| 1) I most identify as a | ||
| Male | 0.00% | |
| Female | 100.00% | |
| 2) My sexual orientation is | ||
| Gay | 100.00% | |
| Straight | 0.00% | |
| Bisexual | 0.00% | |
| 3) My age is | ||
| Under 18 | 8.33% | |
| 18 - 25 | 58.33% | |
| 26 - 35 | 25.00% | |
| 36 - 45 | 8.33% | |
| 46+ | 0.00% | |
| 4) I lost my virginity when I was | ||
| Under 18 | 41.67% | |
| 18 - 20 | 41.67% | |
| 21 - 25 | 8.33% | |
| 26 + | 0.00% | |
| I’m a virgin | 8.33% | |
| 5) It was | ||
| Awesome | 41.67% | |
| All right | 16.67% | |
| Awkward | 16.67% | |
| Awful | 16.67% | |
| Absent, because I’m a virgin | 8.33% | |
| 6) Tell us a bit about your first time: | ||
| Vote ID : 8450 | My parents were out of town, it was cute and fun and we got pizza afterwards! #firsttimewin | |
| Vote ID : 8562 | Ah, the awkwardness of having your first gay experience in your bedroom next door to your mom's... | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | I'm a FREAKING VIRGIN PEOPLE!!!! DIDN'T YOU NOTICE THE LAST TWO ANSWERS?! V.I.R.G.I.N. | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | It took a long time for us to actually "do it", but it was very lovely. | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | Painful | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | counterintuitive position. in the dude's room while his WHOLE family was home. | |
| Vote ID : 9602 | Scared out of my mind with another woman, felt like i was comiting a crime. | |
| 7) In the past month I have had sex: | ||
| Never | 25.00% | |
| Once or twice | 25.00% | |
| A few times | 16.67% | |
| A bunch of times | 33.33% | |
| At least once a day | 0.00% | |
| 8) In the past month I have masturbated | ||
| Never | 8.33% | |
| Once or twice | 8.33% | |
| A few times | 25.00% | |
| A bunch of times | 50.00% | |
| At least once a day | 8.33% | |
| 9) In the past 12 months I have had | ||
| 0 sex partners | 16.67% | |
| 1 sex partner | 41.67% | |
| 2 - 4 sex partners | 25.00% | |
| 5 - 10 sex partners | 8.33% | |
| More than 10 sex partners | 8.33% | |
| 10) The longest I’ve ever gone without sex is | ||
| one day | 0.00% | |
| one week | 0.00% | |
| one month | 8.33% | |
| more than one month | 50.00% | |
| one year | 0.00% | |
| more than one year | 33.33% | |
| All the time up until now because I'm a virgin | 8.33% | |
| 11) Why did you go that long? | ||
| Vote ID : 8450 | uhmm dry spell. | |
| Vote ID : 8562 | Not attracted to a lot of people, and I rather have sex in relationships vs. hook-ups. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | Because I'm not ready to have sex yet. | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | Because I hadn't figured out that I was queer, and didn't want to have sex with a man. | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | No prospects | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | meh. | |
| Vote ID : 9191 | To take a break, focus on other parts of my life, an intentional break. | |
| Vote ID : 9602 | Because I was single and not a whore! | |
| Vote ID : 9632 | didnt want to have sex with another idiot | |
| 12) In the past 12 months I am | ||
| In the same relationship | 41.67% | |
| Out of an old relationship | 8.33% | |
| In a new relationship | 0.00% | |
| Out of an old relationship AND into a new relationship | 16.67% | |
| Playing the field | 16.67% | |
| No change in my relationship status | 16.67% | |
| 13) Tell us about that | ||
| Vote ID : 8450 | almost four years, whaaat. | |
| Vote ID : 8562 | Ended a long-distance relationship, started a regular one, ended that and now I'm just having fun. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | I'm single. I've been single since I was born. Why do you care? | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | Technically in the same relationship, but we've been on and off within that time. | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | Single | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | polyamory. | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | whirlwind year of love! | |
| Vote ID : 9191 | two main relationships, one ended, one kept going, is sort of ending. | |
| Vote ID : 9632 | she is fantastic | |
| 14) The approach I take to my relationship is | ||
| Monogamous | 75.00% | |
| Non-monogamous | 25.00% | |
| Secretly non-monogamous | 0.00% | |
| Sometimes non-monogamous | 0.00% | |
| 15) What that means to me is | ||
| Vote ID : 8450 | generally, but there are grey areas that we have discussed, kind of like brian and justin from QAF, no kissing, never with the same person more then once. | |
| Vote ID : 8562 | I prefer, at least at this time in my life to work on the dynamics of only the two people in the relationship without any other interference, emotionally, sexually or otherwise. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | My girlfriend and I would be romantically and sexually involved only with each other and no-one else. Also, no flirting outside of the relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | Sexually intimate with only one person, but secretly longing to "play the field" a bit. | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | One partner. Period. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | many different needs=many different relationships. | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | honesty and respect | |
| Vote ID : 9191 | An open relationship, fluidity, based on a tonne of communication and an openness to the idea of close relationships, sexual & emotional, with others. | |
| Vote ID : 9602 | I don't do anything sexual with anyone but my gf | |
| Vote ID : 9632 | i don't have anything to spare for anyone else | |
| 16) I use condoms because | ||
| I don't use condoms because neither I, nor my partner, have a penis | 75.00% | |
| I want to protect against pregnancy | 0.00% | |
| I want to protect against disease | 0.00% | |
| I want to protect against pregnancy AND disease | 0.00% | |
| I have been stepping out on my partner | 0.00% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I am monogamous | 16.67% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I have a death wish | 0.00% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I’m a virgin | 8.33% | |
| 17) Last year, I contributed to the sex industry by | ||
| Looking at porn but not paying for it | 75.00% | |
| Buying pornography | 16.67% | |
| Buying a sex toy | 100.00% | |
| Going to the peelers | 8.33% | |
| Going to the baths / peeps | 0.00% | |
| Going to a sex professional | 0.00% | |
| I did not contribute to the sex industry | 0.00% | |
| 19) I would have sex more often if it weren’t for | ||
| Being single and not meeting people | 41.67% | |
| Working too much | 25.00% | |
| Being too busy | 25.00% | |
| Having an unwilling partner | 8.33% | |
| My damn kids | 0.00% | |
| This STI | 0.00% | |
| My sexual dysfunction | 0.00% | |
| High prices of sex professionals | 0.00% | |
| I love the amount of sex I have | 25.00% | |
| 20) My abilities as a lover are | ||
| Amazing | 33.33% | |
| More than adequate | 41.67% | |
| OK | 16.67% | |
| Not that good | 0.00% | |
| I need some serious help here | 8.33% | |
| 21) Tell us about that | ||
| Vote ID : 8450 | so i've heard... =) | |
| Vote ID : 8562 | I always tend to be the one left less than satisfied. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | Never been in a relationship, have no idea what to do. Haven't you read my previous answers, dumbass? | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | What can I say, I love to please. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | i like to please. | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | True story! I've been told! | |
| Vote ID : 9632 | meh | |
| 22) I would experiment outside the bounds of my sexual orientation | ||
| Yes | 41.67% | |
| No | 33.33% | |
| Maybe | 25.00% | |
| 23) I would “partner swap” | ||
| Yes | 25.00% | |
| No | 58.33% | |
| Maybe | 16.67% | |
| 24) I would go to a sex club | ||
| Yes | 41.67% | |
| No | 41.67% | |
| Maybe | 16.67% | |
| 25) I would use a sex toy on myself | ||
| Yes | 100.00% | |
| No | 0.00% | |
| Maybe | 0.00% | |
| 26) I would use a sex toy on my partner | ||
| Yes | 100.00% | |
| No | 0.00% | |
| Maybe | 0.00% | |
| 27) I would make a dirty movie | ||
| Yes | 33.33% | |
| No | 41.67% | |
| Maybe | 25.00% | |
| 28) I’d take it in the butt | ||
| Yes | 58.33% | |
| No | 25.00% | |
| Maybe | 16.67% | |
| 29) I would visit a sex worker | ||
| Yes | 16.67% | |
| No | 66.67% | |
| Maybe | 16.67% | |
| 30) I would consider bestiality | ||
| Yes | 0.00% | |
| No | 83.33% | |
| Maybe | 16.67% | |
| 31) I would do it in a public place | ||
| Yes | 41.67% | |
| No | 16.67% | |
| Maybe | 41.67% | |
| 32) I would sleep with someone who is married, but not to me | ||
| Yes | 33.33% | |
| No | 50.00% | |
| Maybe | 16.67% | |
| 33) I’d have an abortion | ||
| Yes | 50.00% | |
| No | 16.67% | |
| Maybe | 33.33% | |
| 34) I always follow the “half my age plus seven” rule | ||
| Yes | 16.67% | |
| No | 58.33% | |
| Maybe | 25.00% | |
| 35) I would sleep with someone for money | ||
| Yes | 16.67% | |
| No | 50.00% | |
| Maybe | 33.33% | |
| 36) I would use drugs to enhance sexual pleasure | ||
| Yes | 0.00% | |
| No | 66.67% | |
| Maybe | 33.33% | |
| 37) I would cheat on my partner | ||
| Yes | 0.00% | |
| No | 75.00% | |
| Maybe | 25.00% | |
| 38) I’d use the Internet to hook up: | ||
| Yes | 50.00% | |
| No | 16.67% | |
| Maybe | 33.33% | |
| 39) Is there anything else you’d like to tell us about? | ||
| Vote ID : 8450 | Love the new website! | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | I have had bestiality fantasies but have never acted them out. I prefer to identify as 'gay' but I have had some attractions to men. I am very confident and happy about my sexuality, and enjoy using a vibrator on a daily basis. I am currently planning to buy a 'Feeldoe' dildo, because the idea of wearing one turned me on. | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | I would totally do it in the wilderness, but not in a populated area. | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | No, I'm pretty depressed now. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | sex is good. sex is healthy. i love sex. and i would try *just* about anything and everything at least once. | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | I would enthusiastically stick my entire hand in someone's cunt or butt! | |
| 40) Tell us about the most exciting sex you’ve had in the past year | ||
| Vote ID : 8450 | Hmmm.... probs first time with a strap-on I reckon. | |
| Vote ID : 8562 | I haven't had enough to have a good story for you, unfortunately. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | I haven't had sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | It involved me and a my friend Duracell | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | on the top of a hill at a family reunion. the person may or may not have been related to me. the abortion question, how is this relevant to a person's sex life at all? this one should be removed. and the condome question should include dental dams. | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | Private lesbian sex parties: yes, believe it or not, in Edmonton!!! | |
| Vote ID : 9191 | -Strapping on a dick and having my partner put a condom on it before giving me an amazing blow job, and then subsequently orgasm-ing from this. -Dabbling in bondage, gender-bending play, sharing sexual ideas/fantasies with friends and partners, doing kind of dumb things and laughing about it, having romantic sex to that new Beach House album. | |
| 41) The greatest triumph in my sex life is when I: | ||
| Vote ID : 8450 | Had sex with a girl for the first time | |
| Vote ID : 8562 | When I realized I didn't ever have to touch a penis again. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | Does deciding that I was actually a lesbian count? | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | Used my finger on the inside and my thumb on the outside to give my female partner a fabulous orgasm. | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | Was having it. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | stepped into my slutty self and owned it. | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | In the moment, coming at the same time as my partner is pretty damn sexy. Fucking 3 gay men and 3 lesbians all in the same bed was definitely a triumph! (We did not all come at the same time.) | |
| Vote ID : 9191 | Decided that nothing was stopping me from having the kind of sex I'd always wanted. I just made a commitment to myself one day to stop having mediocre sex with people I felt kinda mediocre about. | |
| 42) My greatest regret about my sex life is the time I | ||
| Vote ID : 8450 | Had sex with a jerk in my best friends bed | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | I do sort of wish I had someone to play with, since I've been reading a lot of interesting books on sexual technique and would like to try some things out. | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | Wasted time on dysfunctional people. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | didn't kick that guy in the face for "slipping it in". | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | was raped. | |
| Vote ID : 9191 | -Was too shy/dumbstruck to tell that girl what I really wanted, and her to me, and the long silences and shy cuddling, when we were both thinking of much more exciting things to do with one another. She's the only person I feel like I really missed out on. | |
| 43) Tell us a secret you would never tell your partner | ||
| Vote ID : 8622 | I would probably never tell them that I have bestiality fantasies. | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | Even though we're both women, and I tell her she's great all the time, I secretly am not sure that she knows how to give a woman an orgasm. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | if i wouldn't tell my partner, why would i tell you? | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | Oh, I am pretty open about everything. | |
| 44) How do you engage your partner in experimentation in the bedroom? | ||
| Vote ID : 8450 | Give her some wine. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | Don't have a partner | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | We've tried various position, and have included sex toys in our play. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | the question should be: how do i NOT engage my partner in experimentation in the bedroom? | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | First step: get out of the bedroom. From there, it depends on our mutually agreed-upon definition of experimentation. Maybe some rope? Ass fucking? Fisting? Video camera? Verbal abuse? Face slapping? Piss? Shaving with a straight razor? Costumes? | |
| Vote ID : 9191 | We talk a lot about things we know we would like, things we're not sure we'd like, stuff we think we'd never like, and consider trying everything. We respect boundaries above all us, and never do anything without consent, knowing that we both have space to change our minds or vocalize new ideas at any time. Because of this, really anything goes. Also, we never rule out ideas that seem strange and we talk with our close friends about sex frequently. Outside of our relationship, we also have sex with others which makes room for trying even more new things. | |
| 45) What’s the most interesting sexual request you’ve gotten this year? | ||
| Vote ID : 8450 | To do it in the kitchen, ick where food smells are, wtf girl. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | Haven't had sexual requests | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | For me to imagine that I have a penis, and to "use it" on her. | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | This survey. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | hmmm.... "choke me". | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | I'm usually the one making the requests. | |
| 46) What kinds of things are just too “out there” for you to try sexually? Why? | ||
| Vote ID : 8450 | not into leather, ball-gags, torture, etc. | |
| Vote ID : 8622 | Needleplay, bloodplay, and 24/7 D/s, because needle/bloodplay just creeps me out, and I'm not willing to hand all of my power and well-being over to some schmuck for them to play with as they please. | |
| Vote ID : 8667 | I'm totally not interested in BD/SM, because violence- even pretend violence- is not something to be celebrated, especially in the bedroom. I also would never engage in scat/urine play. As far as I'm concerned, there are some good reasons why we don't hang around in our own excrement. | |
| Vote ID : 8792 | S&M. Stupid. People look ridiculous. | |
| Vote ID : 8907 | knife play=scary. but then again, how will i really know if i don't try it? | |
| Vote ID : 8983 | I am sure there are some things. Playing with shit comes to mind as something I'd never try. | |
| Vote ID : 9191 | Cutting, and lighting bodies on fire. I don't think I will ever want to do these things, even though I'm fine with the idea of others doing it for pleasure. | |