| 1) I most identify as a | ||
| Male | 0.00% | |
| Female | 100.00% | |
| 2) My sexual orientation is | ||
| Gay | 0.00% | |
| Straight | 0.00% | |
| Bisexual | 100.00% | |
| 3) My age is | ||
| Under 18 | 0.00% | |
| 18 - 25 | 48.08% | |
| 26 - 35 | 30.77% | |
| 36 - 45 | 13.46% | |
| 46+ | 7.69% | |
| 4) I lost my virginity when I was | ||
| Under 18 | 67.31% | |
| 18 - 20 | 25.00% | |
| 21 - 25 | 7.69% | |
| 26 + | 0.00% | |
| I’m a virgin | 0.00% | |
| 5) It was | ||
| Awesome | 3.85% | |
| All right | 34.62% | |
| Awkward | 42.31% | |
| Awful | 19.23% | |
| Absent, because I’m a virgin | 0.00% | |
| 6) Tell us a bit about your first time: | ||
| Vote ID : 8410 | drunk on a train track | |
| Vote ID : 8419 | There were roses, and it was very long, and somewhat painful. | |
| Vote ID : 8427 | My sweety shared an apartment with his mom and little brother, and a room with said brother. We were quick and in fear of his mom (who did NOT approve of me) coming in. Otherwise, quite nice ;) | |
| Vote ID : 8476 | It took about 12 seconds, a little painful. | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | It hurt so much that I cried, | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | Painful, awkward, and drunken. The condoms were in the "Narnia bag" | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | raped | |
| Vote ID : 8540 | It was just boring, | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | I slept with the first guy I fell in love with and he loved me back. it was pretty awesome and WAAAY better than most people I've talked to. it wasn't the best sex on the planet of course, we were virgins, but I'd not change it at all. He kissed me on the forehead in the middle of it! How cute is that, right? | |
| Vote ID : 8589 | my sister told before that i was just suppose to lay there, i've learned abit since | |
| Vote ID : 8640 | He couldn | |
| Vote ID : 8643 | Much older guy talked me into it. I really wish it hadn't happened with him. | |
| Vote ID : 8725 | I was so bored I thought about minesweeper. You know, the computer game? | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | I was drunk. he was drunk. it was in my friends parents bed. how terrible | |
| Vote ID : 8784 | The only reason we decided to "do it" was because we'd been given a pile of free condoms at a concert the day before. It was awkward. I don't think either of us were even full undressed. The Red Hot Chili Peppers played in the background. | |
| Vote ID : 8839 | my best friend's big brother climbed in my bedroom window. he was drunk. it was mostly weird and a little scary. | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | Didn't really know what was happening- it was over before it began... | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | Nothing memorable but glad it was with a long time boyfriend be it after we broke up. Yup odd that ! | |
| Vote ID : 9051 | Good, with my boyfriend of the time. Kind of boring to be honest. | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | babysitting, boyfriend came over. "Splash" was on tv. it was over pretty quick, his first time too. It felt way different than I thought. fin. | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | Sloppy awkward girl-on-girl at a sleepover in summertime. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | It was a long time coming but a little anti-climatic. | |
| Vote ID : 9151 | I was raped while on a date with a guy who was a good friend of a friend... | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Exhilarating at the time, but boring in retrospect. | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | Long-term boyfriend, the evening before a family member's wedding. It was clumsy but sweet. | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | I was date raped. | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | It was completely unsatisfying. I had done it because I had felt I was ''supposed to'' and that I owed it to the guy. Now, when I lost my 'virginity' the first time I had sex with a female it was a completely wonderful and amazing experience. It allowed me to want to pursue the wonders of sex with both males and females, despite the previous more horrible 'penis predicament'. | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | I just knew i was ready to lose my virginity so when i started seeing someone after i knew i was ready I did it. it wasnt anything special. | |
| Vote ID : 9361 | So painful. His nickname was moose. | |
| Vote ID : 9392 | Used to sneak out of the house to fool around with my older brothers best friend.. | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | I was drunk and it just kinda happened, and it lasted for hours, litterly i watched the sun rise and got bored so I decided we should stop. LOL | |
| Vote ID : 9490 | My BF of the time and I were in his basement watching a movie and making out, it just made it's way to sex. It was nothing special other than that it was my first time. | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | I was 16, and thought i got prego. Turns out I was just insane..... | |
| Vote ID : 9590 | It didn't hurt, but it was irritatingly long and uncomfortable. We waited a long time and there were I-love-yous and tea candles, but the experience was overall, pretty meh. I didn't bleed, which made my partner suspicious, but then, he was an asshole. It don't remember it all that well and it didn't really influence how I developed sexually. The first time is not as important as it's made out to be. | |
| Vote ID : 9608 | I was 12, he was 17. Everything up to intercourse had been amazing. The pain was insane, but in the end worth it. | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | There was a waterbed, I was in the middle of my menstral cycle so there was naked dry humping for a bit, but obviously tampons make you hornier so the heat was on and I said fuck-it, Let's Do IT!...too bad i can't remember any of their names. I do have one of the guys initials scarred onto my left fore arm. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | We were both virgins and my boyfriend must have done alot reading cause he did know what to do. | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | I was inebriated and was really just wanting to get it over with - I figured I'd waited long enough. | |
| Vote ID : 9793 | It was with my boyfriend. We had been dating for almost a year! I can't believe we waited that long, but we both come from rather conservative religious roots. Anyways, February 2009 we went to Jasper for a week of snowboarding. We knew it was going to happen that weekend but we hadn't planned it out. The one night I was ready but he fell asleep watching a movie. I went outside for a midnight stroll and ran into an elk! I was semi-terrified when I made it back to the cabin and he was awake and wondering where I was... and then the magic happened. Nothing like a little scare to intensify an experience. It hurt because it was the first time, but the feeling of connection was amazing. | |
| Vote ID : 9794 | On my parents couch! | |
| 7) In the past month I have had sex: | ||
| Never | 13.46% | |
| Once or twice | 3.85% | |
| A few times | 19.23% | |
| A bunch of times | 55.77% | |
| At least once a day | 7.69% | |
| 8) In the past month I have masturbated | ||
| Never | 5.77% | |
| Once or twice | 15.38% | |
| A few times | 13.46% | |
| A bunch of times | 50.00% | |
| At least once a day | 15.38% | |
| 9) In the past 12 months I have had | ||
| 0 sex partners | 3.85% | |
| 1 sex partner | 51.92% | |
| 2 - 4 sex partners | 28.85% | |
| 5 - 10 sex partners | 11.54% | |
| More than 10 sex partners | 3.85% | |
| 10) The longest I’ve ever gone without sex is | ||
| one day | 1.92% | |
| one week | 1.92% | |
| one month | 17.31% | |
| more than one month | 38.46% | |
| one year | 11.54% | |
| more than one year | 28.85% | |
| All the time up until now because I'm a virgin | 0.00% | |
| 11) Why did you go that long? | ||
| Vote ID : 8410 | wasnt attracted to my partner anymore | |
| Vote ID : 8419 | Did not have a partner | |
| Vote ID : 8427 | Unattached and very fussy. | |
| Vote ID : 8476 | I had surgery | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | Got out of a serious relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | Moved to a new city and looked for a job, rather than people. Plus, trying to figure out this country and culture all over again. | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | to try something different | |
| Vote ID : 8540 | Bad breakup, bad relationship before it. | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | I don't sleep with guys I'm not in relationships with due to total- and legit- fear of diseases haha. And no one worth it was around me back then. | |
| Vote ID : 8589 | sick | |
| Vote ID : 8653 | Depression. | |
| Vote ID : 8725 | I was apparently out of my mind... | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | Dry spell?? | |
| Vote ID : 8839 | i was in a long term relationship and we just weren't having sex | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | Got divorced- no guy was worth the hassle-got a BOB(Battery Operated Boyfriend) instead | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | I prefer meaningful relationships but due to energy level and the way I live life it is best for me to become involved with partners at least ten years younger | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | no viable partners available | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | I'm picky! | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | I went without sex for a week before my first child was born (just timing) and two weeks after. | |
| Vote ID : 9151 | The person I was dating was out of town | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Did not encounter anyone I wanted to jump into the sack with. | |
| Vote ID : 9251 | In between relationships | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | I had been in a really awful, abusive relationship (emotional, physical, and sexual) and decided I needed time alone to heal and rediscover myself and my own desires. | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | I didn't feel the need...I know that sounds weird but after I get out of serious relationships, I feel the need to self examine, figure out where things went wrong etc, and I value the time alone. | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | It was recently after I had encountered 'men' and didn't feel the need to pursue sexual activity thereafter because it was so horrible. The second time was because I was so heartbroken after losing my girlfriend I went into a sort of living coma. No Sex. No relationships. Nothing. | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | not dating anyone | |
| Vote ID : 9361 | Boys are stupid. | |
| Vote ID : 9392 | Was not seeing anyone, lived in a small town where one night stands are anything but private. | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | Well, you see, theres this thing, its called being single, and sometimes that means that you don't have someone to sleep with unless you wanna go find someone random, and even sometimes if you did wish you had someone random you can't find anyone, thats why your hands can turn into your best friends. | |
| Vote ID : 9490 | I had no partner, having gone through a rough relationship before and not willing to jump back in the dating game for a while. | |
| Vote ID : 9559 | Lack of opportunity | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | That is a really good question! | |
| Vote ID : 9590 | I was in a long-distance relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 9608 | I was taking a course about feminism & sexual assault at the U of A. It was a personal choice at the time to be abstinent as I couldn't handle the thought of fucking while reading so much about rape. | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | Surgical reasons- Cervical Cancer | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | Had a baby | |
| Vote ID : 9744 | I was selective | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | Single and not looking. | |
| Vote ID : 9793 | Difficulties finding time to be alone with my boyfriend. | |
| Vote ID : 9794 | I was young and was seeing an uptight guy | |
| 12) In the past 12 months I am | ||
| In the same relationship | 36.54% | |
| Out of an old relationship | 3.85% | |
| In a new relationship | 5.77% | |
| Out of an old relationship AND into a new relationship | 11.54% | |
| Playing the field | 26.92% | |
| No change in my relationship status | 13.46% | |
| 13) Tell us about that | ||
| Vote ID : 8427 | I'm happily married: legally for 14 years, together for 22 years | |
| Vote ID : 8476 | I have been with the same man since 2005, we're getting married next year. | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | I've been in and out of two relationships. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | I spent three months in the middle east and hooked up with someone there who may come visit me as a serious, future thing.. Before I left for there, I broke up with my then boyfriend. In the meantime I've hooked up with about 4 people I knew from before, and now I just don't know how the Egyptian guy will work out, and the previous actual boyfriend. I'm not quite committing to anything right now. | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | awesome | |
| Vote ID : 8540 | It kicks ass! | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | at the very beginning of the year I broke up with my previous boyfriend and within a couple months found a new one and have been with him for 9 months now. | |
| Vote ID : 8643 | Married two years now. | |
| Vote ID : 8653 | Not going so well. | |
| Vote ID : 8725 | Some people are retarded. Actually lots of them. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | I hate men, yet it would seem that i always need to have one around... interesting concept... | |
| Vote ID : 8784 | Bliss! | |
| Vote ID : 8839 | i was casually sleeping with two guys on the regular. then i met an amazing guy and we became happily exclusive and serious. | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | I get enough out of it to stay... | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | Fabulous! Well matched. Knew him one year before becoming involved and hope to spend years with this one. | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | I am interested in swinging | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | I have never been good at being a girlfriend. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | I've been with my husband since high school and we've been married for 5 years. | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Together, with someone wonderful for over six months. | |
| Vote ID : 9251 | It's awesome | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | Still in love, still shacked up, still shagging like mad after four years. | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | He's the love of my life, and I can't believe I went though life until last year without him. We were friends before, but now he is my best friend and I love him to bits! | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | It's wonderful. Hopefully it'll last a long time. | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | ive fallen in love | |
| Vote ID : 9361 | There are too many flavors to choose just one for any period of time. | |
| Vote ID : 9392 | Three year itch! | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | Hmm, never really got over my ex and sto i started sleeping around becuase i thought it would make me happy, well obviously it didn't and so now i'm finally dating someone new, hope it works out. | |
| Vote ID : 9490 | have been dating for almost two years, having gone through one rough patch last year. It has been the best relationship I have ever been in. | |
| Vote ID : 9590 | We share geeky interests and we live together. It was hard to get used to, but now it's fun. | |
| Vote ID : 9608 | 3.5 years of an open relationship with a primary partner, with others on the side. | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | I am married to some-one who is absolutely amazing in and out of bed. We will be married for a very long time...we experiment with other women. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | 10 years in the same relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | It's complicated...no option really fits. | |
| Vote ID : 9793 | I'm in love with my boyfriend. We've been dating for three years and I feel like he is going to ask me to marry him soon. At the same time I have this unexpressed bisexual urge to be with a woman that is sort of frustrating me. | |
| Vote ID : 9794 | Husband - married this year been together 8 yrs. | |
| 14) The approach I take to my relationship is | ||
| Monogamous | 53.85% | |
| Non-monogamous | 19.23% | |
| Secretly non-monogamous | 3.85% | |
| Sometimes non-monogamous | 19.23% | |
| 15) What that means to me is | ||
| Vote ID : 8427 | We have a non-monogamy clause, but haven't really used it. Still too hung up on each other :) | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | If they're into it, I'm okay with keeping it open. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | I'm with one person most of the time, but sometimes I want to meet up with old friends and have a good time. Not to mention that both of the serious contenders are not really into BDSM, or unaware of it, and sometimes I just need that outlet. | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | freedom and excitement | |
| Vote ID : 8540 | No one else. Ever. | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | We have threeways [with professional girls] and adventurous sex, but we don't lie and cheat. I'd be willing to open a relationship if he needed but I don't need it and he doesn't seem to either. But I'd dump his butt if he lied. That's how herpres is spread, my friends. | |
| Vote ID : 8589 | im not in a relationship but i do respect all my partners | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | im not going to cheat no more. time to turn over a new leaf | |
| Vote ID : 8784 | Totally committed to one another, emotionally and phyiscally. | |
| Vote ID : 8839 | i care about him and this relationship enough to respect that he is not polyamourous. i have experienced functional and dysfunctional poly-relationships and because right now i am happy and more than satisfied, this works great for me. | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | again with the hassle.... | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | I can be single any time and do whatever without considering someone else so while I am involved in a mutually comitted relationship I choose to be monogamous. Why wreck a good think when it may take a long time to meet my high standard again. | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | I am interested in swinging | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | I am sometimes not a good girlfriend and also a jerk. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | We have an open relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 9151 | Ive been in monogamous relationships as well as open relationships... it depends on the point of life i am in | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | If you cheat, I will kick you in the family jewels, preventing your tainted DNA from entering the gene pool! | |
| Vote ID : 9251 | Much easier than dealing with the hassle of rules and emotions | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | I hate sharing! | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | I feel that if the need arose I should be able to live my life as sexually as I would like to. Unfortunately, my parther doesn't feel the same way. But. he fails to realize that I need boobs too! | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | im in love with one person and shes all i need physically and emotionally | |
| Vote ID : 9361 | Don't stick where it don't belong. | |
| Vote ID : 9392 | I have his okay to fool around with ladies. | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | It means I am only for the person I am dating, none of this "i kissed a girl" stuff while i have a boyfriend, its not needed, if I wanna slut around I will end a relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 9490 | I do not see other men or women while I am dating if it makes my partner uncomfortable. If I am in a more open relationship I may see two people at once and have a meaningful relationship with both. | |
| Vote ID : 9559 | Sometimes monogamous, sometimes polygamous. Depends on my partner of the time. | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | I do what I want | |
| Vote ID : 9590 | We're monogamous now, but open to the idea of non-monogamy in the future. It's all about open communication. | |
| Vote ID : 9608 | open honest communication where we all take all our needs seriously and respect one another | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | I gotta go look and see...knowing that there is something in my life that is still just truly me is electrifying. Sometimes quite scarey, though, at the thought of getting caught...doesn't matter- its my dirty little secret. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | internet sex chat with others. | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | When I'm in an exclusive relationship, I'm exclusive to my partner. When it isn't explicitly stated, then I feel free to play. | |
| Vote ID : 9793 | I'm loyal to my boyfriend and I don't fool around with other guys or girls, even though I want to. | |
| Vote ID : 9794 | We have boundaries and negotiate other parties involvement in our sex life from time to time. | |
| 16) I use condoms because | ||
| I don't use condoms because neither I, nor my partner, have a penis | 3.85% | |
| I want to protect against pregnancy | 7.69% | |
| I want to protect against disease | 11.54% | |
| I want to protect against pregnancy AND disease | 44.23% | |
| I have been stepping out on my partner | 1.92% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I am monogamous | 25.00% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I have a death wish | 1.92% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I’m a virgin | 0.00% | |
| 17) Last year, I contributed to the sex industry by | ||
| Looking at porn but not paying for it | 59.62% | |
| Buying pornography | 13.46% | |
| Buying a sex toy | 57.69% | |
| Going to the peelers | 25.00% | |
| Going to the baths / peeps | 0.00% | |
| Going to a sex professional | 1.92% | |
| I did not contribute to the sex industry | 21.15% | |
| 19) I would have sex more often if it weren’t for | ||
| Being single and not meeting people | 25.00% | |
| Working too much | 25.00% | |
| Being too busy | 34.62% | |
| Having an unwilling partner | 9.62% | |
| My damn kids | 1.92% | |
| This STI | 0.00% | |
| My sexual dysfunction | 3.85% | |
| High prices of sex professionals | 1.92% | |
| I love the amount of sex I have | 30.77% | |
| 20) My abilities as a lover are | ||
| Amazing | 19.23% | |
| More than adequate | 61.54% | |
| OK | 13.46% | |
| Not that good | 0.00% | |
| I need some serious help here | 1.92% | |
| 21) Tell us about that | ||
| Vote ID : 8427 | I get good reviews ;P | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | I'm pretty okay the first few times, but absolutely go off when I get comfortable with my partner. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | I think it kinda depends on the circumstances. I'm into BDSM and there, the skills and the way you use them are totally different than in a situation of just straight sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | hey i am over the hill - what can i say? | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | I do my best to be a GGG girlfriend. [reference: Savage Love] I'm not thin though so that limits us a little I feel, but not by much. I think anyone who checks amazing is a liar. We all have room for improvement. | |
| Vote ID : 8589 | ive been told that i am very good | |
| Vote ID : 8653 | Not confident. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | its all about chemistry | |
| Vote ID : 8839 | i feel confident and reciprocated in my skills | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | I am creative, inventive, open-minded and really really love to make my partner moan Oh My God! | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | Eventually I will be really good at sex. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | When you've been with the same person for so long you know what they like. So as far as my partner's concerned, & that's the only vote that counts, I'm amazing! | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | My partner & I have good sex-karma. What goes around cums around. | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | I think that being a good lover is about listening and paying attention. The chemistry in my relationship is awesome, but the sex is even better because we both pay attention and care about the other's enjoyment. | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | I give the worlds best blowjob. Fer realz. The trick...is to ENJOY giving them!!!! | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | I am lacking a bit in the sack only because my parnter lacks in turning me on or initiating sexual action. | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | i feel unable to make her happy. | |
| Vote ID : 9392 | I am too much sex for my past my past his prime pothead boyfriend. | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | Well, I tend to get guys off pretty fast, maybe they are all secretly virgins and didn't want to tell me. But to be honest I do what I do and it seems to work, i would assume seeing as it gets the job done it feels good for the guy, and it usually feels good for me so *thumbs up*. | |
| Vote ID : 9490 | I have full confidence in my abilities as a lover, and so does my partner ;) | |
| Vote ID : 9590 | I'm GGG, attentive and enthusiastic. | |
| Vote ID : 9608 | Practice makes perfect and I'm pretty (ethically) slutty. | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | I have just been having sex since I was 11...I have had so many lovers from all over the world and while travelling...when I was single- I was an amazing player...The trick- do not have any of your lovers from the same social networks. This way they will never cross paths. Another trick-don't even exchange phone numbers. For one night stands...no names or give an alias. These are probably the main reasons for having over 300 partners of different shapes sizes, ethnicities, customs-You just become a good judge of what to do with whom and you share an AMAZING experience together. NOTE: I am not a loose slut...very sexual AND very picky about whom I choose to sleep with. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | Feel that I have had enough partners in the past 35 years that I have learned a few things | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | All my past partners have indicated that I have helped them explore things they otherwise would not have, which is kind of interesting considering I got a late start on sex :) | |
| Vote ID : 9793 | I think I'm pretty good, although I don't have a lot to compare against. I'm proud of my abilities to deep throat and overall I think I'm pretty awesome at fellatio. | |
| Vote ID : 9794 | I'm fun, enthusiastic, GGG (dan savage reference), attractive, well groomed, keep myself in good physical and mental shape, express my sexual needs, and listen to my partners. | |
| 22) I would experiment outside the bounds of my sexual orientation | ||
| Yes | 82.69% | |
| No | 1.92% | |
| Maybe | 11.54% | |
| 23) I would “partner swap” | ||
| Yes | 26.92% | |
| No | 30.77% | |
| Maybe | 38.46% | |
| 24) I would go to a sex club | ||
| Yes | 34.62% | |
| No | 23.08% | |
| Maybe | 38.46% | |
| 25) I would use a sex toy on myself | ||
| Yes | 88.46% | |
| No | 0.00% | |
| Maybe | 7.69% | |
| 26) I would use a sex toy on my partner | ||
| Yes | 75.00% | |
| No | 1.92% | |
| Maybe | 19.23% | |
| 27) I would make a dirty movie | ||
| Yes | 40.38% | |
| No | 30.77% | |
| Maybe | 25.00% | |
| 28) I’d take it in the butt | ||
| Yes | 44.23% | |
| No | 25.00% | |
| Maybe | 26.92% | |
| 29) I would visit a sex worker | ||
| Yes | 13.46% | |
| No | 63.46% | |
| Maybe | 19.23% | |
| 30) I would consider bestiality | ||
| Yes | 1.92% | |
| No | 88.46% | |
| Maybe | 5.77% | |
| 31) I would do it in a public place | ||
| Yes | 69.23% | |
| No | 5.77% | |
| Maybe | 21.15% | |
| 32) I would sleep with someone who is married, but not to me | ||
| Yes | 30.77% | |
| No | 38.46% | |
| Maybe | 26.92% | |
| 33) I’d have an abortion | ||
| Yes | 50.00% | |
| No | 25.00% | |
| Maybe | 21.15% | |
| 34) I always follow the “half my age plus seven” rule | ||
| Yes | 34.62% | |
| No | 44.23% | |
| Maybe | 17.31% | |
| 35) I would sleep with someone for money | ||
| Yes | 21.15% | |
| No | 53.85% | |
| Maybe | 21.15% | |
| 36) I would use drugs to enhance sexual pleasure | ||
| Yes | 40.38% | |
| No | 25.00% | |
| Maybe | 30.77% | |
| 37) I would cheat on my partner | ||
| Yes | 7.69% | |
| No | 65.38% | |
| Maybe | 23.08% | |
| 38) I’d use the Internet to hook up: | ||
| Yes | 34.62% | |
| No | 36.54% | |
| Maybe | 25.00% | |
| 39) Is there anything else you’d like to tell us about? | ||
| Vote ID : 8427 | Lets see: I can't really experiment outside my orientation because I am bi; the only way I could cheat on my partner is to lie, which I don't do; I have "done it" in a public place...long long ago. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | When I did this survey last year, the answers were quite different as I was only starting to explore my sexuality. | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | who makes these rules? Consenting adults can do what they like | |
| Vote ID : 8540 | No! | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | I am bi-curious but i cant ever seem to find any girls interested in a one night thing. And i KNOW they are out there..... | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | Nope | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | A good male lover puts a woman first cuz when you truly do it will be even better for you! | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | No. | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | The last time I checked, "too hard" wasn't the safeword we'd agreed on. | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | I am awesome. Just sayin. | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | Monogomy in society should almost be a crime for the lack of experimentation involved. | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | I love car-sex. | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | Just let it all out, be honest with yourself and the partner you're with. Sex is another way to communicate. Sex with yourself and fantacies are just as important. Keep every-one safe. Be selfish and get the pleasure your looking for. | |
| 40) Tell us about the most exciting sex you’ve had in the past year | ||
| Vote ID : 8410 | When my baby was conceived | |
| Vote ID : 8427 | Hehe. Got some Pure Satisfaction at a sex toy demo. Well worth it ;) | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | I had a threesome with my ex-boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend a couple of months ago. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | Tough call... Probably a relatively small but slightly a sex party where we were almost all (those of us active, anyways) somehow part of this big poly group. So it was like, suddenly tonight I get up to four or five partners. Then we went to the strippers and I finger fucked a girl in the bathroom. That was pretty cool. (Because it's the most public thing I've done yet) | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | Taking orders from soldierboy man in his uniform to get us naked and crazy for the first time! | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | I think all our sex is pretty mindblowingly exciting. I think my favorite was the threeway we recently had. I think the reason it was so "exciting" was because it was very different for my partner. Not something I regularly do either but I've done them before. We decided to go with a professional because in the past I've lost friendships and/or relationships to jealousy or romantic issue that get all tangled up in them and as i don't think a boyfriend will ever be jealous of a hooker that was the choice we made. it worked out excellently. It may have cost us a decent amount but we had an amazing time, no ones feelings were hurt and I even learned a few new trick. definitely and experience I'd do again and recommend others try. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | he held my wrists behind my back while giving it to me doggy style. it was the best sex i've had yet for that sole reason. | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | I was in the mood and totally relaxed and gave my partner amazing knee collapsing oral sex-which made me killer ready to go and so we then explored each other for several hours until I needed to orgasm and then rolled over, snuggled in and slept soundly! | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | When my partner shows me he wants me me me that in itself is the start of excitement. When sex is about pleasing me even more than him that is a good lover so it comes back to him in terms of my increased desire. Thus mutually pleasing. Most exciting is probably still to come as we have more time together. I like near public experiences , bondage And role playing games etc once a great base has been established. Equality in the bedroom is almost as important to me as it is in life. | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | sadly nothing exciting lately | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | I haven't had sex in the past year. I had a totally spontaneous orgasm while walking down the street about a month ago, though, which was pretty nice. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | We had an entire day of just teasing each other. The tension was incredible and finally getting to it was AMAZING! I love build up like that. | |
| Vote ID : 9151 | You know the wonderful thing about being a switch.. is that sometimes you can still be surprised. I was very surprised this weekend with the man who has been my subby for the last few years. You know as I was getting dressed to go play with him, I was thinking about the hot things I had planned to do to him. Using his handcuffs to bind his cock nice and tight while riding his mouth having him please me over and over...you get the idea. Well, I was a bit late arriving as is a Mistress' whim, I opened the door which he had unlocked having learned from previous lessons. The upstairs was dark so I thought mmm..and headed downstairs where I had asked him to have our toys ready to play with. OHMY.. as I finished walking down the carpeted stairs I saw him watching me with this lil glint he gets in his eyes... I knew something was up. He smiled and said you are late, and since you are late you are going to be punished... oh the tables had instantly turned. He moved his heavy coffee table to the side, reached behind my neck to grab that place in my hairline which makes me switch into submode... biting my lip as he put me on my knees i couldnt do anything but look up at him and wonder his plans... then he told me. i was to suck his cock and make him cum if i couldnt do it in 15 min then i wouldnt be allowed to cum at all. my hands cuffed together, my skirt pulled up over my hips so he would be able to watch my ass bob up and down in time with my lips... i began to please him the way i know he loves... fingers playing alternately with his balls then his nipples; taking him deep and licking that spot to make him moan.. hoping he would cum all over my lips and tongue. Feeling him restrain himself clenching the soft leather of his couch i knew he was so close...soooo close...but so were the 15 min. | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Standing up, at a national park, just off of the beaten trail. I orgasmed and collapsed in his arms! | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | We were camping with a group of people and had trouble getting time alone, so we went off to the showers together and did it standing up, both of us trying our best to be quiet so nobody would know what we were up to in there! | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | All of our sex is always incredible, but over the past year, I got pregnant, and we decided not to keep it. I made an appointment at the abortion clinic, and we had to wait a month for the appointment. Pregnancy did NOT agree with me, I was swollen, I fainted a lot, and was just generally grumpy and in pain, so we didn't have sex more than a few times for the whole month. After the abortion we had to wait 10 days before we could get busy again. The first time back in the saddle after almost a month and a half of abstinence was GLORIOUS! We had both just missed being together so much. We had sex 3 times that night, first we just fucked, which let out a lot of the stress that the pregnancy and abortion had put on us, but then the last time we made love for an hour, and it was friggin unbelievable. <3 | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | The most exciting sex would have been the sex that I fantasize about. I am unable to have an open relationship, so the stuff I dream about it amazing. Mmmm. | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | The first time I had an orgasm with my girlfriend was the first time ive ever had an orgasm and it was the most incredible feeling in the world. | |
| Vote ID : 9392 | With my sexy girl friend I've been wanting to bang for years. Until my boyfriend walked in on us.. | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | Sex on the couch in the frat house was pretty awesome, ended up getting couch burn on my leg but, the fact that any of the guys could have came out of their rooms and saw us at any point in the night was pretty awesome. | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | In the V.I.P. area of a nightclub, looking out over hundreds of people and being choked from behind whilst he's in my ass. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | No sex for two weeks and but thought about it everyday! When it was finally available again we both had an incredible time! | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | In the past year? Probably having a partner who actually managed to get me off! If we are talking "exciting" like "risque"...then it would have to be hotel balcony sex over a main road in Vancouver or fucking my female partner on the dance floor of a club. Ha. | |
| Vote ID : 9793 | Compared to other people who are going to write in I have a feeling my experience might not seem that exciting, but it is all about the orgasm for me. The best sex is when I have five or more orgasms... and it's happened several times. | |
| 41) The greatest triumph in my sex life is when I: | ||
| Vote ID : 8427 | Seduced my husband on our first date. | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | Spent ten days straight in my lover's bed. We had sex about thirty times...it hurt so good! | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | Explored various kinds of sex with a woman! And before that, got into BDSM. | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | Its all good | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | Lost my virginity haha. It took that poor boy 9 months to get into my pants. The horrible things we girls do to such horny teenage boys. Once I found out how fun and not terrifying sex is/was/always will be I've had no real obstacles haha. | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | Female ejaculated...lol! | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | Fucked girls. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | Probably the first time I was with a woman. | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Finally kissed a girl! | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | I took the time to think about my own desires. As women, we're often socialized to think about what others want from us sexually but ignore our own wishes. By becoming conscious about my boundaries, my desires, and my right to say no and say yes, I now have a much better sex life. | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | Made him come in his eye!!!! I felt like a porn star. | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | Had the greatest sex of my entire life with this man I used to work with. We had (and maybe still would have) the most amazing animalistic energy. We'd snog and knock over bookshelves and fuck amazingly. This I will never forget. I only regret that it had to end because it was the most vividly romantic relationship I have ever had when it comes to sex. I have never been more satisfied. Probably won't ever be as satisfied, either. | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | Made my girlfriend orgasm for the first time. | |
| Vote ID : 9361 | have an orgasm. | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | Slept with the man I was in love with, it felt amazing and i doubt it will ever be topped. | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | Can make a guy cum more then once in the same hour. | |
| Vote ID : 9608 | decided to only have sex when I am sober. | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | While i was giving head to a guy and my tongue flicked up at the same time he thrust in orgasm and he split my tongue from the bottom of my mouth...i kept going to finish the deed but couldn't talk for over a month after because i was trying to let the rip heel...there's still a significant split there to remember... | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | Can still get my partner so excited that an orgasm happens within the first minute. Then the real fun begins! | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | Coming with a partner; after 7 years of sexual activity with various partners, I didn't think it would ever happen! | |
| Vote ID : 9793 | Learned to be more expressive and ask for what I want in the bedroom. | |
| 42) My greatest regret about my sex life is the time I | ||
| Vote ID : 8427 | Didn't cuddle with my first love. | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | Had anal sex. That's how I found out I have IBS...because I had to go to the hospital. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | Had sex with my second boyfriend, and he gave me herpes. And he was a loser, too. | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | Slept with two guys like filling in a sandwich...ewhhh | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | I don't think i have any regrets. I'm pretty happy about who I have and have not slept with. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | hooked up with a bastard who stole my underwear and earrings and thought he was Tucker Max. B.M. YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | hasn't happened... everything that was not great also taught me some important lessons... | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | Have not had enough experiences with women! | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | didn't sleep with the girls who were making out on the bed next to me | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | Didn't fuck enough boys. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | No regrets. | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Wasn't in the mood but had sex anyways. I was bored out of my skull & faking it is pointless. | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | I ended up having a relationship with the abusive dude and not the amazing loving woman after I hooked up with both of them for a threesome. Should have stuck with her--life would have been much happier! | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | Did nothing. | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | Slept with an older man. And had sex with numerous men (long term relationships) without a condom. I should have. Ick. | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | had my first time with some guy i met at a bus stop that i didn't even really know. | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | have no regrets. | |
| Vote ID : 9608 | fell asleep in a puddle of my own puke (in bed) after taking it up the ass. | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | I was only 14, I was working at a car show and was in the dunk tank. I met the owner of a radio station and lied about my age...we were in his penthouse on Saskatchewan drive when I think he realized i was "under-age". I felt really bad because he had already used me as his ornament for a couple of weeks with his friends and in social functions. He took me to nightclubs and restaurants...I really used him, not realizing our relationship was probably really damaging to his public image. I can just imagine his humility...From that moment on, I vowed to always consider the dangers of damaging other people reputations if the liason was ever discovered. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | Slept with a non married friend when I was married and he decided to tell the bloody world that he loved me! Not cool. | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | I don't know that it is a regret in the truest sense, I don't feel bad about having a drunken one night stand as a means of losing my virginity - I just wish the sex had been at least decent. | |
| Vote ID : 9794 | first had anal sex with a partner who didn't care much about my pleasure or safety. | |
| 43) Tell us a secret you would never tell your partner | ||
| Vote ID : 8427 | no | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | Apparently I have a sensitive cervix. Sometimes it seriously hurts when we have sex. I like the pain, and I'm too afraid that if he knows it hurts, he'll stop. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | I don't really know.... I guess my boyfriend from abroad doesn't know about BDSM and the fact that I've had sex with girls.. But I do plan on telling him eventually. Or not, if it doesn't work out. (he's kind of conservative) | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | I HATE his stupid rabbit and I wish it would run away from our house. But he loves it so. So I tolerate its disgusting existence. If you meant sexually I don't have any. Any I think of I tell him and we try ASAP. I find that's the best way to enjoy life. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | I used to be a compulsive cheater. But i wont cheat on you baby i promise :) | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | I fake orgasms sometimes so that we can move on to more interesting things... | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | When you are with your partner long enough and you have trust why bother with secrets as it can limit what you might do. Eventually my partner is likely to know all the kinky things I have done as he is ready to. | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | that i like anonymous sexual encounters in peepshows | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | I would be so down for being tied up | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | Terrible. I tell him EVERYTHING. | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Nope. | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | I cheated on my ex-husband. | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | There are a lot more sex tapes of me kicking around (various ex's) than he thinks there are. | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | That if my previous sexcapade partner asked me to sleep with him again, i probably would. That and I miss being with a woman. | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | I will always love my ex more than him. | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | I don't have any of those, i am an open book. | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | I just never tell him about past experiences...not fair...I am always here with him. So to tell a secret...hmmm I probably have faked an orgasm or two...haha! | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | The number of people I have slept with! I think it is over 85. | |
| Vote ID : 9794 | there aren't any. | |
| 44) How do you engage your partner in experimentation in the bedroom? | ||
| Vote ID : 8427 | I'll have to think about that... | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | I talk about it extensively. There's nothing sexier than verbal foreplay. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | Slightly joking suggestions... or just put certain things in certain places and go from there. Frankly I find asking tends to work well, but a few of my partners are pretty liberal anyway. The ones that are less experienced, I know some things they just aren't ready for. | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | asking | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | "Honey, I found this new [insert position, book, toy here]... [Insert giggles and clothing removal]" | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | Test the waters with conversation about it after a few highballs and see where it goes | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | -depends on the mood... sometimes playfully, sometimes by surprise, sometimes by saying YES! | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | Tell him what I like so he knows he is on the right track. State a few specifics. Let him know that my sex drive is high and that I want him now now and now (easier when you see each other less and don't live together). Sometimes start something or say something to test the wAters. Then see his reaction. Plant seeds verbally for things in the future. | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | I don't really, he is not very skillful, i mostly avoid it untill he bugs me enough | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | I haven't | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | Any way I can think of. We both make an effort to keep things fresh, explore and share fantasys and always, always communicate. | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Ask, or discuss it...especially after an orgasm. Makes for the best pillowtalk. | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | I share a fantasy or ask for what I want. Pretty simple, really. He's usually more than happy to give it a try! And if not, I respect that he has boundaries around what's okay and not okay for him and is cool about expressing them. | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | I order him around =P | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | Suggest it WHILE we are getting it on. | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | bringing sex toys into play once in a while | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | I don't know, you tell me. | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | I say "I just want to make you happy." | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | It really never stops... | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | Just start it and direct it. | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | I engage them first outside of the bedroom, I think that is the key. You have to talk about fantasies, desires, and personal limits, in order to know where you can take your sex life. My activities are usually limited by my partner's comfort zones, as I'm pretty open to new things (no pun intended). | |
| 45) What’s the most interesting sexual request you’ve gotten this year? | ||
| Vote ID : 8427 | Nothing that counts as stricktly sexual... | |
| Vote ID : 8490 | "I want to skullfuck you." | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | To be double-penetrated. It didn't end up happening though. Or when I was asked to go for coffee by some OLD man in Walmart when I was dressed for a party. I just didn't want to go there.... | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | turn me over...i'm done on this side | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | well I have an account on xtube- i don't make or post videos but everyone watches porn! and I like to comment on everything, as you can tell- and I had a dude leave me a message with his address and the code to get into house and where the key was hidden and he wanted me to just surprise "rape" him one day. that was weird. I said no to HIV and Herpes though, don't worry. I also said no to the lawsuit. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | to give my partner a rim job. :) and to have a threesome with my buddy and his girl | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | using electricity.... | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | Nothing this past year bur prior to this year out shopping / quasi interviewing on the spot for a threesome prior to this year tower someone I had been verbally communicating with to act out a story he had written where I would remain blind folded and never see him. | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | "permission" to have a girlfriend on the side | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | A drunk guy wanted to pay me to screw him. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | He has decided he's open to explore anal stimulation. | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | To keep my boots on! | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | To videotape myself masturbating in a public restroom and then send it to him. | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | If I could be ''face-fucked''. | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | Nothing interesting, I've been with lame guys. | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | To be banged on the hood of a car. | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | It pretty much happens all of the time...so none of them are interesting requests anymore, when you get requests, usually the guy or the girl are eager people and quite obnoxious or greasy no matter what they look like...alot of talk goes with alot of walk in my books. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | To meet up with a an old friend who I had great sex with in my 20's and show each other how much better we are today. Opportunity has not happened yet but it is fun thinking about it. | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | Nothing too interesting in the grand scheme of things...just to fuck a girl with a strap-on. | |
| 46) What kinds of things are just too “out there” for you to try sexually? Why? | ||
| Vote ID : 8427 | Anal. Not too out there, just painful. | |
| Vote ID : 8505 | Prostitution... and anything with pretty random strangers. I prefer for there to be some sort of community connections, so I can know my potential sexual partners' reputations and situations. That being said, I have had sex with "random strangers" my friends or friends' friends knew. | |
| Vote ID : 8524 | S&M - who likes pain??? | |
| Vote ID : 8543 | uhm well rape fantasies for personal reasons I don't feel like talking about. and then anything with a living being that can't consent. like bestiality. soooooo don't get that. Anything else I refuse it's because of the high chances of contracting an STI. or, higher I suppose. | |
| Vote ID : 8744 | bdsm. Dont know what it is about the stuff, but is not for me. | |
| Vote ID : 8863 | Animals, way younger individuals... Animals...wrong species way younger...consent and power differentials | |
| Vote ID : 9003 | I like s and m and b and d but not sure I would go to a group for that. I might be too shy or may not want to exchange partners. I wouldn't rule it out though for the future I doubt that I would have sex with several partners one after another in public. Too close of an image to gang unwanted sex ie rape | |
| Vote ID : 9052 | not into pain. | |
| Vote ID : 9069 | Nothing involving bodily fluids that are created by your digestive system. And nothing really degrading: I don't understand how a couple could keep being respectful and happy with each other outside the bedroom if they're being (even with consent) kind of abusive within it. | |
| Vote ID : 9139 | Golden showers really don't appeal to me. I just don't like the idea. Blood. Animals. | |
| Vote ID : 9151 | I wouldn't try anything that would have to be explained to a police officer... | |
| Vote ID : 9173 | Autoeroticasphyxiation, because it's terrible for your body! | |
| Vote ID : 9310 | I am not okay with anything involving sex workers. The issues of consent and exploitation are too muddy, and I would never want to use another person. While I know that some people may choose sex work of their own free will, I can never feel sure about it. Same goes for porn. I don't trust the conditions of production, so I don't use it. | |
| Vote ID : 9320 | scat play, cause it's pretty gross in my opinion. | |
| Vote ID : 9338 | I'm not sure. Maybe serious S&M. I like it softer but when it comes to mimicking animals and being gagged, I'm not so sure I could do that. | |
| Vote ID : 9346 | lots, im pretty vanilla... | |
| Vote ID : 9483 | Hmm pain and torture type stuff isn't my thing, i'm more of a passionate person in bed. | |
| Vote ID : 9559 | Filth play. Too many risks & way too messy/smelly. Kids. OFF LIMITS & SEVERELY vile to even consider. Animals. If a partner isn't capable of LEGALLY consenting, it DOESN'T HAPPEN. | |
| Vote ID : 9568 | Nothing. | |
| Vote ID : 9674 | Well the beastiality question above...heard of it and would never do it. Do not like raping either. I think I raped some-one in Portugal...she was really into me and I snuffed her after sex...she got so clingy and I told her to fuck off...still feel really bad when the memory pops up. That experience taught me a lesson on how females can be misled so easily...so you really have to lay all the facts out with them first. | |
| Vote ID : 9717 | Not into animals cause it is just not appealing. Some of the fetish stuff I just do not understand. | |
| Vote ID : 9745 | Scat play, strangulation, bestiality, engaging sex workers. Why? None of them are a turn on for me. | |
| Vote ID : 9794 | Um, poo, animals and children. I think the reasons are pretty obvious. | |