID : 9250 | Bad relationship | |
| Vote ID : 9251 | In between relationships | |
| Vote ID : 9271 | Had a baby, totally killed my sex drive (which was never high to begin with!) it's been eleven months since I've been in the mood. | |
| Vote ID : 9282 | Recovering from having a baby | |
| Vote ID : 9290 | Not willing to settle! I can't have sex with someone without having an emotional connection first. | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | I had been in a really awful, abusive relationship (emotional, physical, and sexual) and decided I needed time alone to heal and rediscover myself and my own desires. | |
| Vote ID : 9313 | No one interested me. | |
| Vote ID : 9315 | I was staying single for a few years to get my sanity back | |
| Vote ID : 9318 | The birth of my son and daughter. My wife had C sections and needed time to heal. | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | I didn't feel the need...I know that sounds weird but after I get out of serious relationships, I feel the need to self examine, figure out where things went wrong etc, and I value the time alone. | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | It was recently after I had encountered 'men' and didn't feel the need to pursue sexual activity thereafter because it was so horrible. The second time was because I was so heartbroken after losing my girlfriend I went into a sort of living coma. No Sex. No relationships. Nothing. | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | not dating anyone | |
| Vote ID : 9351 | Bad break up. | |
| Vote ID : 9355 | I had relationship issues, and I was still extremely shy back then. | |
| Vote ID : 9361 | Boys are stupid. | |
| Vote ID : 9388 | Boyfriend was out of the country | |
| Vote ID : 9389 | In between boyfriends. | |
| Vote ID : 9392 | Was not seeing anyone, lived in a small town where one night stands are anything but private. | |
| Vote ID : 9393 | I slept with someone who was barely legal at a house party and decided I needed some time off the market to assess my decision-making abilities. | |
| Vote ID : 9405 | The person I'm seeing isn't as experienced, they wanted to take it slow. | |
| Vote ID : 9417 | can't find a decent guy to love | |
| Vote ID : 9439 | Husband was away | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | Well, you see, theres this thing, its called being single, and sometimes that means that you don't have someone to sleep with unless you wanna go find someone random, and even sometimes if you did wish you had someone random you can't find anyone, thats why your hands can turn into your best friends. | |
| Vote ID : 9487 | not in a committed relationship- single still looking | |
| Vote ID : 9490 | I had no partner, having gone through a rough relationship before and not willing to jump back in the dating game for a while. | |
| Vote ID : 9499 | Wasn't interested in any more 1 night stands...wanted a relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 9518 | Long distance relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 9547 | Just didn`t have time to see him | |
| Vote ID : 9559 | Lack of opportunity | |
| Vote ID : 9561 | Not into casual sex | |
| Vote ID : 9564 | There was no one around that I was attracted to... | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | That is a really good question! | |
| Vote ID : 9576 | lack of interest and lack of opportunity | |
| Vote ID : 9590 | I was in a long-distance relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 9591 | I was single and it was before I was a more accomplished 'ho. | |
| Vote ID : 9602 | Because I was single and not a whore! | |
| Vote ID : 9608 | I was taking a course about feminism & sexual assault at the U of A. It was a personal choice at the time to be abstinent as I couldn't handle the thought of fucking while reading so much about rape. | |
| Vote ID : 9609 | couldn't find the right person | |
| Vote ID : 9628 | No one of great enough interest | |
| Vote ID : 9632 | didnt want to have sex with another idiot | |
| Vote ID : 9633 | Being single. Later, having given birth. | |
| Vote ID : 9636 | Period | |
| Vote ID : 9649 | trip | |
| Vote ID : 9657 | Because I had just moved to town and didn't know anybody and was paranoid of the concept of big city stranger lovin. | |
| Vote ID : 9667 | Still looking for that great guy | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | Surgical reasons- Cervical Cancer | |
| Vote ID : 9687 | my husband died. | |
| Vote ID : 9699 | I was in between relationships | |
| Vote ID : 9701 | This question doesn't really make sense. Does it mean: "The longest I've ever gone without sex since losing my virginity for the first time," or "the longest I've ever gone without sex" in my lifetime, including the time before I hit puberty? I'm going to assume the first, though it's really not clear. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | Had a baby | |
| Vote ID : 9718 | because i was away from my man | |
| Vote ID : 9719 | Haven't found someone I'm comfortable enough to be intimate with | |
| Vote ID : 9722 | Choice! | |
| Vote ID : 9723 | I just chose not to have sex because i wasn't in a relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 9726 | Not interested | |
| Vote ID : 9727 | your mother! | |
| Vote ID : 9737 | No one to have sex with. | |
| Vote ID : 9744 | I was selective | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | Single and not looking. | |
| Vote ID : 9786 | My ex didnt want to have sex. | |
| Vote ID : 9793 | Difficulties finding time to be alone with my boyfriend. | |
| Vote ID : 9794 | I was young and was seeing an uptight guy | |
| 12) In the past 12 months I am | ||
| In the same relationship | 42.79% | |
| Out of an old relationship | 8.30% | |
| In a new relationship | 5.24% | |
| Out of an old relationship AND into a new relationship | 14.41% | |
| Playing the field | 16.16% | |
| No change in my relationship status | 12.66% | |
| 13) Tell us about that | ||
| Vote ID : 8387 | Out with the douchebag, in with the best friend of ten years that's been trying to win my heart since day one. | |
| Vote ID : 8390 | 8 months, not my longest by far but too headed towards a white picket fence and 5 kids, i want love, a bit of adventure and a family that doesnt have to be in the shape of a cookie cutter | |
| Vote ID : 8411 | I've been single since New Years '09. It kinda sucks......a lot | |
| Vote ID : 8413 | 12 amazing years! | |
| Vote ID : 8420 | I've never been happier. I get all of the butterflies without any of the bullshit. | |
| Vote ID : 8424 | having our first baby after just over a year of trying! | |
| Vote ID : 8427 | I'm happily married: legally for 14 years, together for 22 years | |
| Vote ID : 8436 | if I ever get married, it will be to him. | |
| Vote ID : 8442 | I've met the most wonderful, compassionate and caring man and our 1 year anniversary was on June 5th! | |
| Vote ID : 8448 | out of one into a new one out of that one and now am back to being single, takes time to find the right person. but im still friends with both of them to make things even more random! | |
| Vote ID : 8450 | almost four years, whaaat. | |
| Vote ID : 8467 | Married for 14 years and have been with this beautiful man for 22 years... | |
| Vote ID : 8476 | I have been with the same man since 2005, we're getting married next year. | |
| Vote ID : 8479 | It's nice. He's my first everything and we just hit a year. | |
| Vote ID : 8484 | Married | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | I've been in and out of two relationships. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | I spent three months in the middle east and hooked up with someone there who may come visit me as a serious, future thing.. Before I left for there, I broke up with my then boyfriend. In the meantime I've hooked up with about 4 people I knew from before, and now I just don't know how the Egyptian guy will work out, and the previous actual boyfriend. I'm not quite committing to anything right now. | |
| Vote ID : 8507 | Out of an old relationship, into a new relationship, and still dabbling in the old relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 8514 | My lover is the best! | |
| Vote ID : 8515 | Needin somethin new | |
| Vote ID : 8520 | Not much to tell | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | awesome | |
| Vote ID : 8530 | I have been single and not looking and not dating, up until about a month ago where I decided to start dating again. | |
| Vote ID : 8536 | Dated a chick for the first time. Tried dating my Ex-boyfriend again, that didnt work. Started and ended a new relationship. And now back to looking. | |
| Vote ID : 8539 | bleh | |
| Vote ID : 8540 | It kicks ass! | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | at the very beginning of the year I broke up with my previous boyfriend and within a couple months found a new one and have been with him for 9 months now. | |
| Vote ID : 8550 | getting divorced after 24 years of marriage | |
| Vote ID : 8562 | Ended a long-distance relationship, started a regular one, ended that and now I'm just having fun. | |
| Vote ID : 8586 | recently left a 3 year relationship, now just looking around | |
| Vote ID : 8588 | great, awesome, cool. fun. love. | |
| Vote ID : 8594 | Best friends for a year, then dated six months, then he ended it suddenly. | |
| Vote ID : 8596 | We've been together for nearly two years. I left my ex for him. | |
| Vote ID : 8598 | So glad to be single! | |
| Vote ID : 8607 | It's dandy! | |
| Vote ID : 8621 | broke up, waited a few months, in a new long distance relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | I'm single. I've been single since I was born. Why do you care? | |
| Vote ID : 8631 | Great guy, makes me laugh, GREAT in bed, I LOVE HIS EPIC BEARD! | |
| Vote ID : 8639 | Two years, then two months, then two days between different sexual partners. Tired of that so trying to grow my decency back and earn a real relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 8643 | Married two years now. | |
| Vote ID : 8653 | Not going so well. | |
| Vote ID : 8654 | Went from most dramatic boyfriend in the world to the most complicated | |
| Vote ID : 8655 | I have been with the same gy now for the past four years, we are engaged and have a beautiful daughter...we've been living together and having awesome sex since two weeks after we started dating and it is still awesome! | |
| Vote ID : 8659 | We started out having allot of sex then poof 3 months later we assumed we were dating.... It's been bad and good, right now its really good. | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | Technically in the same relationship, but we've been on and off within that time. | |
| Vote ID : 8668 | My four year relationship recently ended after we realized we were both negative influences on each other. | |
| Vote ID : 8681 | still sleeping and kind of dating. Facebook says "it's complicated" that is an understatement! | |
| Vote ID : 8714 | Marriage = daily opportunities to practice your sexpertise! | |
| Vote ID : 8725 | Some people are retarded. Actually lots of them. | |
| Vote ID : 8728 | it works, and continues to work | |
| Vote ID : 8729 | Just celebrated my 2nd anniversary with boyfriend | |
| Vote ID : 8733 | I am in an open relationship with my boyfriend of 2 and a half years. We live together and I date another man, whom I've dated for two years (he is also in an open relationship with his wife). My boyfriend is monogamous to me, but I am able to see other men if we discuss it. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | I hate men, yet it would seem that i always need to have one around... interesting concept... | |
| Vote ID : 8756 | In an open relationship which I now know I cannot handle | |
| Vote ID : 8784 | Bliss! | |
| Vote ID : 8786 | I'm dating awesome now. Before I was not! | |
| Vote ID : 8788 | Where are all the decent men my that are aproximately my age in this city hiding? | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | Single | |
| Vote ID : 8795 | Was sleeping with my roomate and boinking a sexy-friend at the same time, but both of those situations ended and now I am very happily monogamous. | |
| Vote ID : 8805 | I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a couple months now. It's the longest relationship I've ever been in. It gets fucking frustrating about once a week, but something keeps me from dumping his ass. It must be love. | |
| Vote ID : 8820 | Played the field, but settled down with someone special now. | |
| Vote ID : 8839 | i was casually sleeping with two guys on the regular. then i met an amazing guy and we became happily exclusive and serious. | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | I get enough out of it to stay... | |
| Vote ID : 8889 | Not really looking, just having fun being single | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | polyamory. | |
| Vote ID : 8915 | We were together for over 5 years and lived together. He dumped me and I had to find a new place to live. He knocked up a 20 year old a few months later and now i have a sweet downtown condo and no kid! | |
| Vote ID : 8921 | Got married. | |
| Vote ID : 8922 | I seem to have an expiry date stamped on my forehead. I've never been with someone for longer than 3 months. Don't know why, if it's on my end or theirs, but things just fizzle out. | |
| Vote ID : 8924 | Amazing! The most wonderful, sexy, fun, loving man I have ever been with and BY FAR the wettest, hottest, mind blowing sex of my life. The total package! Im insanely happy! sorry if that makes anyone throw up! | |
| Vote ID : 8931 | My ex boyfriend dumped me, I dated around for a while, and then I've started dating my new boyfriend in the past few months | |
| Vote ID : 8932 | My ex boyfriend dumped me, I dated around for a while, and then I've started dating my new boyfriend in the past few months | |
| Vote ID : 8943 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8946 | I'm a single 20 year old who isn't really looking for anything serious but is still up for a good lay every once in a while | |
| Vote ID : 8948 | Broke up with my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years in December and met a new guy recently, who I'm choosing to classify as a summer fling. | |
| Vote ID : 8966 | 8 years together... and never happier | |
| Vote ID : 8972 | We were best friends and eventually we hooked up and now we've been together for over a year and live together. :) | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | whirlwind year of love! | |
| Vote ID : 8996 | Together 9 years and counting. | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | Fabulous! Well matched. Knew him one year before becoming involved and hope to spend years with this one. | |
| Vote ID : 9011 | Married for a number of years but still flirt with other guys and wouldn't mind a shag with one in particular! | |
| Vote ID : 9045 | I am married and monogamous | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | I am interested in swinging | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | I have never been good at being a girlfriend. | |
| Vote ID : 9070 | We started dating Septmeber 11th of last year. Best byofriend ever! | |
| Vote ID : 9075 | I am madly in love with a man I met on vacation... W have made things work despite me living in three different countries over the period of our relationship. He will be moving to Canada this fall. | |
| Vote ID : 9117 | I was with my ex for two years. He dumped me because I failed to live up to his standards as far as psychological recovery was concerned and he had begun seeing an ex from college. I grieved for a few months and then out of the blue in a hazy booze fueled evening I ended up sleeping with a very good friend. In an attempt to overcome the awkwardness that would inevitably follow, we began spending copious amounts of time together which led to a realization of feelings. He is the greatest man. I am the happiest girl. | |
| Vote ID : 9122 | dating in your thirties SUCKS. Men mostly just want FWB instead of something committed (not that I am looking to get wed!) | |
| Vote ID : 9125 | Engaged to the man I've been dating for 2 years. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | I've been with my husband since high school and we've been married for 5 years. | |
| Vote ID : 9144 | Been together 3 1/2 yrs, Married 6 months | |
| Vote ID : 9149 | 2 months and counting! | |
| Vote ID : 9150 | Two relationships at the same time, but told both parties everything. Was awkward and decided to go back to the way it was before. Single relationship and one partner. | |
| Vote ID : 9161 | It's rad. Marriage rules. | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Together, with someone wonderful for over six months. | |
| Vote ID : 9174 | trying as many guys as possible | |
| Vote ID : 9191 | two main relationships, one ended, one kept going, is sort of ending. | |
| Vote ID : 9192 | Third wave feminism had made getting sex a lot easier but not a commited relationship. I'm a very independent person who has trouble 'partnering up'...it's my Achilles Heel so to speak. I feel too many people my age have an unrealistic view of lifelong partnerships so I want to learn how to be self sufficient before commiting for the long haul. I'm exploring my sexuality and meeting people. | |
| Vote ID : 9200 | weve been dating for 11.5 years | |
| Vote ID : 9201 | sex with good friends | |
| Vote ID : 9243 | things are better now | |
| Vote ID : 9245 | 10 months after breaking up with ex, I still feel like a monkey out of a cage, and the new relationship is fucking awesome. | |
| Vote ID : 9251 | It's awesome | |
| Vote ID : 9271 | Married | |
| Vote ID : 9282 | I have been happily married for 5 years. | |
| Vote ID : 9290 | I don't kiss and tell ;) | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | Still in love, still shacked up, still shagging like mad after four years. | |
| Vote ID : 9315 | Has been over a year, moved from a long distance relationship to one closer and with more action | |
| Vote ID : 9318 | Married | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | He's the love of my life, and I can't believe I went though life until last year without him. We were friends before, but now he is my best friend and I love him to bits! | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | It's wonderful. Hopefully it'll last a long time. | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | ive fallen in love | |
| Vote ID : 9351 | Got dumped and hooked up with a longtime friend. | |
| Vote ID : 9355 | My boyfriend and I dated breifly before both moving away to different cities. I am in love with the boy. We visited recently, but long distance relationships don't work and I am trying to meet other people, holding on to the dream we may end up together eventually one day. | |
| Vote ID : 9361 | There are too many flavors to choose just one for any period of time. | |
| Vote ID : 9388 | thank you thank you thank you for online dating | |
| Vote ID : 9392 | Three year itch! | |
| Vote ID : 9393 | I dated (or at least encountered) every asshole musician in Edmonton and after swearing off them for life, accidentally found one that stuck. | |
| Vote ID : 9417 | see above | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | Hmm, never really got over my ex and sto i started sleeping around becuase i thought it would make me happy, well obviously it didn't and so now i'm finally dating someone new, hope it works out. | |
| Vote ID : 9490 | have been dating for almost two years, having gone through one rough patch last year. It has been the best relationship I have ever been in. | |
| Vote ID : 9547 | I`m in a best-friends-with-benefits sort of thing. We see no reason to change it! We care about each other, but we`re not in an official relationship | |
| Vote ID : 9555 | ;) | |
| Vote ID : 9561 | Single | |
| Vote ID : 9564 | Things are looking up. | |
| Vote ID : 9576 | I'm married and in a monogamous relationship | |
| Vote ID : 9590 | We share geeky interests and we live together. It was hard to get used to, but now it's fun. | |
| Vote ID : 9591 | He's super cute and seems to like me too. | |
| Vote ID : 9608 | 3.5 years of an open relationship with a primary partner, with others on the side. | |
| Vote ID : 9609 | wonderfully in love | |
| Vote ID : 9628 | Some of the greatest sex with the most unlikely people | |
| Vote ID : 9632 | she is fantastic | |
| Vote ID : 9633 | Married for 6 years, been with him for 11 years. It's great. He's great. Best sex in my life. | |
| Vote ID : 9636 | NO | |
| Vote ID : 9657 | Just got married last Halloween after 8 years of being together. | |
| Vote ID : 9667 | single | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | I am married to some-one who is absolutely amazing in and out of bed. We will be married for a very long time...we experiment with other women. | |
| Vote ID : 9687 | had a friend with benefit (well, a couple with benefits) and then met a guy for a "duet" | |
| Vote ID : 9699 | I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | 10 years in the same relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 9718 | i am lucky to have a sweet caring man | |
| Vote ID : 9719 | I'm single. | |
| Vote ID : 9722 | Single for the past 18 months after ending a 2.5 year relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 9723 | I have been single and playing the field for years and i now have an exclusive boyfriend. | |
| Vote ID : 9727 | It's awesome, I get some and you don't, cleary. | |
| Vote ID : 9737 | We've been dating for over a year and a half and still going strong. | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | It's complicated...no option really fits. | |
| Vote ID : 9786 | I love him very much. | |
| Vote ID : 9793 | I'm in love with my boyfriend. We've been dating for three years and I feel like he is going to ask me to marry him soon. At the same time I have this unexpressed bisexual urge to be with a woman that is sort of frustrating me. | |
| Vote ID : 9794 | Husband - married this year been together 8 yrs. | |
| 14) The approach I take to my relationship is | ||
| Monogamous | 78.60% | |
| Non-monogamous | 6.99% | |
| Secretly non-monogamous | 4.37% | |
| Sometimes non-monogamous | 9.17% | |
| 15) What that means to me is | ||
| Vote ID : 8387 | Apparently to me this means video sex with only one person. One on one sex with the very same person, when he's in town. | |
| Vote ID : 8390 | trust, if i'm with you its all you and if its not you i have the decency to say it and the strength to say it to myself | |
| Vote ID : 8411 | I want to be with that person, I am comitted to them. | |
| Vote ID : 8413 | just the 2 of us! | |
| Vote ID : 8420 | I have one boy in my bed at a time. | |
| Vote ID : 8424 | 1 partner | |
| Vote ID : 8427 | We have a non-monogamy clause, but haven't really used it. Still too hung up on each other :) | |
| Vote ID : 8436 | no sex | |
| Vote ID : 8442 | He is the only one I want to be with and he feels the same way toward me. | |
| Vote ID : 8448 | im pretty old school, dont really play the field or sleep around when im with someone i truly care about them and would never do anything to hurt them. | |
| Vote ID : 8450 | generally, but there are grey areas that we have discussed, kind of like brian and justin from QAF, no kissing, never with the same person more then once. | |
| Vote ID : 8467 | Sex with the same man for many years but sometimes curious about others and flirt like crazy at times.... | |
| Vote ID : 8471 | one for one | |
| Vote ID : 8479 | No other men, duh. | |
| Vote ID : 8484 | we're married and only have sex with eachother | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | If they're into it, I'm okay with keeping it open. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | I'm with one person most of the time, but sometimes I want to meet up with old friends and have a good time. Not to mention that both of the serious contenders are not really into BDSM, or unaware of it, and sometimes I just need that outlet. | |
| Vote ID : 8507 | Everyones best interests in mind | |
| Vote ID : 8514 | Safe & Secure | |
| Vote ID : 8515 | I am not risking genital warts. | |
| Vote ID : 8520 | My boy and I have an understanding | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | freedom and excitement | |
| Vote ID : 8530 | Once we say we're together, and we've had that conversation then we are exclusive and monogamous. | |
| Vote ID : 8536 | Only kissing and sexual acts with one person. | |
| Vote ID : 8539 | being faithful -- it's not negotiable | |
| Vote ID : 8540 | No one else. Ever. | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | We have threeways [with professional girls] and adventurous sex, but we don't lie and cheat. I'd be willing to open a relationship if he needed but I don't need it and he doesn't seem to either. But I'd dump his butt if he lied. That's how herpres is spread, my friends. | |
| Vote ID : 8562 | I prefer, at least at this time in my life to work on the dynamics of only the two people in the relationship without any other interference, emotionally, sexually or otherwise. | |
| Vote ID : 8586 | all of my sexual relations will be with the person i am with unless we both want to explore otherwise | |
| Vote ID : 8589 | im not in a relationship but i do respect all my partners | |
| Vote ID : 8594 | NO sex, kissing on mouth etc. with other people | |
| Vote ID : 8596 | I prentend to love monogamy, but I would love to have a little fun on the side. | |
| Vote ID : 8607 | Right now, my sex life is great! Why would I need another partner? | |
| Vote ID : 8621 | I was cheated on once, I never would do that to someone. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | My girlfriend and I would be romantically and sexually involved only with each other and no-one else. Also, no flirting outside of the relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 8631 | No touchy with anyone but each other | |
| Vote ID : 8639 | If we've reached the point where we're in a relationship, then neither of us wants to be with anyone else physically or emotionally. You're of course allowed to look and even comment though. | |
| Vote ID : 8654 | we're only fooling around with each other | |
| Vote ID : 8655 | I have sex with one person, I kiss one person, I tell one person my deepest darkest secrets and I love one person... | |
| Vote ID : 8659 | he's the only person I have sex with, or anything else. Only if it was mutual I'd like to try some exploration outside. | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | Sexually intimate with only one person, but secretly longing to "play the field" a bit. | |
| Vote ID : 8668 | Stick with the one you love... or at least discuss any "extracurricular" activities before they happen. | |
| Vote ID : 8679 | I wouldn't be with someone if I had any desire to be with anyone else. | |
| Vote ID : 8681 | commitment. one person. period. | |
| Vote ID : 8728 | being honest and faithful | |
| Vote ID : 8729 | I'm only with one man | |
| Vote ID : 8733 | I don't like to share my boyfriend but he's a very giving kind of guy. That means that he likes letting other men enjoy what he gets to have all the time. Very philanthropic of him, really. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | im not going to cheat no more. time to turn over a new leaf | |
| Vote ID : 8756 | In theory, Open realtionships sound awesome but in practice they are tough. Jealousies flair up. | |
| Vote ID : 8760 | I lose interest | |
| Vote ID : 8784 | Totally committed to one another, emotionally and phyiscally. | |
| Vote ID : 8786 | No fun times with anyone else! | |
| Vote ID : 8788 | If I'm dating someone, and we've discussed exclusivity, I'm monogamous. If I'm not dating/ there's been no discussion, I can't be blamed for how I behave around liquor and cute boys. | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | One partner. Period. | |
| Vote ID : 8795 | I am intimate with only him and have feelings only towards him. | |
| Vote ID : 8801 | I prefer to keep it to my man but ther is opportunity to share the love. We'll see how that goes. | |
| Vote ID : 8805 | Dating one person & pretty much devoting your life to them. | |
| Vote ID : 8820 | Him and only him. | |
| Vote ID : 8839 | i care about him and this relationship enough to respect that he is not polyamourous. i have experienced functional and dysfunctional poly-relationships and because right now i am happy and more than satisfied, this works great for me. | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | again with the hassle.... | |
| Vote ID : 8872 | When I'm dating someone, they're the only one I'm with. But if no boundaries are defined, then I'm not monogamous. | |
| Vote ID : 8889 | Two people that are in a relationship are committed physically and emotionally to each other only. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | many different needs=many different relationships. | |
| Vote ID : 8915 | If I'm with someone, I'm with them all the way. | |
| Vote ID : 8921 | We don't see other people; to the best of my knowledge we're exclusive. | |
| Vote ID : 8922 | I am with one person in it's own special type of intimate relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 8924 | He is the only man I want sexually. Still hang with many of my guy friends, but only on a friendly, fun basis! | |
| Vote ID : 8931 | Sharing love with only one person | |
| Vote ID : 8932 | Sharing love with only one person | |
| Vote ID : 8943 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8944 | Monogamy is practical, but I dream of having a man-harem. | |
| Vote ID : 8946 | exclusive | |
| Vote ID : 8966 | comitment to a partnership | |
| Vote ID : 8972 | I don't have any intimate physical contact with others. Kissing on the cheeks and hugging, etc is okay. So is flirting. ;) | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | honesty and respect | |
| Vote ID : 8996 | That I'll never experience anything new for the rest of my life. | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | I can be single any time and do whatever without considering someone else so while I am involved in a mutually comitted relationship I choose to be monogamous. Why wreck a good think when it may take a long time to meet my high standard again. | |
| Vote ID : 9011 | Monogamous but hubby and I have talked about swapping partners with other couples; could be interesting if the right couple was found... | |
| Vote ID : 9045 | I only have sex with the partner I am currently with | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | I am interested in swinging | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | I am sometimes not a good girlfriend and also a jerk. | |
| Vote ID : 9070 | Dating one person exclusively | |
| Vote ID : 9075 | My body, heart and soul are my boyfriend's. In this relationship I would consider even kissing another man to be cheating. | |
| Vote ID : 9117 | We are completely faithful to one another, both physically and as much mentally as possible for a couple of healthy young adults. | |
| Vote ID : 9119 | We do not have sex with other people. | |
| Vote ID : 9122 | when I am in a relationship I only sleep with my partner. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | We have an open relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 9149 | we are with each other, physically and emotionally | |
| Vote ID : 9150 | One boyfriend/husband for me, but might be swingers (partner swap) when we're a little older. | |
| Vote ID : 9151 | Ive been in monogamous relationships as well as open relationships... it depends on the point of life i am in | |
| Vote ID : 9161 | One penis for the rest of my life! Thank GOD. | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | If you cheat, I will kick you in the family jewels, preventing your tainted DNA from entering the gene pool! | |
| Vote ID : 9174 | do whoever you can | |
| Vote ID : 9191 | An open relationship, fluidity, based on a tonne of communication and an openness to the idea of close relationships, sexual & emotional, with others. | |
| Vote ID : 9192 | Currently I'm not in a commited relationship. When I discover someone I will be monogamous unless we decide otherwise together. | |
| Vote ID : 9200 | not being gross | |
| Vote ID : 9201 | when i am with someone, i'm only with them sexually | |
| Vote ID : 9214 | No sleeping or emotionally cheating on someone. | |
| Vote ID : 9243 | no intimate encounters with others | |
| Vote ID : 9245 | I communicate honestly about my emotional and sexual needs. If some of those needs can't be met by one person and I feel they can be met by someone else, I let all involved parties know. | |
| Vote ID : 9250 | We swing on occaision | |
| Vote ID : 9251 | Much easier than dealing with the hassle of rules and emotions | |
| Vote ID : 9282 | That we are committed to each other and only each other. | |
| Vote ID : 9290 | I had a one night stand with a colleague...not particularly proud of that but the sex was off the charts good. | |
| Vote ID : 9313 | I don't feel the desire to sleep with other people. | |
| Vote ID : 9318 | Cheating on your wife hurts everyone. | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | I hate sharing! | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | I feel that if the need arose I should be able to live my life as sexually as I would like to. Unfortunately, my parther doesn't feel the same way. But. he fails to realize that I need boobs too! | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | im in love with one person and shes all i need physically and emotionally | |
| Vote ID : 9351 | more communication with your partner about how you are feeling. | |
| Vote ID : 9355 | When I am with someone I truly adore, I don't have any lustful desires for anyone else. But if and when my eyes do stray, I end up leaving him. | |
| Vote ID : 9361 | Don't stick where it don't belong. | |
| Vote ID : 9388 | If we have talked about monogamy, we're only fucking each other. | |
| Vote ID : 9392 | I have his okay to fool around with ladies. | |
| Vote ID : 9393 | Our sex lives are closed to other people. | |
| Vote ID : 9405 | It all depends on what's been discussed between me and my partner and what expectations are. But almost always that means monogamy. | |
| Vote ID : 9417 | see above | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | It means I am only for the person I am dating, none of this "i kissed a girl" stuff while i have a boyfriend, its not needed, if I wanna slut around I will end a relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 9487 | being with one person ONLY | |
| Vote ID : 9490 | I do not see other men or women while I am dating if it makes my partner uncomfortable. If I am in a more open relationship I may see two people at once and have a meaningful relationship with both. | |
| Vote ID : 9518 | No first, second, or third bases with anyone else. Flirting is ok. | |
| Vote ID : 9547 | He`s the only one I do anything remotely sexual with, and I wouldn`t think of being with anyone else. I`m not looking for a serious relationship with anyone, even him, so our system works well. | |
| Vote ID : 9555 | I don't do it with other people... and he does't either | |
| Vote ID : 9559 | Sometimes monogamous, sometimes polygamous. Depends on my partner of the time. | |
| Vote ID : 9561 | One partner. | |
| Vote ID : 9564 | I'm looking for a long-term partner to be exclusive with. In the meantime, I might have more than one partner concurrently, but once I'm committed, I'm committed. | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | I do what I want | |
| Vote ID : 9576 | we don't have sex with people outside our relationship and we have openly agreed to that | |
| Vote ID : 9590 | We're monogamous now, but open to the idea of non-monogamy in the future. It's all about open communication. | |
| Vote ID : 9591 | It's a little dull, but I don't want to mess up this relationship and I have a bad track record. | |
| Vote ID : 9598 | Depends on the relationship. I've done open, but I know it won't work with everyone. | |
| Vote ID : 9602 | I don't do anything sexual with anyone but my gf | |
| Vote ID : 9608 | open honest communication where we all take all our needs seriously and respect one another | |
| Vote ID : 9609 | completely exclusive to one another | |
| Vote ID : 9628 | this is mutually agreed upon and discussed | |
| Vote ID : 9632 | i don't have anything to spare for anyone else | |
| Vote ID : 9633 | Married and devoted for life. | |
| Vote ID : 9636 | NO | |
| Vote ID : 9649 | faithful | |
| Vote ID : 9657 | I can look at the book jacket but I can't open the book. | |
| Vote ID : 9667 | with one serious partner | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | I gotta go look and see...knowing that there is something in my life that is still just truly me is electrifying. Sometimes quite scarey, though, at the thought of getting caught...doesn't matter- its my dirty little secret. | |
| Vote ID : 9687 | sexually committed to one person at a time. | |
| Vote ID : 9699 | I am exclusively in love with one man only, forever! | |
| Vote ID : 9701 | I don't have an intimate sexual or sexually-related relationship with anyone other than my partner. I also don't establish close one-on-one friendships with people I'm really attracted to. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | internet sex chat with others. | |
| Vote ID : 9718 | He rocks but i can fantasize about different situations and characters | |
| Vote ID : 9719 | That I'm looking for a partner that is open to compromising and pleasing each other without the need of other persons. | |
| Vote ID : 9722 | Being physically and emotionally intimate with my boyfriend only. | |
| Vote ID : 9727 | Your mom? | |
| Vote ID : 9737 | No outside partners. Nothing beyond hugging with other partners. If he wants to be emotionally non-monogamous, that's a problem in our relationship too. | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | When I'm in an exclusive relationship, I'm exclusive to my partner. When it isn't explicitly stated, then I feel free to play. | |
| Vote ID : 9786 | Absolute faithfulness and loyalty. | |
| Vote ID : 9793 | I'm loyal to my boyfriend and I don't fool around with other guys or girls, even though I want to. | |
| Vote ID : 9794 | We have boundaries and negotiate other parties involvement in our sex life from time to time. | |
| 16) I use condoms because | ||
| I don't use condoms because neither I, nor my partner, have a penis | 4.80% | |
| I want to protect against pregnancy | 11.35% | |
| I want to protect against disease | 7.86% | |
| I want to protect against pregnancy AND disease | 33.62% | |
| I have been stepping out on my partner | 0.44% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I am monogamous | 34.93% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I have a death wish | 1.31% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I’m a virgin | 4.80% | |
| 17) Last year, I contributed to the sex industry by | ||
| Looking at porn but not paying for it | 58.52% | |
| Buying pornography | 10.48% | |
| Buying a sex toy | 53.28% | |
| Going to the peelers | 15.72% | |
| Going to the baths / peeps | 0.00% | |
| Going to a sex professional | 0.87% | |
| I did not contribute to the sex industry | 19.65% | |
| 19) I would have sex more often if it weren’t for | ||
| Being single and not meeting people | 25.33% | |
| Working too much | 21.83% | |
| Being too busy | 29.69% | |
| Having an unwilling partner | 10.04% | |
| My damn kids | 3.49% | |
| This STI | 0.87% | |
| My sexual dysfunction | 3.49% | |
| High prices of sex professionals | 0.44% | |
| I love the amount of sex I have | 32.31% | |
| 20) My abilities as a lover are | ||
| Amazing | 19.21% | |
| More than adequate | 60.70% | |
| OK | 15.28% | |
| Not that good | 1.31% | |
| I need some serious help here | 2.62% | |
| 21) Tell us about that | ||
| Vote ID : 8387 | Nothin' but high praise so far. Well, except that I don't give up the rear enough, but I make up for it with squirting and blow jobs good enough the make a BJ hater (ladies, it does exist, and chances are it's your fault for fucking it up so much!) to beg for more. | |
| Vote ID : 8390 | i'm empathetic, adventurous and i get a kick out of pleasing people | |
| Vote ID : 8411 | I don't get a lot of practice, but I have received a couple compliments | |
| Vote ID : 8413 | It is all about the love- knowing what your spouse likes | |
| Vote ID : 8420 | I swallow. That puts me in the "more than adequate" abilities, doesn't it? | |
| Vote ID : 8424 | I'm a little self conscious about my body lately... 7months preggo! | |
| Vote ID : 8427 | I get good reviews ;P | |
| Vote ID : 8436 | I've become very well acquainted with my own body and senses. You have to first know how to make yourself feel good, to know what it may take to make another feel good. | |
| Vote ID : 8448 | i give a great blow job! plus my boobs are amazing! overall im very giving in bed and morning sex is the best or at least a morning blow so you have a great day at work! | |
| Vote ID : 8450 | so i've heard... =) | |
| Vote ID : 8467 | There's always room for improvement, right? And my husband doesn't like the way that I kiss, I'm a bit of a slobbery kisser | |
| Vote ID : 8479 | I just am. | |
| Vote ID : 8484 | am willing to try new things, not prude. | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | I'm pretty okay the first few times, but absolutely go off when I get comfortable with my partner. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | I think it kinda depends on the circumstances. I'm into BDSM and there, the skills and the way you use them are totally different than in a situation of just straight sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8507 | I feel that with several long-term relationships under my belt I've learned the art of pleasuring others. | |
| Vote ID : 8514 | like fine wine I just keep getting better | |
| Vote ID : 8515 | I'm not self conscious, that helps. | |
| Vote ID : 8520 | Can't be a dynamo 24/7! | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | hey i am over the hill - what can i say? | |
| Vote ID : 8530 | I've always gotten great reviews, and I know they aren't just flattery because I have very good guy friends who have told me that yes, past lovers speak very highly of me. | |
| Vote ID : 8536 | I have a high sex drive, Im flexable, and Im almost always happy to have sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | I do my best to be a GGG girlfriend. [reference: Savage Love] I'm not thin though so that limits us a little I feel, but not by much. I think anyone who checks amazing is a liar. We all have room for improvement. | |
| Vote ID : 8562 | I always tend to be the one left less than satisfied. | |
| Vote ID : 8586 | It really depends on the person that I'm with how close I feel, or how drunk I am | |
| Vote ID : 8589 | ive been told that i am very good | |
| Vote ID : 8594 | I'm still pretty new to the field | |
| Vote ID : 8596 | When I'm in the mood, I LOVE sex, I'm very passionate and a very good lover. | |
| Vote ID : 8607 | Why? Anyone who thinks they're amazing is probably a pompous ass. How's about that. | |
| Vote ID : 8621 | I've just been told I am pretty great. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | Never been in a relationship, have no idea what to do. Haven't you read my previous answers, dumbass? | |
| Vote ID : 8631 | Up for almost anything... I'm FUN! | |
| Vote ID : 8639 | Lips: A, Hips: B. | |
| Vote ID : 8653 | Not confident. | |
| Vote ID : 8654 | I feel like I lose a bunch of points when I'm with someone new, it takes a while to get to know them | |
| Vote ID : 8655 | Everytime I get naked whether it's getting dressed for the day or putting on my jammies my hubby is all over me! Either that means I'm okay or he is just crazy, haha. | |
| Vote ID : 8659 | I'm woirking on it haha | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | What can I say, I love to please. | |
| Vote ID : 8668 | Let's say I wasn't always monogamous... I love experimentation and trying new things. When word got out I was single after four years, a number of old companions started calling... | |
| Vote ID : 8681 | i do alright | |
| Vote ID : 8729 | Haven't had any complaints | |
| Vote ID : 8733 | I can only vouch for what I've been told. I'm open minded, non-judgemental and laid back. Apparently I can deep throat really well, but I'm not sure what poor deep throating looks like. Also, I have a high tolerance for pain which makes me a great submissive. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | its all about chemistry | |
| Vote ID : 8756 | I prefer not to | |
| Vote ID : 8786 | I know what he likes and how to turn him on! | |
| Vote ID : 8788 | Or so says all the guys I've been with... though they haven't all been more than adequate. Maybe I'm just ok and they're lying or have had crap partners except for me... | |
| Vote ID : 8795 | What HE said: "Baby, whoever taught you how to give head... I wish I could give him a high-five." | |
| Vote ID : 8805 | I am a lady on the streets, but a freak in the bed. | |
| Vote ID : 8839 | i feel confident and reciprocated in my skills | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | I am creative, inventive, open-minded and really really love to make my partner moan Oh My God! | |
| Vote ID : 8889 | I've been told that I'm good in bed. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | i like to please. | |
| Vote ID : 8915 | Well, I've been doing it for a long time, and in lots of different ways! | |
| Vote ID : 8921 | The feedback I get is good. | |
| Vote ID : 8922 | Every guy I've been with has told me I suck a mean dick. I can't help it, I like a good cock. | |
| Vote ID : 8924 | well, no complaints so far. I like to be open to new things and open to feed back. I enjoy sex and it gets me off when I know he is getting off also. Win win! | |
| Vote ID : 8931 | Speaks for itself, doesn't it? | |
| Vote ID : 8932 | Speaks for itself, doesn't it? | |
| Vote ID : 8943 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8944 | I'm quite athletic and like to show off in bed; I can also have explosive multiple orgasms which are fun for everyone! | |
| Vote ID : 8946 | when you're with the right person, everything just clicks and it works out great. | |
| Vote ID : 8972 | I am an enthusiastic lover with a high sex drive, I virtually never say no. I wish my man felt the same way . . . | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | True story! I've been told! | |
| Vote ID : 8984 | I used to be awesome | |
| Vote ID : 8996 | It's hard to be excited about trying new things when you have 0 libido. | |
| Vote ID : 9011 | Have only had 3 sexual partners so I don't really know; would love to try another lover but have been married for a number of years and fear that I am less than adequate now | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | Eventually I will be really good at sex. | |
| Vote ID : 9070 | My boyfriend is satisfied: we try new things, fulfill fantasies, i have lots of outfits, toys, and enjoy oral (giving and receiving) | |
| Vote ID : 9117 | I starting researching sex and how to pleasure ones partner at a young age. Add to that a healthy amount of experience and everybody's happy. | |
| Vote ID : 9122 | Although I haven't had many partners (I'm picky) they have all said I was the best, most creative/imaginative/adventurous partner they've ever had. So why can't I get any now!?? LOL | |
| Vote ID : 9125 | I've only ever had vaginal intercourse with one man, but he thinks I'm fantastic. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | When you've been with the same person for so long you know what they like. So as far as my partner's concerned, & that's the only vote that counts, I'm amazing! | |
| Vote ID : 9144 | Practise makes perfect, especially with a partner you can practise and experimant with | |
| Vote ID : 9150 | I'm inexperienced still and a little young to be very, very good. It takes time to build those skills. | |
| Vote ID : 9161 | I aim to please and we have amazing communication so we can tell each other what we need and what we want! | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | My partner & I have good sex-karma. What goes around cums around. | |
| Vote ID : 9174 | no one has ever complained | |
| Vote ID : 9192 | I am open to exploring different areas of human sexuality. I would describe myself as 'kink curious' because I am still looking for a partner whose interested in some light bondage, painting and sadomasochism. | |
| Vote ID : 9200 | sometimes i don't try hard | |
| Vote ID : 9214 | I willingly give amazing blow jobs. | |
| Vote ID : 9243 | my boyfriend wrote that | |
| Vote ID : 9245 | It's all about partnership, really. I can't rate my abilities outside of the current sexual relationship that I'm in. But because the sex in my current relationship is fucking amazing, I have to say, so I am. | |
| Vote ID : 9250 | I work at my skills | |
| Vote ID : 9271 | Sex has always been very painful for me. I do it because I love my partner, but I'd really rather not. | |
| Vote ID : 9282 | I am good to my partner in the bedroom. | |
| Vote ID : 9290 | I've been told that my hands and mouth are pretty amazing, so I take that as a compliment. | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | I think that being a good lover is about listening and paying attention. The chemistry in my relationship is awesome, but the sex is even better because we both pay attention and care about the other's enjoyment. | |
| Vote ID : 9318 | Unfortunately diabities can also cause permature ejaculation due to the flow of blood and that sucks, can cause erectile difficulties but that hasn't happened yet thank god | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | I give the worlds best blowjob. Fer realz. The trick...is to ENJOY giving them!!!! | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | I am lacking a bit in the sack only because my parnter lacks in turning me on or initiating sexual action. | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | i feel unable to make her happy. | |
| Vote ID : 9351 | I have been told I am pretty good. | |
| Vote ID : 9355 | Maybe I am modest but my abilities are only decent as I am often shy in the bedroom and I haven't been able to break that. However, that's all that is stopping me from being mindblowing. | |
| Vote ID : 9392 | I am too much sex for my past my past his prime pothead boyfriend. | |
| Vote ID : 9393 | As far as I can tell, the only thing that rules about being in my thirties is that I fucking RULE in bed, and I know it. | |
| Vote ID : 9405 | Actually it's varied and depends more on how well I know the person (ie. how long we've been together). Right out of the gate? Maybe not so good. | |
| Vote ID : 9417 | positive attitude | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | Well, I tend to get guys off pretty fast, maybe they are all secretly virgins and didn't want to tell me. But to be honest I do what I do and it seems to work, i would assume seeing as it gets the job done it feels good for the guy, and it usually feels good for me so *thumbs up*. | |
| Vote ID : 9490 | I have full confidence in my abilities as a lover, and so does my partner ;) | |
| Vote ID : 9547 | He seems happy! Neither of us have anyone to compare with though. | |
| Vote ID : 9555 | ;) | |
| Vote ID : 9561 | Not tonnes of experience | |
| Vote ID : 9564 | It depends on the partner, but I haven't had many complaints. | |
| Vote ID : 9576 | would love to experiment more but don't have the time and energy | |
| Vote ID : 9590 | I'm GGG, attentive and enthusiastic. | |
| Vote ID : 9591 | Far more praise than complaints. Apparently, I have spectacular breasts. Yes, they are real. | |
| Vote ID : 9598 | My oral skillz are beyond reproach. My lack of orgasm frustrating for my partners. | |
| Vote ID : 9608 | Practice makes perfect and I'm pretty (ethically) slutty. | |
| Vote ID : 9628 | I have been told by the married man I was seeing that I "ruined" him; i.e., sex will always be unsatisfactory with his wife. | |
| Vote ID : 9632 | meh | |
| Vote ID : 9636 | NO | |
| Vote ID : 9649 | Could use more practice | |
| Vote ID : 9657 | I mean, everyone likes to think they are amazing but how many of us really are. I think on a fair shake I am amazing somedays but no one is all the time...and if you are send me a text! | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | I have just been having sex since I was 11...I have had so many lovers from all over the world and while travelling...when I was single- I was an amazing player...The trick- do not have any of your lovers from the same social networks. This way they will never cross paths. Another trick-don't even exchange phone numbers. For one night stands...no names or give an alias. These are probably the main reasons for having over 300 partners of different shapes sizes, ethnicities, customs-You just become a good judge of what to do with whom and you share an AMAZING experience together. NOTE: I am not a loose slut...very sexual AND very picky about whom I choose to sleep with. | |
| Vote ID : 9687 | I like adventure and so does my partner. 'nuff said. | |
| Vote ID : 9699 | I think I am a good lover emotionally and physically | |
| Vote ID : 9701 | I'm probably more concerned about myself than my partner. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | Feel that I have had enough partners in the past 35 years that I have learned a few things | |
| Vote ID : 9718 | put on the music baby! yea! | |
| Vote ID : 9722 | I don't know! Virgin! | |
| Vote ID : 9727 | NO | |
| Vote ID : 9737 | I have my insecurities. | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | All my past partners have indicated that I have helped them explore things they otherwise would not have, which is kind of interesting considering I got a late start on sex :) | |
| Vote ID : 9786 | I consider myself great in bed. | |
| Vote ID : 9793 | I think I'm pretty good, although I don't have a lot to compare against. I'm proud of my abilities to deep throat and overall I think I'm pretty awesome at fellatio. | |
| Vote ID : 9794 | I'm fun, enthusiastic, GGG (dan savage reference), attractive, well groomed, keep myself in good physical and mental shape, express my sexual needs, and listen to my partners. | |
| 22) I would experiment outside the bounds of my sexual orientation | ||
| Yes | 54.59% | |
| No | 16.59% | |
| Maybe | 27.51% | |
| 23) I would “partner swap” | ||
| Yes | 12.66% | |
| No | 58.08% | |
| Maybe | 27.95% | |
| 24) I would go to a sex club | ||
| Yes | 20.96% | |
| No | 44.54% | |
| Maybe | 33.19% | |
| 25) I would use a sex toy on myself | ||
| Yes | 85.59% | |
| No | 3.06% | |
| Maybe | 10.04% | |
| 26) I would use a sex toy on my partner | ||
| Yes | 76.42% | |
| No | 7.42% | |
| Maybe | 14.85% | |
| 27) I would make a dirty movie | ||
| Yes | 40.17% | |
| No | 27.95% | |
| Maybe | 30.57% | |
| 28) I’d take it in the butt | ||
| Yes | 47.16% | |
| No | 30.13% | |
| Maybe | 21.40% | |
| 29) I would visit a sex worker | ||
| Yes | 4.37% | |
| No | 81.66% | |
| Maybe | 12.66% | |
| 30) I would consider bestiality | ||
| Yes | 0.44% | |
| No | 93.89% | |
| Maybe | 4.37% | |
| 31) I would do it in a public place | ||
| Yes | 65.50% | |
| No | 4.80% | |
| Maybe | 28.38% | |
| 32) I would sleep with someone who is married, but not to me | ||
| Yes | 21.40% | |
| No | 56.33% | |
| Maybe | 20.96% | |
| 33) I’d have an abortion | ||
| Yes | 49.78% | |
| No | 23.14% | |
| Maybe | 25.76% | |
| 34) I always follow the “half my age plus seven” rule | ||
| Yes | 25.33% | |
| No | 53.71% | |
| Maybe | 19.65% | |
| 35) I would sleep with someone for money | ||
| Yes | 13.10% | |
| No | 61.57% | |
| Maybe | 24.02% | |
| 36) I would use drugs to enhance sexual pleasure | ||
| Yes | 31.44% | |
| No | 40.17% | |
| Maybe | 27.07% | |
| 37) I would cheat on my partner | ||
| Yes | 6.11% | |
| No | 75.55% | |
| Maybe | 17.03% | |
| 38) I’d use the Internet to hook up: | ||
| Yes | 22.27% | |
| No | 48.91% | |
| Maybe | 27.51% | |
| 39) Is there anything else you’d like to tell us about? | ||
| Vote ID : 8390 | sex is a feeling as much as an act, if it feels right go for it, if your super drunk and its probably going to suck and you have to work in the morning? well if you're really attracted to eachother it'll happen when its meant to. go home sweetie | |
| Vote ID : 8424 | I once had a sexual bdsm relationship with a man 24 years my elder | |
| Vote ID : 8427 | Lets see: I can't really experiment outside my orientation because I am bi; the only way I could cheat on my partner is to lie, which I don't do; I have "done it" in a public place...long long ago. | |
| Vote ID : 8450 | Love the new website! | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | When I did this survey last year, the answers were quite different as I was only starting to explore my sexuality. | |
| Vote ID : 8507 | I've cheate don my current partner because of intense emotions for an ex-flame. The sex with the ex is much more passionate and emotional for me than with the new partner, even though the new guy is better endowed. Passion>Size. | |
| Vote ID : 8515 | Stereotypes about race and penis size are false. | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | who makes these rules? Consenting adults can do what they like | |
| Vote ID : 8536 | Had a sexual relationship with a woman for the first time, it was interesting, good experience but doesn't make me want to try it again. After doing that, I can say for certain that Im not a lesbian or bi-sexual...but bi-curious. | |
| Vote ID : 8539 | no | |
| Vote ID : 8540 | No! | |
| Vote ID : 8586 | men need to stop trying to hard in bed and slow down and just enjoy themselves, and let me enjoy, its not a race. and sex with someone you know and are comfortable with is always better sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8594 | My boyfriend told me he likes eating me out. I think thats great. | |
| Vote ID : 8596 | That I'd like to fuck my best friend's boyfriend because I heard that he has a firehose for a dick. I'm a terrible human being. I also hate him, but hate sex is fantastic. | |
| Vote ID : 8607 | Not. . .really? That's a pretty open-ended question. "Oh yes, my dog got fleas and it was just horrible. Pity me." | |
| Vote ID : 8621 | I've only ever had partners. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | I have had bestiality fantasies but have never acted them out. I prefer to identify as 'gay' but I have had some attractions to men. I am very confident and happy about my sexuality, and enjoy using a vibrator on a daily basis. I am currently planning to buy a 'Feeldoe' dildo, because the idea of wearing one turned me on. | |
| Vote ID : 8654 | no | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | I would totally do it in the wilderness, but not in a populated area. | |
| Vote ID : 8668 | Sometimes it's frustrating that with age and wisdom come a greater sense of responsibility to behave within the ideals of society... but sometimes I wish I could still be a slutty 18 year old. | |
| Vote ID : 8679 | I would have sex more often if it weren’t for: long distance for 3months | |
| Vote ID : 8733 | I believe in making prostition illegal so that we can better protect those who decide to become protitutes but I would never pay for sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | I am bi-curious but i cant ever seem to find any girls interested in a one night thing. And i KNOW they are out there..... | |
| Vote ID : 8756 | I can't believe you asked about bestiality | |
| Vote ID : 8788 | does alchohol count as a drug to enhance sexual pleasure? If so... I use drugs all the time during sex :) | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | No, I'm pretty depressed now. | |
| Vote ID : 8793 | no | |
| Vote ID : 8805 | I have an infatuation with one of my guy friends. I'm scared that it will turn into something more and interfere with my relationship. It's made me question monogamy. | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | Nope | |
| Vote ID : 8889 | No | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | sex is good. sex is healthy. i love sex. and i would try *just* about anything and everything at least once. | |
| Vote ID : 8922 | I'm a great lay and a great gal. Date Me! | |
| Vote ID : 8943 | nothing | |
| Vote ID : 8944 | I would be sluttier if there wasn't such a social stigma to women being sluts and if I weren't so terrified about pregnancy and STIs. | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | I would enthusiastically stick my entire hand in someone's cunt or butt! | |
| Vote ID : 8996 | I've never orgasmed, and I've been sexually active for 10 years. | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | A good male lover puts a woman first cuz when you truly do it will be even better for you! | |
| Vote ID : 9011 | Think it's OK to experiment as long as it's concensual and no one is being hurt/tortured unless you're into that. | |
| Vote ID : 9070 | no | |
| Vote ID : 9117 | Sometimes monogomy gets a bad wrap. It bums me out a little. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | No. | |
| Vote ID : 9150 | Not really. :) | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | The last time I checked, "too hard" wasn't the safeword we'd agreed on. | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | I am awesome. Just sayin. | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | Monogomy in society should almost be a crime for the lack of experimentation involved. | |
| Vote ID : 9355 | I can't think of anything specific. | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | I love car-sex. | |
| Vote ID : 9561 | n/a | |
| Vote ID : 9591 | I wouldn't cheat on my current partner, but I have in past relationships. | |
| Vote ID : 9636 | NO | |
| Vote ID : 9657 | Beastiality, seriously....nightmarish. | |
| Vote ID : 9667 | no | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | Just let it all out, be honest with yourself and the partner you're with. Sex is another way to communicate. Sex with yourself and fantacies are just as important. Keep every-one safe. Be selfish and get the pleasure your looking for. | |
| Vote ID : 9687 | nope. | |
| Vote ID : 9691 | no | |
| Vote ID : 9727 | nopee | |
| Vote ID : 9737 | Not really. | |
| 40) Tell us about the most exciting sex you’ve had in the past year | ||
| Vote ID : 8384 | with a lover i met overseas. on the beach. it was sandy | |
| Vote ID : 8387 | I had probably the best sex of my life in Chicago a few months ago. I was at some pro-skateboarder party and eyed this adorable man with a huge beard standing in the corner by himself just watching the crowd. I eventually went up and talked to him, we swapped long-distance numbers and the next day I went to his art studio (sounds tacky, but it paid off). We chatted nervously totally knowing what was going to happen and waiting for someone to make the first move when he finally leaned over and kissed me. That first totally hot kiss led to four rounds of the hottest, rowdiest, hair-pulling, ass-in-the-air, spankings and neck biting that I've ever experienced. He went again and again, so turned on by me that I swear I was the hottest girl in the world that night. Unfortunately I had bailed on a girlfriend that I was visiting in Chi-town and had to go back to her place to get my suitcase and head to the airport home to sunny Edmonton. He drove me home with two hours to spare before my flight, but all we could do was stand in the foyer of the apartment building, kissing and grabbing onto each other, still so horny for each other that we didn't want to pull apart. Finally, with my friend waiting eagerly in her apartment, he lifted me up and carried me to the laundry room, the DOORLESS laundry room three feet away from the front door, and bent me over the washing machine for one fast, hard, exciting last time. I never saw him again, but I got mad high-fives from the girls when I walked through that apartment door. | |
| Vote ID : 8390 | a long lost flame, we met randomly without seeing eachother for a couple years. beer, pool, an empty bar and a juke box with blues. sexual tension must've done it.. the power went out, next thing i know i'm up against the wall with my skirt up, gripping eachother so tightly i could've eaten every piece of him. we ran outside after and it was pouring rain, we ran across the street to seek safety in the casino, but they wouldnt let us in. we ran around the side and he lifted me up. i was wrapped around him in the pitch black pouring rain lightning in the sky, pushed up against the wall. my heart was pounding so hard and he tasted just like i remembered | |
| Vote ID : 8410 | When my baby was conceived | |
| Vote ID : 8411 | I slept with my friend who I've known for years (we call each other for booty calls once in a while). I enjoy sleeping with him as he is big enough, and strong enough to man handle me. He can drag me across the bed to him, and he usually does. He knows what I like, and I enjoy not having to give instructions. Plus he enjoys spanking me, which turns me on. | |
| Vote ID : 8413 | We went csmping on our 11th anniversary- we had constant sex ( tent, in the bush, at the lake...) it was pretty amazing as we had been apart for a month. It also resulted in the amazing conception of our month old daughter. It was exciting and now we have a constant reminder. It had passion, fueled by animal like savage behavior- some vino and vodka too. Sounds perfect, can't wait for our 12th anniversary- with birth control :) | |
| Vote ID : 8420 | For me, the most exciting sex is the kind you have with those fucking hot travelers who you know you're never going to see again so you try out everything you've ever wanted to but couldn't with a vanilla boyfriend. | |
| Vote ID : 8424 | at my work place after hours... :) | |
| Vote ID : 8427 | Hehe. Got some Pure Satisfaction at a sex toy demo. Well worth it ;) | |
| Vote ID : 8450 | Hmmm.... probs first time with a strap-on I reckon. | |
| Vote ID : 8467 | Trying different positions with my husband is about as exciting as it gets. What's worse is thinking about the guy that you flirt with at work while your partner is making you have orgasm after orgasm which is what I have been doing for the past couple of months... | |
| Vote ID : 8479 | EMOTIONAL BREAKDOWN SEX! | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | I had a threesome with my ex-boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend a couple of months ago. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | Tough call... Probably a relatively small but slightly a sex party where we were almost all (those of us active, anyways) somehow part of this big poly group. So it was like, suddenly tonight I get up to four or five partners. Then we went to the strippers and I finger fucked a girl in the bathroom. That was pretty cool. (Because it's the most public thing I've done yet) | |
| Vote ID : 8507 | Was with a new partner who happened to be much more well endowed than my previous one. Though, months later getting back together with my ex was incredibly exciting on an emotional level. | |
| Vote ID : 8514 | I don't screw and tell :) | |
| Vote ID : 8515 | In the back room of a cafe. I think the owners of the next building heard us. | |
| Vote ID : 8520 | I met the boy I've been talking to online for years. He was just as amazing as I thought he'd be :) | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | Taking orders from soldierboy man in his uniform to get us naked and crazy for the first time! | |
| Vote ID : 8530 | I was by myself in the shower...I wish it was more exciting than that. | |
| Vote ID : 8536 | Sex with a woman. | |
| Vote ID : 8539 | sorry - nothing to tell | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | I think all our sex is pretty mindblowingly exciting. I think my favorite was the threeway we recently had. I think the reason it was so "exciting" was because it was very different for my partner. Not something I regularly do either but I've done them before. We decided to go with a professional because in the past I've lost friendships and/or relationships to jealousy or romantic issue that get all tangled up in them and as i don't think a boyfriend will ever be jealous of a hooker that was the choice we made. it worked out excellently. It may have cost us a decent amount but we had an amazing time, no ones feelings were hurt and I even learned a few new trick. definitely and experience I'd do again and recommend others try. | |
| Vote ID : 8562 | I haven't had enough to have a good story for you, unfortunately. | |
| Vote ID : 8586 | me and my ex would always try be sneaky about sex and play with eachother in public and around his friends even, those poor guys, a few tent sharing stories with them present, hope for their sake they didnt know what was going on. | |
| Vote ID : 8588 | all is exciting | |
| Vote ID : 8594 | It just didn't stop. We would finish and then minutes later be at it again, and all over the house. | |
| Vote ID : 8596 | Sometimes I get horny when I'm cooking, so I'd say the best sex I've had has been quickies while I wait for food to cook. | |
| Vote ID : 8607 | Given that my manfriend and I sex eachother up pretty much every other day, if not more frequently, and I'm not a 17 year old highschooler who needs to brag to his football buddies about all that sweet ass he's getting, I don't know what was the most exciting sex that I've had in the past year? It could have been last Tuesday, it could have been in December? I don't keep a journal of it, strangely. | |
| Vote ID : 8621 | Standard, I guess. It was the end phase of an unhappy relationship. Pretty necessary at best. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | I haven't had sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8631 | On a ferry in Greece... Pubic places are so hot. We were on the deck standing in the wind. He was behind me and I was WET! | |
| Vote ID : 8639 | An actual hate sex experience. We had met each other the day before and immediately despised the other (he was a friend of my friend's vacation fling). He was not my type (or hopefully anyone's?): tobacco-chewing, racist, navy boy from Ohio. He insulted me to my face and I to his. We viciously tore down anything the other was saying. And then we were left alone for fifteen minutes. I laughed at something and he told me to shut up, forcibly kissing me until I did. It was probably the hottest (and quickest) sex I've ever had. We didn't acknowledge each other's existence after that and I haven't seen him since I walked him out of the door. | |
| Vote ID : 8654 | We were on vacation and played the no kissing game one night. It drove me crazy! | |
| Vote ID : 8655 | Right after I had my daughter. Everyone says that your sex drive goes down after you've had a child or that it isn't as good, but that's not always true. I found that after I had my daughter I was so excited to have sex without the belly in the way that it might as well have been the first time for us. | |
| Vote ID : 8659 | Nope that would implicate me | |
| Vote ID : 8668 | In a coat room at a wedding where my partner was the best man. | |
| Vote ID : 8679 | The first time with my new partner | |
| Vote ID : 8729 | We had sex in the room next to his parents at their house | |
| Vote ID : 8733 | It was all exciting. If it was mostly mediocre with one a few amazing times, this question might be easier. But I feel like my partners and I are always pushing ourselves to the limit. We are experimenting, learning, exploring and this leads to a great time every time. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | he held my wrists behind my back while giving it to me doggy style. it was the best sex i've had yet for that sole reason. | |
| Vote ID : 8786 | Road-side pullout on a car trip, in the back seat of a car, in broad daylight! | |
| Vote ID : 8788 | Sadly enough, the best encounters I've had in the last year were the foreplay ones. One of the guys didn't live up to the expectations he'd set when we did sleep together, the other one I was (just) smart enough never to sleep with, despite several encounters. | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | It involved me and a my friend Duracell | |
| Vote ID : 8793 | The swing is pretty relaxing | |
| Vote ID : 8795 | a one-night stand that turned into a nine-hour fuck session. and yes, we're seriously dating now and have been inseparable since then. | |
| Vote ID : 8801 | I like it when there are other people nearby. It gets me excited at the thought I might get caught. | |
| Vote ID : 8803 | I was tied up and couldn't move while my partner did lovely, lovely things to my body. ;) | |
| Vote ID : 8805 | Pretty much 90% of the sex I have with my boyfriend is phenomenal. The 10% counts towards random times where we were too tired or we didn't have enough time to finish. We like to have 1-2 hour sex sessions before going to bed, and they are seriously so goddamn incredible. | |
| Vote ID : 8820 | During a thunder storm- thigh highs, high heels, handcuffs, and a crop. | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | I was in the mood and totally relaxed and gave my partner amazing knee collapsing oral sex-which made me killer ready to go and so we then explored each other for several hours until I needed to orgasm and then rolled over, snuggled in and slept soundly! | |
| Vote ID : 8889 | In the past year, I was still with my boyfriend, and we both made sure that we made sex as exciting as possible. Whether it was trying new things, or being in different places. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | on the top of a hill at a family reunion. the person may or may not have been related to me. the abortion question, how is this relevant to a person's sex life at all? this one should be removed. and the condome question should include dental dams. | |
| Vote ID : 8922 | Being so riled up after a night on the town, my boyfriend ate me out for like an hour, then literally fucked me off the bed. It was awesome. The best dick I've had the pleasure of cuming in contact with, haha! | |
| Vote ID : 8924 | While driving to work on a beautiful sunny morning, my boyfriend was rubbing me and touching me and making me so insane I had to pull over and lead him to a picnic bench in the river valley, where he quickly ripped off my jeans, and sat me on top. the early morning dew moistening my back and my vagina pulsing, and dripping wet. He stood in between and ravished me until a man and his two dogs walked by and we had to put our morning rendezvous to a disappointing halt. But the thoughts that carried me through the rest of the day, were so sexy and intense. And the built up sexual urges turned into unbelievable after work sex! | |
| Vote ID : 8943 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8946 | ha. no, it's too personal. ...ie: it wasn't a random fling. | |
| Vote ID : 8948 | My summer fling. My entire body was vibrating afterwards. | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | Private lesbian sex parties: yes, believe it or not, in Edmonton!!! | |
| Vote ID : 8996 | I no longer have a sex drive, but I fake it every once in a while for my partner's sake. It's loads of fun. | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | When my partner shows me he wants me me me that in itself is the start of excitement. When sex is about pleasing me even more than him that is a good lover so it comes back to him in terms of my increased desire. Thus mutually pleasing. Most exciting is probably still to come as we have more time together. I like near public experiences , bondage And role playing games etc once a great base has been established. Equality in the bedroom is almost as important to me as it is in life. | |
| Vote ID : 9011 | Just trying different positions with my spouse so nothing extremely exciting. Up for 'almost' anything though other than the things I said 'no' to in your survey. | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | sadly nothing exciting lately | |
| Vote ID : 9057 | Had revenge sex on an office desk with my co-worker's ex-boyfriend. The office was located in the upstairs of the restaurant that she helped him build. She told rumors at work, blamed them on me, so I slept with the love of her life where it hurt. And it was my hottest to date. | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | I haven't had sex in the past year. I had a totally spontaneous orgasm while walking down the street about a month ago, though, which was pretty nice. | |
| Vote ID : 9070 | Having great sex with my partner whom i appreciate and adore. | |
| Vote ID : 9080 | reconnecting with lover after not seeing them for 16 months. | |
| Vote ID : 9117 | I'm...not that exciting. Exciting for me was after my current boyfriend and I had slept together the first time and were attempting to maintain the friendship we starting having amazing sex unbeknownst to the whole world. I really enjoyed that. | |
| Vote ID : 9122 | The guy I was with had a fantasy about having wrestling & having sex in oil. So I got a tarp, 2 litres of canola oil (conditions your hair & washes out easily - I did research) gathered about a dozen sex toys and made all his wildest dreams come true. The party carried on to the shower and eventually the bedroom. It was a great afternoon! | |
| Vote ID : 9125 | We had sex in a very busy hotel parking lot, with a man watching from his room. We also had sex in a Superstore change room. Also, once, trespassing on someone's farm. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | We had an entire day of just teasing each other. The tension was incredible and finally getting to it was AMAZING! I love build up like that. | |
| Vote ID : 9150 | Having sex in the guest bedroom of my boyfriend's house when the parents were upstairs as well. I like almost being caught... | |
| Vote ID : 9151 | You know the wonderful thing about being a switch.. is that sometimes you can still be surprised. I was very surprised this weekend with the man who has been my subby for the last few years. You know as I was getting dressed to go play with him, I was thinking about the hot things I had planned to do to him. Using his handcuffs to bind his cock nice and tight while riding his mouth having him please me over and over...you get the idea. Well, I was a bit late arriving as is a Mistress' whim, I opened the door which he had unlocked having learned from previous lessons. The upstairs was dark so I thought mmm..and headed downstairs where I had asked him to have our toys ready to play with. OHMY.. as I finished walking down the carpeted stairs I saw him watching me with this lil glint he gets in his eyes... I knew something was up. He smiled and said you are late, and since you are late you are going to be punished... oh the tables had instantly turned. He moved his heavy coffee table to the side, reached behind my neck to grab that place in my hairline which makes me switch into submode... biting my lip as he put me on my knees i couldnt do anything but look up at him and wonder his plans... then he told me. i was to suck his cock and make him cum if i couldnt do it in 15 min then i wouldnt be allowed to cum at all. my hands cuffed together, my skirt pulled up over my hips so he would be able to watch my ass bob up and down in time with my lips... i began to please him the way i know he loves... fingers playing alternately with his balls then his nipples; taking him deep and licking that spot to make him moan.. hoping he would cum all over my lips and tongue. Feeling him restrain himself clenching the soft leather of his couch i knew he was so close...soooo close...but so were the 15 min. | |
| Vote ID : 9161 | It was incredibly emotionally connected and almost out of body experience type. Ahhhh, sooo good. | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Standing up, at a national park, just off of the beaten trail. I orgasmed and collapsed in his arms! | |
| Vote ID : 9191 | -Strapping on a dick and having my partner put a condom on it before giving me an amazing blow job, and then subsequently orgasm-ing from this. -Dabbling in bondage, gender-bending play, sharing sexual ideas/fantasies with friends and partners, doing kind of dumb things and laughing about it, having romantic sex to that new Beach House album. | |
| Vote ID : 9192 | 69 in a hammock in the Amazon rainforest with a Uruguan chemist I was living there with. Nothing around you for miles and that place is extraordinary. In general, sex in a jungle is great because of all the crazy noises you and the other animals make. Truly a humbling experience...we are a part of nature. Also sex (different time) when you don't speak the same language can be really freeing, and exciting because there's a foreign/unknown element. No language you just have to use your physical self to get pleasure. | |
| Vote ID : 9200 | in my dreams | |
| Vote ID : 9214 | I had my husband cum on my face. We had tried doing it before, but planning it out doesn't equal success. We did it totally in the moment and it was kind of accidental. So super sexy. | |
| Vote ID : 9245 | I don't even know where to start. It's been a great fucking year! I have discovered that I have a bit of a penchant for sex in parks and on airplanes. | |
| Vote ID : 9282 | Anytime I get to have sex with my partner it's exciting! | |
| Vote ID : 9290 | In a car in a public parking lot! I can't believe no one noticed...or if they did, they pretended not to. | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | We were camping with a group of people and had trouble getting time alone, so we went off to the showers together and did it standing up, both of us trying our best to be quiet so nobody would know what we were up to in there! | |
| Vote ID : 9315 | Anything that includes being tied up in a cute little outfit and being properly played around with before getting on with the show ;) | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | All of our sex is always incredible, but over the past year, I got pregnant, and we decided not to keep it. I made an appointment at the abortion clinic, and we had to wait a month for the appointment. Pregnancy did NOT agree with me, I was swollen, I fainted a lot, and was just generally grumpy and in pain, so we didn't have sex more than a few times for the whole month. After the abortion we had to wait 10 days before we could get busy again. The first time back in the saddle after almost a month and a half of abstinence was GLORIOUS! We had both just missed being together so much. We had sex 3 times that night, first we just fucked, which let out a lot of the stress that the pregnancy and abortion had put on us, but then the last time we made love for an hour, and it was friggin unbelievable. <3 | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | The most exciting sex would have been the sex that I fantasize about. I am unable to have an open relationship, so the stuff I dream about it amazing. Mmmm. | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | The first time I had an orgasm with my girlfriend was the first time ive ever had an orgasm and it was the most incredible feeling in the world. | |
| Vote ID : 9351 | My partner and I were experimenting with some fantasies, and he tied my up, ball gagged me and we played out a rape fantasy. It was FANTASTIC. | |
| Vote ID : 9355 | My last lover, before we moved apart, used to go party with our own friends on weekends then meet up to play later on in the night. This one time we found each other in a random parking lot downtown then explored this fenced up children's nursery playground. All drunk and crazy and laughing we were fucking on the play-structure then cut through yards and hopped fences to get the fastest way home and continue our love. And with him, I have never had better sex in the world. His body and mine are fucking perfect. | |
| Vote ID : 9392 | With my sexy girl friend I've been wanting to bang for years. Until my boyfriend walked in on us.. | |
| Vote ID : 9405 | I've always had incredible sexual tension with this "friend" who was always unavailable. Now that he IS available, he lives out of country. He visited the city last year at Christmas time and we got together to "catch up" (that's what we told ourselves). We drank far too much and passed out far too early, but in the morning in spite of a crushing hangover, there were serious sparks. Hands-down, best sex ever. | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | Sex on the couch in the frat house was pretty awesome, ended up getting couch burn on my leg but, the fact that any of the guys could have came out of their rooms and saw us at any point in the night was pretty awesome. | |
| Vote ID : 9547 | In the shower! | |
| Vote ID : 9561 | n/a | |
| Vote ID : 9564 | The most exciting sex I've had was with a man I dated for only a month. It made me realize how important chemistry is to a relationship and to my happiness and sexual satisfaction. He was really well-hung. | |
| Vote ID : 9576 | the most exciting sex has been after some experimenting with bondage and flogging - something I've been interested in but never had the opportunity to do | |
| Vote ID : 9591 | I got all dressed up in fishnets and lingerie (a present) and my boyfriend ravished me. I think he got his money's worth. | |
| Vote ID : 9598 | Haven't had any. | |
| Vote ID : 9628 | In a board room on the board room table, board room chair, board room floor, etc. where we met with a number of colleagues the following day. | |
| Vote ID : 9636 | NO | |
| Vote ID : 9649 | Moving to a new apartment and seeing that the closet doors were mirrors lead to some fun new moves to maximize viewing. | |
| Vote ID : 9657 | My husband and I rented an SUV for a road trip and decide to pull off on a RR to get down. We pushed down the back seats and kinda just did missionary for a while and then he got out and pulled me down to the end of the cargo area and did me from behind while standing out side of the SUV. Well, people unfortunatly live down RR's and low and behold we heard the rumblings of an F150. We abruptly halted what we were doing and scrambled into the back of the SUV and pulled down the hatch and waited while the F150 crept by gawking at us. | |
| Vote ID : 9667 | none | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | In the V.I.P. area of a nightclub, looking out over hundreds of people and being choked from behind whilst he's in my ass. | |
| Vote ID : 9687 | one guy and two girls; a total triad, which was probably the most fun I've ever had. It's like getting the best of both worlds. | |
| Vote ID : 9699 | A couple weeks back me and my boyfriend were fooling around and I got really into it. Amoung other things, I choked him out with my panties and he twisted my nipples until they were raw. It lasted way longer than our usual romp and we both had great orgasms; It was just really fun and exciting! | |
| Vote ID : 9701 | doggy style on the stairs. Pretty hot. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | No sex for two weeks and but thought about it everyday! When it was finally available again we both had an incredible time! | |
| Vote ID : 9718 | Kerry came to pick me up from my week of work in Slave Lake. Its a three hour car ride back to the city and things got heavy about an hour out of town. We found a dirt road rather quickly and shagged like crazy! I riding shotgun could be so much fun! | |
| Vote ID : 9727 | None. I get none | |
| Vote ID : 9737 | It was after I had spent a shitty weekend away with my friends and I was really excited to get back to see my boyfriend. We went at it like jackrabbits! | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | In the past year? Probably having a partner who actually managed to get me off! If we are talking "exciting" like "risque"...then it would have to be hotel balcony sex over a main road in Vancouver or fucking my female partner on the dance floor of a club. Ha. | |
| Vote ID : 9786 | My boyfriend and I just went camping in Wisconsin on Lake Superior and the last day of our trip we had the entire rustic campground, which was miles from town, to ourselves. We found a large, flat boulder on the shore of the lake and laid naked in the sun all day. We were laying opposite each other, with my feet near his face, and he started to finger me. From there he climbed on top of me and fucked me. A short while later, out of nowhere, he bent me over and started fucking me from behind, I was standing up. He made me cum so much there was a small puddle on the rock beneath us. | |
| Vote ID : 9793 | Compared to other people who are going to write in I have a feeling my experience might not seem that exciting, but it is all about the orgasm for me. The best sex is when I have five or more orgasms... and it's happened several times. | |
| 41) The greatest triumph in my sex life is when I: | ||
| Vote ID : 8384 | slept with a "rock star" two years younger than me | |
| Vote ID : 8387 | For every conquest and insanely hot story I have, I'd have to say that after 15 years of having sex, my greatest triumph is being with a partner that gets me. I could go on and on about one night stands, rockstars and that year in Europe that will forever be a collage of no-tells, but I have to say that there is nothing better than watching a good homemade porn knowing that the guy that has you bent over the kitchen table loves you more than anything else in the world. | |
| Vote ID : 8390 | whenever i sleep with the love of my life, we see eachother every few years, its always perfect and amazing even though we dont see eachother for years sometimes. one day it'll be the right time | |
| Vote ID : 8413 | Had a threesome with 2 men- pretty awesome! | |
| Vote ID : 8420 | swallowed for the first time. It's so much less of a mess! | |
| Vote ID : 8424 | decided to experiment with kink and discovered my fetishes | |
| Vote ID : 8427 | Seduced my husband on our first date. | |
| Vote ID : 8442 | have multiple orgasms. | |
| Vote ID : 8450 | Had sex with a girl for the first time | |
| Vote ID : 8467 | Came for the first time... | |
| Vote ID : 8479 | finally figured out how to give a damn handjob properly. | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | Spent ten days straight in my lover's bed. We had sex about thirty times...it hurt so good! | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | Explored various kinds of sex with a woman! And before that, got into BDSM. | |
| Vote ID : 8514 | Finally learned how to have an orgasm during penetrative sex. Yahoo! | |
| Vote ID : 8515 | Had four orgasms in one night. | |
| Vote ID : 8520 | Learned to say "No" | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | Its all good | |
| Vote ID : 8530 | I hope it hasn't happened yet.. | |
| Vote ID : 8536 | Had a squirting orgasm! | |
| Vote ID : 8539 | none | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | Lost my virginity haha. It took that poor boy 9 months to get into my pants. The horrible things we girls do to such horny teenage boys. Once I found out how fun and not terrifying sex is/was/always will be I've had no real obstacles haha. | |
| Vote ID : 8562 | When I realized I didn't ever have to touch a penis again. | |
| Vote ID : 8586 | my boyfriends auntie was getting married at the Rutherford house, it was very small and we got to eat, stay and explore the house. for anyone who gets to be inside its really cool, he ate me out in one room and we banged in two others, I wont forget that place. | |
| Vote ID : 8588 | made him cum | |
| Vote ID : 8594 | Haha well maybe not a triumph, but a fun fact, I made my ex come in less than a minute during sex once. | |
| Vote ID : 8596 | Learned to love anal sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8598 | Made my ex-boyfriend come for the first time and when I took his virginity. | |
| Vote ID : 8607 | I overcame diabetes with sex. Biggest triumph of my LIFE. No, wait, what? People triumph in sex? "I was fighting this massive tiger, and eventually I just fucked it to death. I won fifty bucks, too!" | |
| Vote ID : 8621 | Had sex on the roof of my high school, maybe? | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | Does deciding that I was actually a lesbian count? | |
| Vote ID : 8631 | Felt comfortable enough to share my deepest fantasies | |
| Vote ID : 8639 | ... realised it was my ex who was defective and not me. | |
| Vote ID : 8654 | Learned how to deepthroat, it was by accident. | |
| Vote ID : 8655 | Found the one awesome person that satisfies me in every way and I got to stop trying everyone else! | |
| Vote ID : 8659 | Finally had Sex.... I was in my 20's so it was kinda a fuck yeah! Finally got that over with! | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | Used my finger on the inside and my thumb on the outside to give my female partner a fabulous orgasm. | |
| Vote ID : 8668 | see a look of amazement, exhaustion and pure contentment on my lover's face. | |
| Vote ID : 8679 | had my first orgasm | |
| Vote ID : 8729 | Came more than once | |
| Vote ID : 8733 | I was feeling pretty triumphant when I squirted for the first time and my boyfriend sure looked proud. | |
| Vote ID : 8756 | I am not sure this if this is sad but I had my first orgasm at age 26 and it was amazing and I can't believe I had never had one before. | |
| Vote ID : 8786 | Had sex in an airplane. | |
| Vote ID : 8788 | Finally had an orgasm during intercourse w/o extra stimulation (not like the second is that frequent either). Guys really should be given operating manuals to how girls' bodies work. | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | Was having it. | |
| Vote ID : 8793 | Written by a male, this question? | |
| Vote ID : 8795 | hahaha, lasted that whole nine-hour fuck session after a 3 month dry spell. I was so sore I couldn't walk properly for 3 days. | |
| Vote ID : 8803 | was able to orgasm with my partner present | |
| Vote ID : 8805 | Figured out how to masturbate with a battery-powered toothbrush, or...dun dun dun...squirted! | |
| Vote ID : 8820 | Had movie-sex: aka simultaneous orgasm with my partner. | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | Female ejaculated...lol! | |
| Vote ID : 8889 | learned how to give good head. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | stepped into my slutty self and owned it. | |
| Vote ID : 8922 | finally felt comfortable with every aspect of my body and became fully in touch with my sensuality. | |
| Vote ID : 8924 | I realized that I was capable of cumming bucketfuls. The dizzy, out of body experience was UNBELIEVABLE. from then on.... He touches me in any way I come, I come giving head, I come thinking about coming. The mattress is destroyed. The couch is destroyed. The sex life is flourishing! | |
| Vote ID : 8943 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8946 | broke up with my ex, moved on and discoverd a whole different side of myself under the sheets. | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | In the moment, coming at the same time as my partner is pretty damn sexy. Fucking 3 gay men and 3 lesbians all in the same bed was definitely a triumph! (We did not all come at the same time.) | |
| Vote ID : 8996 | Deflowered my love. It was quite awkward, but I loved him, and it! | |
| Vote ID : 9011 | Cum several times during sex and then cum at the same time with my partner. | |
| Vote ID : 9057 | Learnt I could pleasure myself. | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | Fucked girls. | |
| Vote ID : 9070 | Took a year of celibacy. I had only done it a few times when i was younger and felt very ashamed and wrong. When i took some time off from having sexual partners, i took the time to concentrate on myself, please myself, and figure out what i like and don't like. Now, i greatly enjoy my sex life to it's fullest. | |
| Vote ID : 9075 | Allowing my self to masturbate for the first time at 24 years old. | |
| Vote ID : 9117 | Took it in the ass for the first time without crying. | |
| Vote ID : 9125 | had an orgasm during intercourse, and then subsequently had 7 orgasms in a row. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | Probably the first time I was with a woman. | |
| Vote ID : 9161 | Felt comfortable enough to use toys. | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Finally kissed a girl! | |
| Vote ID : 9191 | Decided that nothing was stopping me from having the kind of sex I'd always wanted. I just made a commitment to myself one day to stop having mediocre sex with people I felt kinda mediocre about. | |
| Vote ID : 9192 | Currently anal sex but I would like to experiment more. | |
| Vote ID : 9214 | Took it in the butt. | |
| Vote ID : 9245 | have multiple g-spot orgasms. I didn't know I had this capability until this man. | |
| Vote ID : 9282 | Had multiple orgasms for the first time! | |
| Vote ID : 9290 | It was probably when I lost my virginity well into my 20s. It certainly was not the most amazing sex ever in terms of technique (at least on my part), but the fact I waited so long made the anticipation magnify the experience. | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | I took the time to think about my own desires. As women, we're often socialized to think about what others want from us sexually but ignore our own wishes. By becoming conscious about my boundaries, my desires, and my right to say no and say yes, I now have a much better sex life. | |
| Vote ID : 9315 | Finally orgasmed | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | Made him come in his eye!!!! I felt like a porn star. | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | Had the greatest sex of my entire life with this man I used to work with. We had (and maybe still would have) the most amazing animalistic energy. We'd snog and knock over bookshelves and fuck amazingly. This I will never forget. I only regret that it had to end because it was the most vividly romantic relationship I have ever had when it comes to sex. I have never been more satisfied. Probably won't ever be as satisfied, either. | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | Made my girlfriend orgasm for the first time. | |
| Vote ID : 9351 | please my partner. | |
| Vote ID : 9355 | Figured out how to enjoy it, orgasm? But I am still discovering the extent of even that. | |
| Vote ID : 9361 | have an orgasm. | |
| Vote ID : 9393 | I finally got to nail my favorite drummer of all time. It was terrible, but I was so proud!! | |
| Vote ID : 9417 | discovered orgasm | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | Slept with the man I was in love with, it felt amazing and i doubt it will ever be topped. | |
| Vote ID : 9518 | Discovered the secret(s) to a great blowjob. I am now officially a pro. | |
| Vote ID : 9547 | Got my man to orgasm, especially during intercourse. It`s such a feeling of triumph for me, every time. | |
| Vote ID : 9555 | make him cum... a lot | |
| Vote ID : 9561 | n/a | |
| Vote ID : 9564 | Reach orgasm at the same time as my partner, and when I don't have to think about what I should do during sex. If I'm really turned on, it just comes naturally. | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | Can make a guy cum more then once in the same hour. | |
| Vote ID : 9576 | finally accepted that the values I had been taught all my life were not my own values, let go, and allowed myself to be who I am | |
| Vote ID : 9591 | Had a hot boy toy. It was so fun. When we'd hook up, I'd lose track of the number of times ... I'd highly recommend it if you get the chance to cougar it up. | |
| Vote ID : 9598 | Had drunken sex with my two best friends... and we were still best friends the next morning. | |
| Vote ID : 9608 | decided to only have sex when I am sober. | |
| Vote ID : 9636 | NO | |
| Vote ID : 9649 | Performed my first great blow job. | |
| Vote ID : 9657 | My BF from a few years ago had this dead sexy friend. They were very close. However me and this friend didn't really like each other that much. My BF was from another town and he'd go there on weekends to see his family and I had heard though the grapevine that he was seeing a girl there while dating me. I was furious with him and decided ok, 2 can play that game. One night I happened to be at a party without him and his close friend was there. We got to talking and some how left together. We ended up back at his house and fucked like crazy. I knew it was probably wrong of me but I didn't care and still don't regret it to this day. | |
| Vote ID : 9667 | had a serious partner | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | While i was giving head to a guy and my tongue flicked up at the same time he thrust in orgasm and he split my tongue from the bottom of my mouth...i kept going to finish the deed but couldn't talk for over a month after because i was trying to let the rip heel...there's still a significant split there to remember... | |
| Vote ID : 9687 | only getting better, so the greatest triumph is still to come. | |
| Vote ID : 9699 | Actually have a orgasm | |
| Vote ID : 9701 | Had sex constantly for almost a day. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | Can still get my partner so excited that an orgasm happens within the first minute. Then the real fun begins! | |
| Vote ID : 9718 | celebrated 5 years with my partner, and discovered a fail proof way of reaching orgasm anytime i want | |
| Vote ID : 9722 | Decided to stay a virgin until marriage- and thus far, at 26, I've kept that promise to myself! | |
| Vote ID : 9727 | There is no greatest triumph. I am a boring person. | |
| Vote ID : 9737 | Got complimented on my blow job skills. | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | Coming with a partner; after 7 years of sexual activity with various partners, I didn't think it would ever happen! | |
| Vote ID : 9786 | Discovered my current boyfriend could actually make me orgasm during sex. | |
| Vote ID : 9793 | Learned to be more expressive and ask for what I want in the bedroom. | |
| 42) My greatest regret about my sex life is the time I | ||
| Vote ID : 8384 | got back together with my ex after he cheated on me....then i cheated on him! | |
| Vote ID : 8387 | I think I've learnt a little something from every partner I've had. I like to think that even the ones that were unhealthy choices brought me to the place I am now, with a loving man that has made his own mistakes, and that I can be honest with about that time that I did that thing, that I don't want anyone else to know about... | |
| Vote ID : 8390 | slept with my sisters ex | |
| Vote ID : 8413 | cheated on a boyfriend- lots of guilt and it was for no reason. I ended it because I could not deal with the guilt. Broke the poor buggers heart. | |
| Vote ID : 8420 | traveled to Canmore to get some and didn't. | |
| Vote ID : 8424 | trusted someone i shouldn't have an ended up with an std | |
| Vote ID : 8427 | Didn't cuddle with my first love. | |
| Vote ID : 8442 | I try not to regret what can't be undone. | |
| Vote ID : 8450 | Had sex with a jerk in my best friends bed | |
| Vote ID : 8467 | The way that I lost my virginity and the person that I lost it to! :( | |
| Vote ID : 8479 | did it on the forest floor and got sap on my favourite pants. That shit's hard to get out! | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | Had anal sex. That's how I found out I have IBS...because I had to go to the hospital. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | Had sex with my second boyfriend, and he gave me herpes. And he was a loser, too. | |
| Vote ID : 8507 | Accepted it up the butt. What a horrible thing. | |
| Vote ID : 8514 | The night I got drunk & got pregnant by a douchey ex-boyfriend. Wish I would have been "too drunk to fuck" . . . | |
| Vote ID : 8515 | cried. Embarrassing. | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | Slept with two guys like filling in a sandwich...ewhhh | |
| Vote ID : 8530 | I had sex for the wrong reasons. There was this guy who went to a high school in the town next to ours, all the girls thought he was so hot and just amazing, he was an athlete and had quite a bit of money and his last girlfriend was stunning. Well, I dated his good friend so we hung out all the time. A couple months after my boyfriend and I had a horrible break up, I ran into his friend at a party, who was also newly single. Although I wasn't attracted to him and thought he was an absolute douche, he wanted me and I did it just so I could say that I had and so that he would brag about me to my ex... Really didn't want to and have always wanted to take that back. | |
| Vote ID : 8536 | Didn't say no when I was far to drunk to be doing anything. | |
| Vote ID : 8539 | lost my virginity | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | I don't think i have any regrets. I'm pretty happy about who I have and have not slept with. | |
| Vote ID : 8586 | all my sexual experiances from losing my virginity at 16 till about 18, I just used them to feel wanted and better about myself and they just used me for sex, but you live and you learn, even though none of them were very pleasurable its something thats past me and something I'm over doing, and I been able to tell my much younger sister what to vaule herself on | |
| Vote ID : 8588 | negative | |
| Vote ID : 8594 | had sex with a complete stranger | |
| Vote ID : 8596 | Had sex with a coworker because I was lonely and required some type of affirmation. I later sluffed him off on another coworker who's crush I had stolen. Moral of the story, don't bring your man around work. | |
| Vote ID : 8598 | Had unprotected sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8607 | Spent ten minutes answering a juvenile sex survey online instead of hopping into bed with my manfriend. | |
| Vote ID : 8621 | don't have any regrets. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | I do sort of wish I had someone to play with, since I've been reading a lot of interesting books on sexual technique and would like to try some things out. | |
| Vote ID : 8631 | No regrets! | |
| Vote ID : 8639 | No regrets. | |
| Vote ID : 8654 | Went a little crazy in first year University, but I did learn that one night stands are not worth it (eventually). | |
| Vote ID : 8655 | Allowed my ex to be not so nice to me. Now, I would kick him in the jaw so that he would bite his tongue off then I would knock him the fuck out and leave before letting him ever touch me again. Goddamn hindsight...haha! | |
| Vote ID : 8659 | Met my first partner had sex with my first partner then proceeded to stay with him for 3 years, two of which were awful. | |
| Vote ID : 8668 | lost my virginity. I wish it had meant more. | |
| Vote ID : 8679 | slept with someone I didn't want to sleep with. | |
| Vote ID : 8729 | Got knocked up by someone other than my second husband - though I pretended it was my husband's anyway | |
| Vote ID : 8733 | Part of picking a sex partner or deciding to bring someone home is asking myself "Will I regret this?" If the answer is yes, then it doesn't happen. I need to respect myself when I look in the mirror and that means regrets don't happen. Maybe learning experiences but no regrets. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | hooked up with a bastard who stole my underwear and earrings and thought he was Tucker Max. B.M. YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE | |
| Vote ID : 8756 | took to have my first orgasm. I used to push the guy away before I would let go. Letting go was the best thing I did. | |
| Vote ID : 8786 | hooked up with a good friend. | |
| Vote ID : 8788 | the two times I got drunk and succumbed to the advances of my best friend's closest guy friend who is also someone she almost had a relationship with (no intercourse, but everything else between me & him). Made significantly more complicated by the fact HE is close friends with one of my exes (who is still interested in me). Please note that this also occurred during a period of time where a) the ex was also trying to get me to sleep with him again and b) I was already secretly 'friends with benefits' to an acquaintance of both of the guys. Both completely ashamed of my behavior, and feel my best friend would be really hurt if she ever knew. Not sure if it's better I tell her, on the off chance guy 1 might spill when drunk, or if it's something that it's better she never knows, as it will never happen again (as I now refuse to be alone with him). No, I am not in jr high, or living in a soap opera, although I'm aware the above situation sounds a lot like both. Maybe this is why I haven't gone looking for any action in the last six months... | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | Wasted time on dysfunctional people. | |
| Vote ID : 8793 | none | |
| Vote ID : 8795 | slept with my boss...es. | |
| Vote ID : 8805 | The TIMES that I hooked up with sketchy guys. I've learned from my mistakes, though - I will never go back to guys that don't give a fuck about me. | |
| Vote ID : 8820 | Hooked up for the third time with a douchebag. | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | hasn't happened... everything that was not great also taught me some important lessons... | |
| Vote ID : 8889 | None | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | didn't kick that guy in the face for "slipping it in". | |
| Vote ID : 8922 | was raped. I still sometimes think I should have been smarter to avoid the situation. Even though it was a crime and there was nothing I could have done. I wish "NO" had been enough. | |
| Vote ID : 8924 | no regrets. live and learn. luckily what could have been regrets are blocked out by boozey blackouts! | |
| Vote ID : 8943 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8944 | went celibate for a while (willingly) and then lost my sex drive. Worst. Idea. Ever. | |
| Vote ID : 8946 | got drunk and hooked up with someone I didn't really know but trusted all the same... turns out they weren't single. Also turns out that I got played. | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | was raped. | |
| Vote ID : 8996 | indulged in unprotected sex with a stranger in a communal party situation involving a few acquaintances and much too much alcohol. | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | Have not had enough experiences with women! | |
| Vote ID : 9011 | How I lost my virginity and the fact that the guy turned out to be such a major loser! :( | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | didn't sleep with the girls who were making out on the bed next to me | |
| Vote ID : 9057 | cheated on my boyfriend. It's hard to undo. | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | Didn't fuck enough boys. | |
| Vote ID : 9070 | had sex with a guy whom i didn't like and had no interest in. Ok, this has happened a few times. Boredom and lonelines, not good for my dignity. | |
| Vote ID : 9117 | Slept with all those guys I didn't know. | |
| Vote ID : 9122 | said "okay, fine" just because the guy was letting me crash at his place when I was in England. | |
| Vote ID : 9125 | gave a man a handjob at party with his friends in the room. Also, the time I didn't lose my virginity earlier. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | No regrets. | |
| Vote ID : 9161 | Wishing I was selective enough to have only had my hub. I have only had partners that I can count on one hand but still wished I waited because I regret the losers. Experiences etc and blah, blah, blah aside, I have it pretty sweet and should have waited! Hindsight is 20/20 though, right? | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Wasn't in the mood but had sex anyways. I was bored out of my skull & faking it is pointless. | |
| Vote ID : 9191 | -Was too shy/dumbstruck to tell that girl what I really wanted, and her to me, and the long silences and shy cuddling, when we were both thinking of much more exciting things to do with one another. She's the only person I feel like I really missed out on. | |
| Vote ID : 9192 | Didn't sleep with a guy I really into because of the brain taking over. We did everything else but penetration and I am at a point now where I definitely would have. It's not a huge regret more like a learning process. | |
| Vote ID : 9201 | got wasted and slept with my roommate | |
| Vote ID : 9214 | No regrets. | |
| Vote ID : 9245 | I'm not sure I have any regrets. Some of those drug-hazed days of my 20s were a bit painful, but I survived without too much trauma or any STIs, or a baby, thank fuck. | |
| Vote ID : 9271 | Sex in a handicapped bathroom stall at WEM. Totally unclassy. | |
| Vote ID : 9290 | No regrets. Life is too short for those. | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | I ended up having a relationship with the abusive dude and not the amazing loving woman after I hooked up with both of them for a threesome. Should have stuck with her--life would have been much happier! | |
| Vote ID : 9315 | had sex with an ex who had a gf at the time. | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | Did nothing. | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | Slept with an older man. And had sex with numerous men (long term relationships) without a condom. I should have. Ick. | |
| Vote ID : 9351 | had sex with several different people in one week. | |
| Vote ID : 9355 | Fucked a guy because I was bitter over the rejection of another. | |
| Vote ID : 9393 | I wish I had held on to my virginity a little longer until I was more confident. | |
| Vote ID : 9405 | had a one-night stand with the cousin of a guy I dated. I wasn't interested in him, just feeling insecure. Probably the only sexual experience I regret. | |
| Vote ID : 9417 | had a one-night stand | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | had my first time with some guy i met at a bus stop that i didn't even really know. | |
| Vote ID : 9518 | Slept with someone who didn't deserve me. | |
| Vote ID : 9532 | Cheated on my husband. | |
| Vote ID : 9547 | Still can`t orgasm and don`t know how to... I don`t think I let loose enough. One time it seemed like I was very close and I just froze up and shut down and just... lost it. | |
| Vote ID : 9561 | n/a | |
| Vote ID : 9564 | When I sleep with people who I am not really attracted to. | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | have no regrets. | |
| Vote ID : 9576 | all of the times when i turned down opportunities to have great experiences because of fear | |
| Vote ID : 9591 | Slept with a stupid asshole and had to get an STD test. Haven't we all been there? | |
| Vote ID : 9598 | slept with my friend's boyfriend, a close friend in and of himself at the time. I wouldn't have done it if I hadn't been in love with him. I think he just liked getting away with it. Then I got all guilty and let the cat out of the bag. Second biggest mistake of my life. | |
| Vote ID : 9608 | fell asleep in a puddle of my own puke (in bed) after taking it up the ass. | |
| Vote ID : 9636 | NO | |
| Vote ID : 9649 | Had sex for the first time ever with a friend I had no feelings for, just for the sake of seeing what it was like. It ruined the friendship and was not worth it. | |
| Vote ID : 9657 | allowed my partner to believe I was ok with us not role playing. We did it a few times and it was the hottest sex we've ever had but then suddenly he got uncomfortable with it and we haven't done it since. | |
| Vote ID : 9667 | was casual about sex | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | I was only 14, I was working at a car show and was in the dunk tank. I met the owner of a radio station and lied about my age...we were in his penthouse on Saskatchewan drive when I think he realized i was "under-age". I felt really bad because he had already used me as his ornament for a couple of weeks with his friends and in social functions. He took me to nightclubs and restaurants...I really used him, not realizing our relationship was probably really damaging to his public image. I can just imagine his humility...From that moment on, I vowed to always consider the dangers of damaging other people reputations if the liason was ever discovered. | |
| Vote ID : 9687 | no regrets! | |
| Vote ID : 9699 | Since I am now in a monogamous relationship, I just regret not having more sex with more people! | |
| Vote ID : 9701 | tried to have sex for the first time, but failed miserably (too tired, wasn't turned on, too scared). It's affected me emotionally--sometimes I still have to work hard to have confidence in myself and in my sexuality. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | Slept with a non married friend when I was married and he decided to tell the bloody world that he loved me! Not cool. | |
| Vote ID : 9718 | that i have only had one partner. I love him to bits and he satisfies me in everyway but i had not been with anyone before him | |
| Vote ID : 9723 | lost my virginity. | |
| Vote ID : 9727 | Had sex with your mother?No wait...thatt was awesome! | |
| Vote ID : 9737 | lost my virginity. Still shudder thinking about that guy! Oh well, gotta move on. | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | I don't know that it is a regret in the truest sense, I don't feel bad about having a drunken one night stand as a means of losing my virginity - I just wish the sex had been at least decent. | |
| Vote ID : 9786 | slept with a guy because I was drunk and his friends told me to. | |
| Vote ID : 9794 | first had anal sex with a partner who didn't care much about my pleasure or safety. | |
| 43) Tell us a secret you would never tell your partner | ||
| Vote ID : 8384 | i'm secretly a cam girl....no one knows | |
| Vote ID : 8387 | I hate butt sex. There, I said it. I know I've promised it for your birthday, but can we just cuddle instead? | |
| Vote ID : 8390 | i like gay porn | |
| Vote ID : 8413 | I wish he'd be more forceful- down right criminal! | |
| Vote ID : 8420 | "I'm in love with you and I want you to take me away to your country." | |
| Vote ID : 8424 | lol my partner knows EVERYTHING! | |
| Vote ID : 8427 | no | |
| Vote ID : 8442 | I have rape fantasies. | |
| Vote ID : 8467 | I fantasize about having an intimate relationship with a co-worker and flirt like crazy with my co-worker! | |
| Vote ID : 8479 | I pick my nose. | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | Apparently I have a sensitive cervix. Sometimes it seriously hurts when we have sex. I like the pain, and I'm too afraid that if he knows it hurts, he'll stop. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | I don't really know.... I guess my boyfriend from abroad doesn't know about BDSM and the fact that I've had sex with girls.. But I do plan on telling him eventually. Or not, if it doesn't work out. (he's kind of conservative) | |
| Vote ID : 8507 | I wish you were more masculine. As much of a turn on as it was for you to be emotionally available and sensual, I'm desperate for some serious masculine edge. | |
| Vote ID : 8514 | I slept with someone else when we were starting to become a couple | |
| Vote ID : 8515 | I think about other people during sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8520 | I've never has an orgasm | |
| Vote ID : 8530 | I hope my next partner is someone I don't have to hide anything from. | |
| Vote ID : 8536 | There is nothing that I hide from my partners. Im an open book...honesty wise. | |
| Vote ID : 8539 | n/a | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | I HATE his stupid rabbit and I wish it would run away from our house. But he loves it so. So I tolerate its disgusting existence. If you meant sexually I don't have any. Any I think of I tell him and we try ASAP. I find that's the best way to enjoy life. | |
| Vote ID : 8586 | that one time I went to chicago with my friend was the one time I ever cheated in my life but we just started dating and we drank alot with those city cops and Ihardly remember the whole experiance but i know it was bad, real bad. | |
| Vote ID : 8588 | dont got none | |
| Vote ID : 8594 | I fantasize about sex with some of his friends | |
| Vote ID : 8596 | How many men I've actually slept with, and that I've never actually been with a woman. | |
| Vote ID : 8598 | He only made me come once in a year and a half :) | |
| Vote ID : 8607 | I've told him pretty much everything, and while that has resulted in a few fights every now and again, we've always managed to work it out and get back to sexing eachother up. And I much prefer it that way. Do people actually tell you things in this question? Jesus, I'd hate to be in that relationship. Maybe I should have made something up. "Your bunny went missing because I stuffed it into my vagina and it died, so I buried it down the street." | |
| Vote ID : 8621 | I've had better. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | I would probably never tell them that I have bestiality fantasies. | |
| Vote ID : 8631 | I used to get off on cheating on my husband. | |
| Vote ID : 8654 | I am way kinkier than I let on, Hopefully one day I can tell you that. | |
| Vote ID : 8655 | While he unfortunately already knows everything, I'll say the hardest thing I ever had to tell him that I wish I could have gotten away with not telling him is the number of guys I've been with. I don't even know how it got so high... | |
| Vote ID : 8659 | Hmmmmm nope, I don't have allot. | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | Even though we're both women, and I tell her she's great all the time, I secretly am not sure that she knows how to give a woman an orgasm. | |
| Vote ID : 8668 | I hate vanilla sex, even when I'm tired. | |
| Vote ID : 8679 | I want to be with a girl | |
| Vote ID : 8729 | That he is lazy | |
| Vote ID : 8733 | I can't think of anything. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | I used to be a compulsive cheater. But i wont cheat on you baby i promise :) | |
| Vote ID : 8756 | I got nothing off the top of my head | |
| Vote ID : 8788 | how many of my sexual encounters have been enacted while drunk... still trying to keep my 'good girl' tiara unvarnished. Although the above situation may have of destroyed it (also, that story is probably never coming out). | |
| Vote ID : 8793 | I took sex survey, lol | |
| Vote ID : 8795 | at one point I thought I had Hep B and never told any of my partners. | |
| Vote ID : 8803 | I had consentual sex with a stranger when I was overseas. | |
| Vote ID : 8805 | I want to know how many people you've slept with, and what they meant to you, but I will never ever ask. Just cuz. | |
| Vote ID : 8820 | I'm worried he's just TOO BIG to ever try anal with. | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | I fake orgasms sometimes so that we can move on to more interesting things... | |
| Vote ID : 8889 | Mmm, I think i've told my partner everything. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | if i wouldn't tell my partner, why would i tell you? | |
| Vote ID : 8922 | that I fantasize about being fucked by two guys. MMF, double the boy, double the fun. Which is perhaps why I sometimes get turned on by gay men. I wish I could squeeze myself in. | |
| Vote ID : 8924 | The # of partners. BAD idea, I stopped counting aighh Luckily the number should not increase from here on out! | |
| Vote ID : 8943 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8944 | In an ideal world, I would love to have 10 sexual partners who would serve me and faun all over me and whom I would go to bed with all at once and be the center of attention all the time. | |
| Vote ID : 8946 | partner-less. but I will say that my "favourite" partner has been my best friend. And that I think I'm still in love with them. | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | Oh, I am pretty open about everything. | |
| Vote ID : 8996 | I always fantasize about other people and wonder if I'd ever be able to reach orgasm with someone else someday. | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | When you are with your partner long enough and you have trust why bother with secrets as it can limit what you might do. Eventually my partner is likely to know all the kinky things I have done as he is ready to. | |
| Vote ID : 9011 | I have a major crush on a co-worker who lives in another city. We have talked about meeting somewhere for an afternoon of love-making if he ever travels to the city but still wanting and waiting. Lots of flirting going on in the meantime through email and messaging. He makes me so wet with his naughty talk that it's unbelievable. Sometimes I think about him while my husband makes love to me! :O | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | that i like anonymous sexual encounters in peepshows | |
| Vote ID : 9057 | I am a female who had a threesome with 2 male coworkers. | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | I would be so down for being tied up | |
| Vote ID : 9070 | That i have cheated before in past relationships. | |
| Vote ID : 9075 | The night we met we were in a bar I had been invited to by another man. | |
| Vote ID : 9117 | I'm sleeping with his best friend. jk. I can't. There's only one secret and it's mine to keep. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | Terrible. I tell him EVERYTHING. | |
| Vote ID : 9161 | His penis size sometimes scares me because it is really big. No, I'm serious. :l | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Nope. | |
| Vote ID : 9192 | I've masturbated to my parents having sex. | |
| Vote ID : 9200 | i am thinking of leaving him | |
| Vote ID : 9201 | i want to have a threesome | |
| Vote ID : 9214 | He was my first. | |
| Vote ID : 9245 | I sincerely can't think of a thing. (Isn't that gross?!?) Oh wait, how about this? I kissed that guy you asked me about on Facebook. | |
| Vote ID : 9271 | I don't like sex. | |
| Vote ID : 9290 | I am really turned on by some women but have absolutely no desire to experiment with them. | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | I cheated on my ex-husband. | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | There are a lot more sex tapes of me kicking around (various ex's) than he thinks there are. | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | That if my previous sexcapade partner asked me to sleep with him again, i probably would. That and I miss being with a woman. | |
| Vote ID : 9351 | I faked orgasms with my last partner for almost a year. | |
| Vote ID : 9355 | I am in love with him. | |
| Vote ID : 9393 | Every time I break up with someone I have a tendency to double the number of partners I have had in my lifetime. | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | I will always love my ex more than him. | |
| Vote ID : 9518 | I secretly like it way more rough than him. Like WAY more. | |
| Vote ID : 9547 | I can`t think of anything. We`re very open. | |
| Vote ID : 9561 | n/a | |
| Vote ID : 9564 | I don't really think our relationship is going to go anywhere. | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | I don't have any of those, i am an open book. | |
| Vote ID : 9576 | i want him to be more active and agressive with me - I don't know why that's so hard to say but I've never told him that | |
| Vote ID : 9591 | I've been solid about not telling about the boy toy even though I'd love to brag. | |
| Vote ID : 9598 | I told him I slept with that guy just the once. It was actually twice. | |
| Vote ID : 9636 | NO | |
| Vote ID : 9649 | I hate cuddling after sex. I hate it. He loves it. I also hate overly emotional/passionate sex, I'm more into quick n' dirty. | |
| Vote ID : 9657 | I would love to go to a hotel and hook up with a random woman that I would have no danger of ever seeing again. | |
| Vote ID : 9667 | how many partners I've had | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | I just never tell him about past experiences...not fair...I am always here with him. So to tell a secret...hmmm I probably have faked an orgasm or two...haha! | |
| Vote ID : 9687 | I have none. | |
| Vote ID : 9699 | I rarely have orgasms | |
| Vote ID : 9701 | I don't really have secrets from my partner...I can't think of anything, anyway, that I haven't told him about. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | The number of people I have slept with! I think it is over 85. | |
| Vote ID : 9718 | i have secret crushes,,, | |
| Vote ID : 9727 | I like chai lattes,. | |
| Vote ID : 9737 | I will never, ever ever take it up the bum. It's exit only. | |
| Vote ID : 9786 | Sometimes, I'd rather masturbate then have sex because its easier and guarantees me an orgasm. | |
| Vote ID : 9794 | there aren't any. | |
| 44) How do you engage your partner in experimentation in the bedroom? | ||
| Vote ID : 8384 | straight up ask! | |
| Vote ID : 8390 | blindfold him and tie his hand to my bedposts. he's mine and after a little encouragement will let me do almost anything i please | |
| Vote ID : 8413 | Toys, video cameras, bondage, rough sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8424 | i asked him real nice ;) | |
| Vote ID : 8427 | I'll have to think about that... | |
| Vote ID : 8442 | I don't, but I'm sure he'd be up for almost anything if I asked. | |
| Vote ID : 8450 | Give her some wine. | |
| Vote ID : 8467 | Just start doing whatever it is I want to experiment with, or talk about it first... | |
| Vote ID : 8479 | I poke him the butt. | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | I talk about it extensively. There's nothing sexier than verbal foreplay. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | Slightly joking suggestions... or just put certain things in certain places and go from there. Frankly I find asking tends to work well, but a few of my partners are pretty liberal anyway. The ones that are less experienced, I know some things they just aren't ready for. | |
| Vote ID : 8507 | Light suggestions, it's easy | |
| Vote ID : 8514 | I just ask him straight up and he usually complies. | |
| Vote ID : 8515 | Ask first. Surprises can be nasty. | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | asking | |
| Vote ID : 8530 | If there is anything I would be interested in trying, I bring it up in completely non-sexual situations so the conversation is clear and not driven just by hormones. Like when out for coffee, or on a drive, running errands... | |
| Vote ID : 8536 | Toys, role-play, different positions. | |
| Vote ID : 8539 | start a conversation about it | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | "Honey, I found this new [insert position, book, toy here]... [Insert giggles and clothing removal]" | |
| Vote ID : 8586 | we would talk about experimentation alot in normal converstations with eachother, things we would be open to trying someday but hardly ever tried them out, we would talk about eating while fucking or going to a sex club but all we ever really got to doing that we talked about was anal | |
| Vote ID : 8588 | blow jobs | |
| Vote ID : 8594 | We're pretty standard, but if one wants to try something they just ask | |
| Vote ID : 8596 | I tell him about something that's turned me on before. | |
| Vote ID : 8607 | I bluntly ask him. It usually works quite well. He's up for pretty much anything. | |
| Vote ID : 8621 | talk about it. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | Don't have a partner | |
| Vote ID : 8631 | Whisper what I want to do in his ear while stroking him... it always works ;) | |
| Vote ID : 8639 | Respectfully. Casual chats about stuff like that far from the bedroom to suss 'em out. Depending on their response, either put it to rest, ease into it, or jump right in! Or, depending on the type of experimentation, just test the waters in the heat of things and gauge their reaction (eg. with the bum: ring the doorbell first before poking your head in the door.) | |
| Vote ID : 8654 | I don't! I'm shy but also secretly want him to dominate me so maybe he'll get the hint. | |
| Vote ID : 8655 | By saying, let's try this! Usually there's not a whole lot of experimentation it's just let's both "have our cookies" before the baby wakes up and needs something! | |
| Vote ID : 8659 | We Ether talk about it before hand or I throw it out there in the middle which almost all ways works | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | We've tried various position, and have included sex toys in our play. | |
| Vote ID : 8668 | Any and every way I can! Sometimes activities are discussed beforehand as something one of us wants to try, or else I just pull out something new if I'm confident they'll be comfortable with it. | |
| Vote ID : 8679 | dirty talk | |
| Vote ID : 8729 | I ask him if he's interested, and usually he is | |
| Vote ID : 8733 | I brooch the subject and see where it goes. Sometimes it stays a discussion and sometimes it goes beyond. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | Test the waters with conversation about it after a few highballs and see where it goes | |
| Vote ID : 8756 | He usually engages me | |
| Vote ID : 8786 | If I'm curious, or he is we ask and reciprocate. "Ask and ye shall recieve." | |
| Vote ID : 8788 | nothing in the last while's gotten as far as the experimentation phase... | |
| Vote ID : 8793 | communicate, seduce | |
| Vote ID : 8795 | I just bring it up during a really sexy moment when he's really hot, and he's pretty much ready to try anything. Thank God he's a freak, too! | |
| Vote ID : 8805 | I simply ask. If he's game, awesome (he usually is). | |
| Vote ID : 8820 | A better question is how do we NOT engage in experimentation. We're pretty crazy. | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | -depends on the mood... sometimes playfully, sometimes by surprise, sometimes by saying YES! | |
| Vote ID : 8889 | Communication is key. Talk, ask, research. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | the question should be: how do i NOT engage my partner in experimentation in the bedroom? | |
| Vote ID : 8924 | Ask. Or just try and then ask while Im already starting to engage. The bliss usually takes away the No factor. | |
| Vote ID : 8943 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8946 | back to talking about the hookups with the best friend - it wasn't really talked about. Well it was, but that was during phone sex. When it actually came to us hooking up, we kinda already knew what eachother liked and it turned out that we had a lot in common. | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | First step: get out of the bedroom. From there, it depends on our mutually agreed-upon definition of experimentation. Maybe some rope? Ass fucking? Fisting? Video camera? Verbal abuse? Face slapping? Piss? Shaving with a straight razor? Costumes? | |
| Vote ID : 8996 | I just request we try something new while we're getting into it. I like hard surfaces, like the floor or carpet. | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | Tell him what I like so he knows he is on the right track. State a few specifics. Let him know that my sex drive is high and that I want him now now and now (easier when you see each other less and don't live together). Sometimes start something or say something to test the wAters. Then see his reaction. Plant seeds verbally for things in the future. | |
| Vote ID : 9011 | We talk dirty or watch a porn together for ideas. | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | I don't really, he is not very skillful, i mostly avoid it untill he bugs me enough | |
| Vote ID : 9057 | Take the lead | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | I haven't | |
| Vote ID : 9070 | In all ways possible. I love foreplay: lots of stroking kissing, oral. I say sexy, sweet things, but i love talking dirty. | |
| Vote ID : 9075 | Discussing any activities that could potentially excite us. | |
| Vote ID : 9117 | I tell him what I'd like to try. I can't really force him into anything considering I'm a masochist. | |
| Vote ID : 9122 | I usually talk about it before hand, see if it would be something that he would be comfortable with. Sometimes I'll talk dirty about doing something to see if it floats his boat...if so I take that as a green light to go for it later. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | Any way I can think of. We both make an effort to keep things fresh, explore and share fantasys and always, always communicate. | |
| Vote ID : 9150 | Simply ask. Joke about it... and then make him consider. See what his reactions are to it. We can be pretty open about that sort of thing. | |
| Vote ID : 9161 | Tell him what I want. Straight up. | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Ask, or discuss it...especially after an orgasm. Makes for the best pillowtalk. | |
| Vote ID : 9191 | We talk a lot about things we know we would like, things we're not sure we'd like, stuff we think we'd never like, and consider trying everything. We respect boundaries above all us, and never do anything without consent, knowing that we both have space to change our minds or vocalize new ideas at any time. Because of this, really anything goes. Also, we never rule out ideas that seem strange and we talk with our close friends about sex frequently. Outside of our relationship, we also have sex with others which makes room for trying even more new things. | |
| Vote ID : 9192 | I wish I had a partner who was into experimenting. I'm 'kink curious' and would like to experiment with light bondage, sadomasochism, painting, blindfolding, role playing, costumes and stripping. | |
| Vote ID : 9214 | I'd probably talk it to death and then we both wouldn't be in the mood. | |
| Vote ID : 9245 | I ask him for things. He asks me for things. | |
| Vote ID : 9282 | We talk openly about what we want. | |
| Vote ID : 9290 | We don't really plan to experiment...it just happens when we are really in the groove of things. When you are in synch with someone, you should be able to tell when they are ready to try something new. | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | I share a fantasy or ask for what I want. Pretty simple, really. He's usually more than happy to give it a try! And if not, I respect that he has boundaries around what's okay and not okay for him and is cool about expressing them. | |
| Vote ID : 9315 | He engages me, I comply | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | I order him around =P | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | Suggest it WHILE we are getting it on. | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | bringing sex toys into play once in a while | |
| Vote ID : 9351 | We are both pretty open, so it is not hard. We ask each other to do things, and we can say no or yes, and we can convince each other to try new things. | |
| Vote ID : 9355 | If I kept a partner for long enough anyway.. I like changes in environment, like sex outside or somewhere risque. Perhaps photos or video recordings. Otherwise, my partner was more creative and experimental/experienced than I. | |
| Vote ID : 9393 | He's cool. We play lots and can ask for pretty much anything. | |
| Vote ID : 9405 | I tell him "we should try this" ... and either we do or we don't. | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | I don't know, you tell me. | |
| Vote ID : 9518 | We look at positions and porn online. Or I send links to sextoys that look fun. Or I send kinky pictures. | |
| Vote ID : 9547 | We`re still pretty new at this, we`ve only had sex a few times, so it feels like everything is new and experimental! | |
| Vote ID : 9555 | we talk about it | |
| Vote ID : 9561 | n/a | |
| Vote ID : 9564 | Try something out subtly and sneakily until he says no (if he says no). | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | I say "I just want to make you happy." | |
| Vote ID : 9576 | I have it easy because in my work I'm exposed to sexual stuff all the time. Thinks come up pretty much on a daily basis so it's easy for me to say 'hey, look at this' or 'funny thing happened today' or 'I was chatting with someone about this, what do you think of that? Would you be into it?' | |
| Vote ID : 9591 | I can just ask. | |
| Vote ID : 9598 | by using my words! | |
| Vote ID : 9628 | Only if they seem open to it. | |
| Vote ID : 9636 | NO | |
| Vote ID : 9649 | I need to work on that. | |
| Vote ID : 9657 | It's a slow and steady progress. I think he thinks that I only do things for him when it really is for me. | |
| Vote ID : 9667 | Vocalization | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | It really never stops... | |
| Vote ID : 9687 | anything goes in the bedroom, and he knows it. We are both very open to all possibilities. | |
| Vote ID : 9699 | Whisper naughty suggestions in his ear! | |
| Vote ID : 9701 | I'm pretty vanilla. When I make suggestions, though, my partner is open to them. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | Just start it and direct it. | |
| Vote ID : 9718 | music man! and accessories | |
| Vote ID : 9723 | I had my dildos out already before he came over. | |
| Vote ID : 9727 | With a Whip? | |
| Vote ID : 9737 | Just ask. He's up for anything. | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | I engage them first outside of the bedroom, I think that is the key. You have to talk about fantasies, desires, and personal limits, in order to know where you can take your sex life. My activities are usually limited by my partner's comfort zones, as I'm pretty open to new things (no pun intended). | |
| Vote ID : 9786 | I do something and ask him if he likes it. If he does, I keep doing it. If not, i stop. | |
| 45) What’s the most interesting sexual request you’ve gotten this year? | ||
| Vote ID : 8384 | blowing up a balloon until it pops. that was it | |
| Vote ID : 8387 | How disappointing is it that nothing comes to mind?!! | |
| Vote ID : 8390 | lunch sex in the parking lot of capilano mall | |
| Vote ID : 8413 | Being 9 months pregnant- going on top. I know, pretty boring but a difficult task. It was all good though! | |
| Vote ID : 8420 | "Let's do it on the bonnet of a car!" | |
| Vote ID : 8424 | masturbate on all fours over top of his legs so his can watch from the ass end | |
| Vote ID : 8427 | Nothing that counts as stricktly sexual... | |
| Vote ID : 8442 | n/a | |
| Vote ID : 8450 | To do it in the kitchen, ick where food smells are, wtf girl. | |
| Vote ID : 8467 | To meet up with the previously mentioned co-worker at a hotel in another city; or Being asked what I was wearing while at work by this co-worker and talking dirty through inter-office emails... | |
| Vote ID : 8479 | Nothing too wild. I guess, my partner asking to come on my face. | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | "I want to skullfuck you." | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | To be double-penetrated. It didn't end up happening though. Or when I was asked to go for coffee by some OLD man in Walmart when I was dressed for a party. I just didn't want to go there.... | |
| Vote ID : 8507 | Anal sex, not very outlandish | |
| Vote ID : 8514 | Pretend you are dead . . . | |
| Vote ID : 8515 | No request, just woke up in the middle of doggy. | |
| Vote ID : 8520 | "Fifty bucks and some weed?" | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | turn me over...i'm done on this side | |
| Vote ID : 8536 | Sex with a woman...It was a fun experiment. | |
| Vote ID : 8539 | none | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | well I have an account on xtube- i don't make or post videos but everyone watches porn! and I like to comment on everything, as you can tell- and I had a dude leave me a message with his address and the code to get into house and where the key was hidden and he wanted me to just surprise "rape" him one day. that was weird. I said no to HIV and Herpes though, don't worry. I also said no to the lawsuit. | |
| Vote ID : 8586 | this one guy I was seeing after my ex would always want to see me pee and stuff with peeing that really werided me out, nothing worse to date yet though | |
| Vote ID : 8588 | blumpkin | |
| Vote ID : 8594 | I'm not sure. | |
| Vote ID : 8596 | He's fairly unadventurous, so likely being asked to dress up for him. | |
| Vote ID : 8607 | I was lactating and my manfriend wanted to drink my milk during sex. Hardly the most interesting sexual request, but we'd already covered a lot of ground before this past year. | |
| Vote ID : 8621 | to do it at an abandoned ski hill. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | Haven't had sexual requests | |
| Vote ID : 8631 | He wanted to put his balls in me | |
| Vote ID : 8639 | Nothing stands out. | |
| Vote ID : 8654 | Someone I went out with a couple times wanted my to rub my stockinged feet all over his face, I didn't really get it. | |
| Vote ID : 8659 | Nothing Really requested of my I think I do most of the requesting. He's pretty vanilla unless I push him. Mind you the Vanilla is super great. | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | For me to imagine that I have a penis, and to "use it" on her. | |
| Vote ID : 8668 | A message from an old flame "that he needed to be fucked real dirty." | |
| Vote ID : 8679 | If I got my clit pierced he would get pierced too. | |
| Vote ID : 8729 | "Let's have sex in the baby's room...." | |
| Vote ID : 8733 | A foot job, which I couldn't do. My feet were too ticklish and it felt ridiculous. I tried though, for a little while. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | to give my partner a rim job. :) and to have a threesome with my buddy and his girl | |
| Vote ID : 8756 | dunno | |
| Vote ID : 8786 | Titty fucking. | |
| Vote ID : 8788 | come on lines involving the idea of a spanking. Uggh. | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | This survey. | |
| Vote ID : 8793 | It involves the swing | |
| Vote ID : 8795 | "Baby, would you let me pee on you?" | |
| Vote ID : 8805 | Probably to get down with a girl while he watches. I wouldn't be opposed to it if everyone was extremely drunk, the girl was a lesbian, and he didn't get to touch her. I'm protective of my man. | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | using electricity.... | |
| Vote ID : 8889 | A threesome. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | hmmm.... "choke me". | |
| Vote ID : 8924 | hmm. nothing too scandalous. Shaving the boys bald! | |
| Vote ID : 8943 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8946 | I wouldn't call it interesting. however last night when I was working at the bar (I'm a bartender) A customer said "I need to get laid, it's been since January". I just turned around and walked into the back office...this guy is oober creepy and I couldn't stand there and listen to him go on about it, unfortunatley I had no grounds to tell him to fuck off either. | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | I'm usually the one making the requests. | |
| Vote ID : 8996 | I was propositioned in the public library a couple of times in a whisper in a particular area. I've since stopped studying in that section. | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | Nothing this past year bur prior to this year out shopping / quasi interviewing on the spot for a threesome prior to this year tower someone I had been verbally communicating with to act out a story he had written where I would remain blind folded and never see him. | |
| Vote ID : 9011 | See above comment; Was asked to meet a co-worker for a shag! Would be fun... | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | "permission" to have a girlfriend on the side | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | A drunk guy wanted to pay me to screw him. | |
| Vote ID : 9070 | When i was on lavalife last year a 50+ yr. old man had requested that on my search for love and a relationship if i would be interested on having sex with him on the side. His tag line was "All men are pigs: i'm just a classy honest one" His pictures also consisted of him sitting in a corvette in front of his house and a picture of just his sotmahc and chest head on. | |
| Vote ID : 9075 | That I put on a few pounds. | |
| Vote ID : 9117 | I want to rape you. | |
| Vote ID : 9122 | A partner wanted the 'bend over boyfriend' experience, so I grabbed a dildo and obliged...he loved it. | |
| Vote ID : 9125 | "Can I cum in your soup?" | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | He has decided he's open to explore anal stimulation. | |
| Vote ID : 9161 | A suggestion to have sex with the kegal balls inside. | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | To keep my boots on! | |
| Vote ID : 9192 | I was in Colombia sitting on a bench and a guy came and sat down next to me. He introduced himself and then said "tu quieres conoces mi habitacion' 'do you want to know my room?'. I probably would have 'known' his room but was thinking of safety. Another time in Venezuela an older gentleman (60's) I was practicing my Spanish with (for only a few minutes) in a park just put his two index fingers together and motioned for me to follow him. I didn't understand until a while later and then I just left the park a little perplexed. | |
| Vote ID : 9245 | Supreme Court blow job. | |
| Vote ID : 9271 | Sex while breastfeeding... | |
| Vote ID : 9315 | To obtain 16 feet of rope, spoons, fondue pot, handcuffs, and a tuning fork for play time. | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | To videotape myself masturbating in a public restroom and then send it to him. | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | If I could be ''face-fucked''. | |
| Vote ID : 9351 | to put things in my partners ass. | |
| Vote ID : 9355 | That we can't sleep together until all of our friends know about our relationship. What relationship? We haven't fucked! | |
| Vote ID : 9393 | I had a guy walk by me on the street and ask if he could "tongue [my] glorious asshole." I thought that was pretty forward for a stranger. Back off! Rimjobs are a sign of love, buddy! Only one man gets to tongue my glorious asshole! | |
| Vote ID : 9405 | Sadly the most interesting is that someone asked me to do a strip tease for them. That's the only thing that stands out. | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | Nothing interesting, I've been with lame guys. | |
| Vote ID : 9547 | I have no idea. | |
| Vote ID : 9561 | n/a | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | To be banged on the hood of a car. | |
| Vote ID : 9576 | in general or from my partner? I had someone try to engage me in playing babies with him - didn't want to go for that one. From my partner, the request is usually the same - anal sex. No other interesting requests this year. | |
| Vote ID : 9591 | Can you wear that dress? | |
| Vote ID : 9598 | My married couple friends put it out there that they'd be into a threesome with me. | |
| Vote ID : 9628 | Asshole lick | |
| Vote ID : 9636 | NO | |
| Vote ID : 9649 | Stick your finger in my bum. | |
| Vote ID : 9657 | Can you wear one of your dance costumes, they are totally hot! | |
| Vote ID : 9667 | none | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | It pretty much happens all of the time...so none of them are interesting requests anymore, when you get requests, usually the guy or the girl are eager people and quite obnoxious or greasy no matter what they look like...alot of talk goes with alot of walk in my books. | |
| Vote ID : 9687 | can't think of anything at the moment. | |
| Vote ID : 9701 | yep, I'm definitely vanilla. Haven't really got an 'out there' sexual request. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | To meet up with a an old friend who I had great sex with in my 20's and show each other how much better we are today. Opportunity has not happened yet but it is fun thinking about it. | |
| Vote ID : 9718 | he wanted me do french kiss him after he came in my mouth | |
| Vote ID : 9723 | To lick a guys bumhole. | |
| Vote ID : 9727 | none | |
| Vote ID : 9737 | Anal. | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | Nothing too interesting in the grand scheme of things...just to fuck a girl with a strap-on. | |
| Vote ID : 9786 | "Keep deep-throating me, I dont care if you puke." | |
| 46) What kinds of things are just too “out there” for you to try sexually? Why? | ||
| Vote ID : 8384 | anything with defenseless beings | |
| Vote ID : 8390 | beastiality, gross. the animal doesnt have a choice and even if you could ask it it couldnt tell you why | |
| Vote ID : 8411 | I would never do Beastiality, or necrophelia, aside from being illegal, the thought of either of them both disgust and disturb me. | |
| Vote ID : 8413 | Anything to do where someone is a victim- including animals. | |
| Vote ID : 8420 | Anything that involves suffocation. I like to breathe. | |
| Vote ID : 8424 | anything to do with animals, children and other non-consenting beings/persons. done almost everything else at one point or another, because you don't know if you won't like it until you try it! | |
| Vote ID : 8427 | Anal. Not too out there, just painful. | |
| Vote ID : 8442 | Bestiality because it seems wrong on all sorts of levels. | |
| Vote ID : 8450 | not into leather, ball-gags, torture, etc. | |
| Vote ID : 8467 | Anything that causes pain to myself or another person; Sex with animals - gross! | |
| Vote ID : 8479 | Anal stretching cuz it looks fucking awful. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | Prostitution... and anything with pretty random strangers. I prefer for there to be some sort of community connections, so I can know my potential sexual partners' reputations and situations. That being said, I have had sex with "random strangers" my friends or friends' friends knew. | |
| Vote ID : 8507 | Anything more than light bondage doesn't really fly for me, I don't want to be tied up and restricted. | |
| Vote ID : 8514 | Animals - I feel that it is unfair to take advantage of all beings, animals included. Sex workers - I feel that it is unfair to take advantage of all beings and, no matter what they say, people involved in the sex trade are not just there because they love sex. Porn - I feel that it is unfair to take advantage of all beings and, no matter what they say, people involved in the sex trade are not just there because they love sex. Plus, the representations of women in porn gross me out. I am not willing to sift through scads of fake titted, fake tanned, fake nailed, fake orgasmed, fake teenaged, fake blondes to find the handful of beautiful, natural adult women who are experiencing real orgasms in a positive environment. | |
| Vote ID : 8515 | Sex + food = bad. Never bring any food into the bedroom. The two pleasures should be kept separate. | |
| Vote ID : 8520 | Furries! Because they yiff. | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | S&M - who likes pain??? | |
| Vote ID : 8536 | Will not make a sex tape or take nude pics...you never know if those things will get out. Will never do anything with animals ...thats just fricken gross. | |
| Vote ID : 8539 | not sure | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | uhm well rape fantasies for personal reasons I don't feel like talking about. and then anything with a living being that can't consent. like bestiality. soooooo don't get that. Anything else I refuse it's because of the high chances of contracting an STI. or, higher I suppose. | |
| Vote ID : 8586 | stuff with peeing or pooping for sure or feet, armpit fucking i've heard about it but thats not for me, otherwise try anything else once, you never know you might like it. oh and screwing old men. | |
| Vote ID : 8588 | cheating, old guys, dildos, | |
| Vote ID : 8594 | At the moment, even threesomes seem to much. I am not yet comfortable enough with myself or my capabilities to invite another person into the bedroom. | |
| Vote ID : 8596 | No animals, no pee, no poop. It's just wrong. | |
| Vote ID : 8598 | Almost nothing. Aside from choking and shit, I'll try anything once. | |
| Vote ID : 8607 | The people who suspend themselves via hooks in their skin is waaaay too overboard for me. I'm not sure why, since I have tattoos and piercings, but. There's just something about a man suspended by the skin on his back that creeps me out entirely. Otherwise, I can't think of much that's out of bounds. Fire? Yea, actually, add that to the list. No permanent fire-related scars from sex for me, thank you. | |
| Vote ID : 8621 | Anything that goes against my morals, it is will hurt someone or something I will not consider it... like bestiality or cheating. Oh and poop fetishes are pretty not cool with me. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | Needleplay, bloodplay, and 24/7 D/s, because needle/bloodplay just creeps me out, and I'm not willing to hand all of my power and well-being over to some schmuck for them to play with as they please. | |
| Vote ID : 8631 | Poop & Animals | |
| Vote ID : 8639 | Bestiality: Even the taboo nature of it doesn't turn me on. At all. Felching: Do I need a reason? Incest: I don't like my family that much. ;) | |
| Vote ID : 8654 | Things to do with bodily waste or animals or extreme pain or ugly costumes. | |
| Vote ID : 8659 | Hmmm... Beastiality, poop, anything that hurts allot or would alter me physically, im sure theres a few other things. Otherwise Lets try them. | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | I'm totally not interested in BD/SM, because violence- even pretend violence- is not something to be celebrated, especially in the bedroom. I also would never engage in scat/urine play. As far as I'm concerned, there are some good reasons why we don't hang around in our own excrement. | |
| Vote ID : 8668 | Bestiality - I'm just not into animals. Incest - Society has programmed me that this is wrong. | |
| Vote ID : 8729 | Bestiality and necrophilia - 'cause they're fricken illegal and nasty!! | |
| Vote ID : 8733 | I won't do things that I morally don't agree with. The obvious is bestiality. I won't commit adultery nor will I help someone commit it. If you're married but in an open relationship, that's fine. Basically, as long as it's not hurting someone (unless of course I have their consent) I'm not interested. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | bdsm. Dont know what it is about the stuff, but is not for me. | |
| Vote ID : 8756 | Anal. I just can't do it. | |
| Vote ID : 8786 | Beastiality. Homosexuality. I like my pets as companions and I like my partners to be men. | |
| Vote ID : 8788 | Probably most things. I'm a bit of a prude when I'm not trashed. | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | S&M. Stupid. People look ridiculous. | |
| Vote ID : 8793 | don't pee on me or offer to lick my butt | |
| Vote ID : 8795 | Eating shit. Letting a dog lick your pussy. Shoving pop bottles/gerbils up an anus. Shooting small items out of your vagina. Queefing in someone's mouth. Why???? Because that shit is just NASTY. | |
| Vote ID : 8805 | I may be somewhat of a freak, but I will never try anything more than a threesome, peeing on somebody (or being peed on - same with #2), or any contact with animals/dead people. I'm not THAT freaky. | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | Animals, way younger individuals... Animals...wrong species way younger...consent and power differentials | |
| Vote ID : 8889 | More fetishes... Like pony play or beastiality. I think there is experimentation, but everything experienced should be with a sense of intimacy, and I wouldn't experience/try anything that was anything else. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | knife play=scary. but then again, how will i really know if i don't try it? | |
| Vote ID : 8922 | Ball-gags. I've seen Pulp Fiction waaaaaay too many times. | |
| Vote ID : 8924 | Piss/poo exchange. Im ok with a three some with another girl. Three some with two guys freaks me out a bit. well.. the boys could play and I would like that. ha but no two dicks inside me pls! otherwise.. I think Im willing to try anything | |
| Vote ID : 8943 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8944 | I hate having sex in public. I just hate it. I don't think it's sexy to be looked at by weirdos or to possibly be arrested or to be too paranoid to enjoy it. | |
| Vote ID : 8946 | anything other than missionary. KIDDING! I'm fairly open to any straight, human stuff. that doesn't involved any body waste products, bondage, or buttsex. thats just what I'm comfortable with. | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | I am sure there are some things. Playing with shit comes to mind as something I'd never try. | |
| Vote ID : 8996 | I wouldn't have anal sex, in part because I'd worry about damaging the area, and also because it sounds messy. | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | I like s and m and b and d but not sure I would go to a group for that. I might be too shy or may not want to exchange partners. I wouldn't rule it out though for the future I doubt that I would have sex with several partners one after another in public. Too close of an image to gang unwanted sex ie rape | |
| Vote ID : 9011 | Check out some of your survey questions - ie)bestiality - can we say 'gross'. Unless by bestiality you mean finding the biggest, hairiest, slobbiest oaf of a guy out there and banging him on the street corner... | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | not into pain. | |
| Vote ID : 9057 | Photos or movies. I'm a lady by day; I dont need evidence otherwise. | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | Nothing involving bodily fluids that are created by your digestive system. And nothing really degrading: I don't understand how a couple could keep being respectful and happy with each other outside the bedroom if they're being (even with consent) kind of abusive within it. | |
| Vote ID : 9070 | Hmmm.... i'd be open to pretty much anything except maybe alcohol fuelled orgies.. | |
| Vote ID : 9117 | A lot of things. I'm into sex...with men. Anything that gets too too far away from that loses my interest. Like extreme bdsm where there is less sex and more teasing, beastiality just isn't appealing, etc. | |
| Vote ID : 9122 | Anything involving kids or animals is a NO GO. I strongly believe in consensual sex, and animals and kids can't give proper consent. Other than that, I've not found anything that's too "out there" yet, but I'll keep looking. :) | |
| Vote ID : 9125 | There is an endless amount of crazy sexual things people can do that I'm not willing to try. Also, I still find the idea of anal a little scary. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | Golden showers really don't appeal to me. I just don't like the idea. Blood. Animals. | |
| Vote ID : 9150 | Anal... seems dangerous/damaging for someone petite like myself. Golden showers also make this list... I'm just not ready for those sorts of things yet. | |
| Vote ID : 9151 | I wouldn't try anything that would have to be explained to a police officer... | |
| Vote ID : 9161 | in the butt. NO WAY. I find that disgusting and no way could I find it pleasurable. To me, there are numerous other things we could do instead of that. AND, ps, people always say they would "TAKE it in the butt" meaning, ya, I'd take it if I had to. So is it pleasurable? I don't hear many people say they love anal. But now, I'm being anal so I'll shut up. | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Autoeroticasphyxiation, because it's terrible for your body! | |
| Vote ID : 9191 | Cutting, and lighting bodies on fire. I don't think I will ever want to do these things, even though I'm fine with the idea of others doing it for pleasure. | |
| Vote ID : 9192 | Bestiality. It just seems too ridiculous for me. Other than that I would try anything at least a couple of times...sometimes the first time isn't enough. | |
| Vote ID : 9243 | bestiality | |
| Vote ID : 9245 | I really can't think of anything. I'm happy to try new things, but I know what I like. | |
| Vote ID : 9271 | Most things. I was more willing to experiment early in the relationship, but now that we are established, I just want it over with. | |
| Vote ID : 9290 | Hookers = no way. Too risky in terms of disease and cannot have sex with someone without an emotional connection. Three-way = I don't like sharing! | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | I am not okay with anything involving sex workers. The issues of consent and exploitation are too muddy, and I would never want to use another person. While I know that some people may choose sex work of their own free will, I can never feel sure about it. Same goes for porn. I don't trust the conditions of production, so I don't use it. | |
| Vote ID : 9315 | Too much pain involved with sex (ie slapping so hard till tears form) I like a bit of roughness but too much and the attention is taken away from the pleasure. | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | scat play, cause it's pretty gross in my opinion. | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | I'm not sure. Maybe serious S&M. I like it softer but when it comes to mimicking animals and being gagged, I'm not so sure I could do that. | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | lots, im pretty vanilla... | |
| Vote ID : 9351 | not much. | |
| Vote ID : 9355 | Swinging. A menage a trois with 2 guys and myself. -intimidating and weird but | |
| Vote ID : 9393 | That bestiality question kind of threw me... Yuck. I am not really that squeamish and feel like I have tried some out there things and loved it, but helpless people/creatures are not sexy in any way to me. | |
| Vote ID : 9405 | I subscribe to the Dan Savage motto of "GGG" -- anything that Savage doesn't approve of (ie. scat play, bestiality), I wouldn't. Everything else is at least worth a discussion... even if I'm not inclined towards it (ie. multiple partners), I would be willing to discuss trying it. | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | Hmm pain and torture type stuff isn't my thing, i'm more of a passionate person in bed. | |
| Vote ID : 9518 | Watersports. | |
| Vote ID : 9547 | Anal... it doesn`t sound pleasurable... I`m not comfortable with the idea of a threesome either but I don`t really know why. | |
| Vote ID : 9559 | Filth play. Too many risks & way too messy/smelly. Kids. OFF LIMITS & SEVERELY vile to even consider. Animals. If a partner isn't capable of LEGALLY consenting, it DOESN'T HAPPEN. | |
| Vote ID : 9561 | Golden showers, eating poop. Yuck! | |
| Vote ID : 9564 | Role play (who needs it?); asphyxiation (too dangerous and not appealing to me); bestiality (ew?) | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | Nothing. | |
| Vote ID : 9576 | I would not do any breathe or asphyxiation (clearly I don't know how to spell that word) because I am claustrophic. Anything wil animals is out for me because they can't consent. i don't think group sex fits for me but i suppose I could change my mind about that. | |
| Vote ID : 9591 | Not sure if I'll ever be into group sex. Too distracting. | |
| Vote ID : 9598 | Beastiality, because I think it's non-consensual. Anything that usually involves the toilet, because I can't get past that it's poo and pee. | |
| Vote ID : 9636 | NO | |
| Vote ID : 9649 | A threesome because I think someone will always feel left out. Anything involving pain for pleasure. | |
| Vote ID : 9657 | breath play...to freaky, anything involing excrement...to gross, animals obviously, oh and zipper masks...those things are fucking terrifying! | |
| Vote ID : 9667 | drugs - It's stupid partner swap - stupid bestiality - stupid bondage - stupid | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | Well the beastiality question above...heard of it and would never do it. Do not like raping either. I think I raped some-one in Portugal...she was really into me and I snuffed her after sex...she got so clingy and I told her to fuck off...still feel really bad when the memory pops up. That experience taught me a lesson on how females can be misled so easily...so you really have to lay all the facts out with them first. | |
| Vote ID : 9687 | bestiality. don't mess with other species. | |
| Vote ID : 9699 | Anal sex. I know it's not really "out there", but I think that it's just not natural. Why would you stick something in a hole where waste is expelled? I am scared of getting an infection; It just seems way to dirty for me. | |
| Vote ID : 9701 | What can I say...I try not to do anything that would threaten my relationship with my current partner (introduce jealousy, threaten confidence, trust, etc). So basically anything outside of that monogamy is probably too 'out there.' But anything other than that I'm willing to give a go, if it turns me or my partner on. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | Not into animals cause it is just not appealing. Some of the fetish stuff I just do not understand. | |
| Vote ID : 9718 | Anal,,, there is no way i could find that comfortable, what if i ripped! I've heard about that happening to people! think about the chances of hemoroids after that ewwwwww!!!! | |
| Vote ID : 9719 | Anything having to do with scat and vore. It seems really wrong and gross to me. | |
| Vote ID : 9723 | Licking a man's bumhole...men are just too hairy to be putting my tounge there. And it's not something that i feel is supposed to be done to men, they are supposed to do it to us. | |
| Vote ID : 9727 | Uh | |
| Vote ID : 9737 | Anal is really just too far out there. I don't really know why, it's just not something that I'm interested in. I don't find anything sexual about that area. | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | Scat play, strangulation, bestiality, engaging sex workers. Why? None of them are a turn on for me. | |
| Vote ID : 9786 | Peeing, because I've been asked to before and it made me really uncomfortable. Having a threesome, because I'm far too jealous. | |
| Vote ID : 9794 | Um, poo, animals and children. I think the reasons are pretty obvious. | |