| 1) I most identify as a | ||
| Male | 100.00% | |
| Female | 0.00% | |
| 2) My sexual orientation is | ||
| Gay | 3.55% | |
| Straight | 86.17% | |
| Bisexual | 10.28% | |
| 3) My age is | ||
| Under 18 | 1.42% | |
| 18 - 25 | 34.40% | |
| 26 - 35 | 34.40% | |
| 36 - 45 | 21.28% | |
| 46+ | 8.51% | |
| 4) I lost my virginity when I was | ||
| Under 18 | 40.43% | |
| 18 - 20 | 36.88% | |
| 21 - 25 | 14.54% | |
| 26 + | 3.55% | |
| I’m a virgin | 4.61% | |
| 5) It was | ||
| Awesome | 26.60% | |
| All right | 41.49% | |
| Awkward | 23.76% | |
| Awful | 3.55% | |
| Absent, because I’m a virgin | 4.61% | |
| 6) Tell us a bit about your first time: | ||
| Vote ID : 8398 | Met her on a dating site. Convinced her to stay the night since it got late. She just lay there as I fucked her. I tried to eat her out, but she wouldn't let me. | |
| Vote ID : 8401 | Met her on a dating site. Convinced her to stay the night since it got late. She just lay there as I fucked her. I tried to eat her out, but she wouldn't let me. | |
| Vote ID : 8402 | Was all planned for when her parents were out. She was so nervous she made me wear two condoms! Needless to say I lasted pretty long for my first time. | |
| Vote ID : 8408 | Back of a car. Think people saw us, but didn't care | |
| Vote ID : 8414 | It was with my sisters best friend, out in an open field during the summer. | |
| Vote ID : 8416 | I paid | |
| Vote ID : 8422 | i was asleep | |
| Vote ID : 8426 | Like stepping into a vacume | |
| Vote ID : 8428 | Quick!!!! hahahahaha | |
| Vote ID : 8429 | Well, alcohol and weed was a factor, and it was on a makeshift bed in a friiend of a friend's basement, so all that = awkward for me. | |
| Vote ID : 8451 | it was at a friends birthday and his aunt was hitting on me so I went with it and wound up haveing sex with her in his spare room we were all over that room we did it on the desk the floor the bed and in multiple positions it was great | |
| Vote ID : 8500 | hot, sexy, completely thrilling. | |
| Vote ID : 8501 | I don't regret it, but I was nervous and never climaxed. | |
| Vote ID : 8509 | Meh, I got laid so that was sweet. | |
| Vote ID : 8513 | WHOA I came inside her twice. Yeah real smart 18 year old. It was my friends sister ! We never had sex again after that. She dumped me. | |
| Vote ID : 8517 | It was my wedding night. While it wasnt awful or awkward, it wasnt mind-blowing. The mind-blowing kind would come much later, after much practice and confidence. Which leads me to believe that this whole notion of saving yourself for your wedding night is a waste, unless you're saving the worst sex of your life for the one night you want it to be the best. Practice makes perfect! | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | I was on vacation in Hawaii and met this American girl, and we fucked for the week we were there together. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | got fucked by n older guy | |
| Vote ID : 8529 | ...back of a stolen mini-van. What can I say, I'm a bloody gentleman. | |
| Vote ID : 8537 | hotel hookup & burly bearish fun | |
| Vote ID : 8542 | uh... well,,, it was different | |
| Vote ID : 8553 | too short. lol. | |
| Vote ID : 8557 | I was inexperienced and lacked the proper technique. | |
| Vote ID : 8570 | It was with the girl next door in her tent | |
| Vote ID : 8590 | quick but wet | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | young in puppy love, a little awkward cause we were both first timers, but by the 3rd round we were both lovin it | |
| Vote ID : 8651 | Drunk in the back of a truck! | |
| Vote ID : 8666 | Overseas | |
| Vote ID : 8678 | We were two virgins... It was when my parents were out. Great time. | |
| Vote ID : 8680 | I lost my virginity in the back seat of my old 1988 Caddilac Brougham which was nice because it was pretty roomy. Unfortunately I'd finished almost and entire 26 of R and R and my 'whiskey dink' resulted in things lasting a good hour and a half, by which time the sun had started to come up and most of the party had come out to watch us. | |
| Vote ID : 8705 | looking back it was nothing special and I find our society and peers place too much importance on the fact of either remaining a virgin or losing your virginity | |
| Vote ID : 8710 | i was drunk | |
| Vote ID : 8712 | I actually remember the night before my first time best. A girl from work I'd been getting close to came over to use my darkroom, which turned into watchin Inland Empire, which turned into completely failing to watch Inland Empire. After a couple of hours of annoying my roommate with our noisy makeouts, we moved to my room, where we got to the nearly-naked stage before my partner said something to the effect of "Don't worry, I'm on the pill", which I somehow misheard and misinterperted as "I don't have any protection." We resumed at her house the next night with a bit better communication; my first time lasted, technically, over 24 hours. | |
| Vote ID : 8723 | lots of cum | |
| Vote ID : 8743 | She was overweight, unattractive and smelled of cigarettes and beer - a bit too easy at the moment I would say. | |
| Vote ID : 8754 | We were parked and we fucked in the front seat. She did not want me to come in her and made me pull out and come on her tits. Never realized how much fun that really was | |
| Vote ID : 8765 | Slow. Natural. Beautiful. With my then-Fiance. My now-Wife. | |
| Vote ID : 8778 | In a hostel shower. Yep, a shower. | |
| Vote ID : 8779 | We were both first-timers, so it was stunted, funny, and is now a beautiful memory. | |
| Vote ID : 8789 | There were a lot of tears. Not the ideal start. | |
| Vote ID : 8796 | Slightly awkward but satisfying , following a game of strip poker.... I had never even kissed my partner before that night. | |
| Vote ID : 8802 | It was at my girlfriend's place | |
| Vote ID : 8811 | My first time was in a hockey rink in the middle of summer. I was about 14 she was 16. She was hawttttt short long curly dark hair an beautiful blue eyes. We did alot of petting and kissing. My underwear was soaked with percum so bad even my jeans had a wet spot. I remember it like yesterday. Even get a lil excited thinking about it. I was so excited I came as soon as I entered her. She was sooo tight and warm. Never have I been that excited since then. Never will I forget her. | |
| Vote ID : 8824 | Quick. Very quick. | |
| Vote ID : 8826 | I was wearing her underwear. | |
| Vote ID : 8827 | It was brief | |
| Vote ID : 8835 | fun, sexy, experimental | |
| Vote ID : 8851 | I convinced her to do it! | |
| Vote ID : 8864 | She was my neighbor (we were both 13), we found a stash of her dad's porn tapes and followed along. | |
| Vote ID : 8871 | I was really drunk and not expecting it. I think I may have been on something else too. It suckec. | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | Talk about premature ejaculation and then immediately going soft! | |
| Vote ID : 8888 | Typical romantic movie scene. | |
| Vote ID : 8890 | She was a dead lay.... | |
| Vote ID : 8891 | drunk | |
| Vote ID : 8896 | Haha man, this isn't much to be proud of, but I was 16 and at a friend's house. The two of them were pretty open, and it was on a concrete floor! COLD! | |
| Vote ID : 8898 | Too dry! Then too wet! | |
| Vote ID : 8903 | Had sex with a more mature girl who had many sexual partners. It was fun. | |
| Vote ID : 8908 | kevin | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | On a very creaky bed in the afternoon, with her family members just beyond the door. | |
| Vote ID : 8913 | Out of doors on a mountain side in a national park | |
| Vote ID : 8919 | Got drunk with a girl I went to elementary school with, who I always thought was cute. | |
| Vote ID : 8925 | I can't remember it. | |
| Vote ID : 8941 | More straightforwards than anticipated, | |
| Vote ID : 8947 | It took a few tries because of... mechanical problems. It was terribly awkward and hilarious all at the same time. | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | When I was on my honeymoon | |
| Vote ID : 8997 | with a prostitute | |
| Vote ID : 8998 | She didn't go, got hurt | |
| Vote ID : 9004 | 100 times better for me then it was for her | |
| Vote ID : 9016 | Very nervous and it took a few times to actually 'get things going'. | |
| Vote ID : 9017 | I was 19, she was a 24 year old hispanic vixen ready to teach me and I was ready to learn. | |
| Vote ID : 9033 | My Wedding Night | |
| Vote ID : 9034 | It was with my best fiend and she had sex before it was going great but we got interupted before we could " finish the job". | |
| Vote ID : 9068 | A close friend jumped my bones while we were just hanging out in her parents basement | |
| Vote ID : 9097 | In the summer when I was 15 at a short-term girlfriends cabin, In a tent the the yard her drunk dad help us build, he also unknowingly supplied the condom, printed up with his companys logo. | |
| Vote ID : 9107 | Slept with a girl I was dating, decided I really didn't like her, so I broke up with her. She feigned a pregnancy, then a miscarrige. Then she broke into my house in the middle of the night to talk. I told her to fuck off or I was calling the cops. I never saw her again. I believe she's either dead or a fat housewife. | |
| Vote ID : 9112 | wedding night | |
| Vote ID : 9113 | "holy shit ... breasts!" | |
| Vote ID : 9133 | unprotected, quick, missionary. | |
| Vote ID : 9142 | d | |
| Vote ID : 9152 | I wish I could. I was so loaded I can hardly remember. Might be a good thing... | |
| Vote ID : 9156 | Quick & Dirty | |
| Vote ID : 9157 | Just once in, then out...does that count? | |
| Vote ID : 9160 | short and sweet | |
| Vote ID : 9162 | With my current wife, high school sweethearts and at night in the dark. | |
| Vote ID : 9164 | with my best friend, whos now my girlfriend, never been happier | |
| Vote ID : 9185 | A mistake. | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | we played strip trivial pursuit and i won | |
| Vote ID : 9210 | Blew my load almost right away... | |
| Vote ID : 9225 | With the girl who became my wife. | |
| Vote ID : 9244 | It was fun, sweet - I ended up marrying her. | |
| Vote ID : 9247 | . | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | We had been apart for just over two month | |
| Vote ID : 9254 | In a car, seat reclined; cramped. | |
| Vote ID : 9261 | It was unexpectedly in my Uncles bathroom before we were going out for dinner. | |
| Vote ID : 9274 | i was seduced by a friends older fat sister | |
| Vote ID : 9284 | regretable. Ended before either of us "ended. after about 2 hours I got tired and gave up.sex with a really neurotic girl is not fun. she was a nutcase. | |
| Vote ID : 9319 | In a gross Alberta lake, clinging to one of those floating wooden platforms because I didn't want her to think I was a pussy for not being able to swim | |
| Vote ID : 9325 | She was a friend from years ago who saw me at a bar on Valentines day. She took me back to her place, climbed on top, and made me a man! Twice! | |
| Vote ID : 9332 | She was small, I was big, it was fast. Like, literally less than five seconds. Penetrate; done. | |
| Vote ID : 9347 | No thanks | |
| Vote ID : 9349 | love love love | |
| Vote ID : 9371 | nervous, short, in gf's bedroom with the parental figures away. | |
| Vote ID : 9379 | Did it in the back of a car, drunk. It was alright, she was alright. Got tired of waiting for Ms Right. | |
| Vote ID : 9380 | 4.2 seconds. Ooops. Sorry about that. | |
| Vote ID : 9382 | ||
| Vote ID : 9394 | in a disgusting brothel | |
| Vote ID : 9444 | nervous,told her i loved her,she said only say love when it is love. thank you mary great advice,then and now | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | Hookup with a guy from gayedmonton.com... no fun at all. | |
| Vote ID : 9517 | We were both virgins. She had been told by friends that it "felt like being reamed out with a broomstick". Instead, she pulled a Cytherea all over. Way to make me feel like Super Dong! | |
| Vote ID : 9521 | Wierd... a foursome at age thirteen. will never forget the feeling of another women cupping your balls as your having sex with the other. how do you say?.... life changing. | |
| Vote ID : 9556 | I was expecting more, so I started to lose my erection in the middle of the act. | |
| Vote ID : 9572 | Challenging for both parties, but a good experience overall. | |
| Vote ID : 9579 | In hindsight I would not have had sex when I did and instead focused on learning the art of foreplay. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | former girlfriend at a party - one time only | |
| Vote ID : 9594 | Did it, liked it, ordered pizza. The pizza was awesome. | |
| Vote ID : 9600 | It was with an Ex-girlfriend that I ran into and I didn't last particularly long. | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | Random hookup in a public bathroom | |
| Vote ID : 9607 | Got drunk, fucked a friend. It didn't last long and it was bad. | |
| Vote ID : 9611 | Awkward but that's OK when with with somebody you care about. | |
| Vote ID : 9615 | She was on her period and ended in the shower. | |
| Vote ID : 9626 | bean bag chair in basement of girlfriends house | |
| Vote ID : 9639 | She was more experienced and was very sweet about it. We both came at the same time. She made me feel like a hero. I expected to feel guilty from all the religious groups' rantings, I was so thrilled after because I felt no shame at all. | |
| Vote ID : 9650 | With one of my first long-term relationships. She was very understanding and made it comfortable. | |
| Vote ID : 9654 | I thought I was going to wait until mariage and then it happened pretty quickly and I felt awful about not following my convictions. | |
| Vote ID : 9655 | 32 seconds.... | |
| Vote ID : 9670 | Didn't work quite right, awkward but sweet, practice made perfect | |
| Vote ID : 9677 | Slept over at her house. Energy drinks. | |
| Vote ID : 9689 | trying to secretly wash the bloodstains off of your sheets in the middle of the night posed as a real difficult thing. | |
| Vote ID : 9721 | With my first GF in the age of 15 | |
| Vote ID : 9724 | I lied to my mom and told her I was staying at a friends house - she busted me the next morning. | |
| Vote ID : 9743 | Not awkward at all and in fact really enjoyable. Just get over yourself and have a good time. | |
| Vote ID : 9749 | it was on the night my mother remarried in her house lol it was great | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | It was with Ginger, a hooker in Montreal. She liked it up the ass & sucked cock. Then I found out why, so I went down on her and she shot her load all over my chest. | |
| Vote ID : 9755 | it just slipped in! | |
| Vote ID : 9775 | It lasted about 7 seconds, but it was the best 7 seconds of my life up to that point. For her, probably not so much. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | A learning experience. | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | It was with a girl, I couldn't admit yet that I'm into guys instead, It took a really long time cause I just wasn't into it enough. | |
| Vote ID : 9824 | We'd been preparing for it so the first time was gentle with a lot of questions and 'are you okay'? The second time was drunk at a party and was wild and the way it should be. | |
| 7) In the past month I have had sex: | ||
| Never | 26.60% | |
| Once or twice | 14.89% | |
| A few times | 20.92% | |
| A bunch of times | 34.75% | |
| At least once a day | 2.84% | |
| 8) In the past month I have masturbated | ||
| Never | 3.55% | |
| Once or twice | 8.16% | |
| A few times | 18.09% | |
| A bunch of times | 44.33% | |
| At least once a day | 25.89% | |
| 9) In the past 12 months I have had | ||
| 0 sex partners | 9.93% | |
| 1 sex partner | 51.77% | |
| 2 - 4 sex partners | 28.37% | |
| 5 - 10 sex partners | 6.74% | |
| More than 10 sex partners | 3.19% | |
| 10) The longest I’ve ever gone without sex is | ||
| one day | 0.35% | |
| one week | 6.38% | |
| one month | 13.12% | |
| more than one month | 37.59% | |
| one year | 8.87% | |
| more than one year | 29.08% | |
| All the time up until now because I'm a virgin | 4.61% | |
| 11) Why did you go that long? | ||
| Vote ID : 8398 | Depressed, hated myself and generaly never went outside. | |
| Vote ID : 8401 | Depressed, hated myself and generaly never went outside. | |
| Vote ID : 8402 | Always loved the getting to know them period but hated when we got too comfortable with each other, so I decided to take a break for a while and not let sex control my relationships. | |
| Vote ID : 8408 | Fuckin family vacation | |
| Vote ID : 8412 | Because life is cruel. | |
| Vote ID : 8414 | Wanted to wait for the right girl. | |
| Vote ID : 8416 | I'm ugly | |
| Vote ID : 8422 | in jail | |
| Vote ID : 8428 | Didn't lnpw how to pick up women!!!! | |
| Vote ID : 8451 | Ive always been the guy that grils want to be friends with its really quite frusterating | |
| Vote ID : 8500 | girlfriend was out of the country for an extended period and i didnt want to be cheating. | |
| Vote ID : 8501 | Inbetween relationships, I don't have casual sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8502 | Long distance relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 8508 | pregnany and birth | |
| Vote ID : 8509 | Between Girlfriends. | |
| Vote ID : 8513 | Ejaculation made me feel weak mentally and physically. | |
| Vote ID : 8517 | Nothing cookin'. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | I was in a drug induced coma, for overdosing. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | depression ,stressed , no one to have sex with , low motivation | |
| Vote ID : 8529 | My thesis ruined my fucking life... That double entendre is not only explicitly true, but harrowing in memory. | |
| Vote ID : 8537 | too busy in the process of moving...to Montreal. | |
| Vote ID : 8542 | loyalty | |
| Vote ID : 8553 | bad relationship | |
| Vote ID : 8556 | I don't have sex anymore | |
| Vote ID : 8557 | I was focusing on expanding my client base and simply forgot how good it made me feel. | |
| Vote ID : 8570 | To see if I could | |
| Vote ID : 8592 | Lack of interest (or effort) | |
| Vote ID : 8597 | Weight - Still waiting for a gorgeous model who is also a chubby chaser to find me | |
| Vote ID : 8601 | my first wasn't in to the whole sex thing | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | waiting for a women who really got my attention | |
| Vote ID : 8630 | Couldn't get any. | |
| Vote ID : 8644 | laziness | |
| Vote ID : 8651 | Away from my monogamous partner | |
| Vote ID : 8666 | Pregnancy | |
| Vote ID : 8678 | Too occupied! | |
| Vote ID : 8680 | Just did. | |
| Vote ID : 8705 | visiting family and there was no privacy | |
| Vote ID : 8710 | bad break up | |
| Vote ID : 8712 | Because I'm a total pussy who feels apprehensive about asking people for sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8723 | bet | |
| Vote ID : 8730 | pregnant wife / new baby | |
| Vote ID : 8734 | I wanted to see if I'd be more productive in the rest of my life if I wasn't concerned about getting laid, I wasn't. | |
| Vote ID : 8741 | relationship trouble | |
| Vote ID : 8743 | I'm only age 70+ and need to cultivate a more mature approach I'm told. | |
| Vote ID : 8749 | married with kids ... my wife was uninterested post-pregnancy for a while | |
| Vote ID : 8751 | several months | |
| Vote ID : 8754 | Married and wife and I did not get along. She would masturbate in front of me buck would not fuck | |
| Vote ID : 8765 | My wife was visiting her family out east for a couple weeks. | |
| Vote ID : 8779 | Didn't find the right partner, I'm not into casual sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8789 | Busy. | |
| Vote ID : 8802 | Wasn't dating or seeing anyone. | |
| Vote ID : 8809 | because I had to | |
| Vote ID : 8811 | The wife and I were at odds, she was too into her twilight books and sleeping on the sofa. I was getting pissed off over the books and bitching about the time she was wasting. | |
| Vote ID : 8824 | Not in a relationbs | |
| Vote ID : 8827 | Too tired due to work | |
| Vote ID : 8835 | choise | |
| Vote ID : 8851 | personal 'issues' | |
| Vote ID : 8864 | Was in the hospital. Tough to get laid when you're pulling around an IV poll. | |
| Vote ID : 8871 | I was in Bosnia as a peacekeeper and away from my wife. | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | Lost interest | |
| Vote ID : 8888 | Too busy | |
| Vote ID : 8890 | wife just had a baby | |
| Vote ID : 8891 | not good at meeting people | |
| Vote ID : 8896 | I was at my grandparents! :S | |
| Vote ID : 8899 | weed | |
| Vote ID : 8903 | Bad break-up and more concerned about myself than anyone else | |
| Vote ID : 8908 | idk | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | No other willing parties. | |
| Vote ID : 8913 | To see if I could | |
| Vote ID : 8919 | I went through a bad break-up and was quite depressed and with a low sex drive for quite a while there after | |
| Vote ID : 8925 | Didn't have anyone to have sex with. | |
| Vote ID : 8930 | oh it wasn't by choice... | |
| Vote ID : 8941 | Schedule conflicts. | |
| Vote ID : 8947 | Relationship issues. | |
| Vote ID : 8958 | bad decisions and no confidence | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | Busy, preoccupied | |
| Vote ID : 8970 | Prudence. | |
| Vote ID : 8988 | No available partner who was interested | |
| Vote ID : 8997 | to build up the excitement | |
| Vote ID : 8998 | Just the way the relationship was going--more important things to work out that sex would have complicated. | |
| Vote ID : 9004 | Between relationships | |
| Vote ID : 9005 | I'm not a slave to my hormones and can wait until something decent comes along | |
| Vote ID : 9016 | Seperated (distance wise) from my partner. | |
| Vote ID : 9017 | Because I don't cheat on my wife and she has lost much of her sex drive at 48. | |
| Vote ID : 9033 | Baby Was Born | |
| Vote ID : 9034 | My wires health problems | |
| Vote ID : 9060 | a little over 6 months when the wife was depressed. | |
| Vote ID : 9068 | I got the flu, then she got the flu | |
| Vote ID : 9097 | Don't ask me? haha | |
| Vote ID : 9107 | busy doing other things | |
| Vote ID : 9112 | no cooperation | |
| Vote ID : 9113 | Too depressed to get it up. | |
| Vote ID : 9133 | by choice i wasn't attracted to my girlfriend and didn't want to sleep with her. | |
| Vote ID : 9142 | f | |
| Vote ID : 9152 | It was a lot longer than I wanted! But a boy's gotta have standards. | |
| Vote ID : 9156 | Dry spell. | |
| Vote ID : 9157 | Busy. | |
| Vote ID : 9160 | fight with wife | |
| Vote ID : 9162 | Away on course. | |
| Vote ID : 9164 | she/i was on vacation | |
| Vote ID : 9170 | No girlfriend | |
| Vote ID : 9206 | cannot find anyone to have sex with | |
| Vote ID : 9208 | Finding the right person to share a connection with | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | living in fort mac | |
| Vote ID : 9210 | Couldn't get laid. | |
| Vote ID : 9225 | Wife was pregnant and not feeling well. | |
| Vote ID : 9244 | I was alone | |
| Vote ID : 9247 | not where my brain was at at the time | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | I was not in the same country as my partner. | |
| Vote ID : 9254 | I was without a willing partner | |
| Vote ID : 9261 | Inbetween relationships. | |
| Vote ID : 9273 | in between relationships | |
| Vote ID : 9274 | in jail | |
| Vote ID : 9284 | well, the longest stretch of time was when I was still a virgin. That was because I was not liked by anyone with whom I shared a mutual attraction. | |
| Vote ID : 9319 | Because my lame girlfriend at the time's vagina was in hibernation because of the anyidepressants she was on | |
| Vote ID : 9332 | When the moment comes, I can't follow through on the one night stand. So sex is usually relationship based, and there are long periods (sometimes) between relationships. | |
| Vote ID : 9347 | My partner at the time was a bitch | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | Why not? Sex isn't a necessity! Our current culture puts far to much focus on sex and selling sex in every manner. Why should people be questioned for NOT having sex!? Holding out for better options is the common choice for a lot of people with work or other areas of their personal lives. Why then are we imposed to be so desperate when it comes to choosing sexual partners?! | |
| Vote ID : 9349 | logistics | |
| Vote ID : 9368 | lame | |
| Vote ID : 9371 | ? | |
| Vote ID : 9379 | I'm not dirty enough to fuck most people. | |
| Vote ID : 9380 | My wife was keeping me on a short leash. | |
| Vote ID : 9382 | Not for lack of trying. | |
| Vote ID : 9394 | my girl friend does not approve sex before marriage | |
| Vote ID : 9444 | too long | |
| Vote ID : 9459 | stupid | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | Wasn't particularly seeking it. I jerked off a lot more though! | |
| Vote ID : 9478 | no interest | |
| Vote ID : 9502 | just ended a long term realtionship wasn't looking for anything else for a while | |
| Vote ID : 9506 | bad break-up... swore off of the ladies for a while. fell off the wagon after a couple months. | |
| Vote ID : 9517 | Between girlfriends and working too much to find a new one. | |
| Vote ID : 9521 | re-evaluation. | |
| Vote ID : 9524 | medical reasons | |
| Vote ID : 9556 | Away from my partner. | |
| Vote ID : 9572 | Difficulty developing intimate relationships with women. | |
| Vote ID : 9573 | cold streak | |
| Vote ID : 9579 | I needed to regroup after the end of a relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | masturbation | |
| Vote ID : 9593 | between girlfriends | |
| Vote ID : 9594 | I'm okay without it, and also pretty picky. If I don't like you, I probably won't get up in you. | |
| Vote ID : 9600 | Bad breakup | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | I was in the closet, and too scared to pursue anything | |
| Vote ID : 9607 | Relationship ended and I'm not much for random hookups. | |
| Vote ID : 9610 | between relationships - living in a small town with uninteresting women. | |
| Vote ID : 9611 | No mutual desire. Between partners. | |
| Vote ID : 9615 | Just the way it happened. | |
| Vote ID : 9626 | work | |
| Vote ID : 9639 | I was in a committed relationship, that was sexually dysfunctional, and was away on tour for a few months. We broke up when I got home. Nice. | |
| Vote ID : 9647 | IM A VIRGIN | |
| Vote ID : 9648 | I am waiting until I am engaged or married. | |
| Vote ID : 9650 | Not one for casual hookups, and relationships are few and far between. | |
| Vote ID : 9654 | Was dating a virgin that was waiting for mariage | |
| Vote ID : 9655 | between relationships and partners | |
| Vote ID : 9670 | My wife was on the rag | |
| Vote ID : 9677 | No steady girlfriend. Just found people who were interested in helping me keep my libido in check. | |
| Vote ID : 9689 | not too suave. | |
| Vote ID : 9721 | No girlfriend | |
| Vote ID : 9724 | No girlfriend | |
| Vote ID : 9743 | Recently. | |
| Vote ID : 9749 | life just gets busy | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | Just a bad dry spell. | |
| Vote ID : 9755 | no game | |
| Vote ID : 9775 | I was traveling in the country with the worlds highest rate of AIDS per capita and I didn't want to play Russian roulette with my penis. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | I have self control? | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | Not out, and a horrible previous relationship got me way to depressed to be interested. | |
| Vote ID : 9790 | in a relationship, no choice | |
| Vote ID : 9824 | Vacation away. | |
| Vote ID : 9825 | Long-distance relationship | |
| 12) In the past 12 months I am | ||
| In the same relationship | 50.35% | |
| Out of an old relationship | 9.93% | |
| In a new relationship | 3.90% | |
| Out of an old relationship AND into a new relationship | 7.09% | |
| Playing the field | 13.48% | |
| No change in my relationship status | 14.89% | |
| 13) Tell us about that | ||
| Vote ID : 8398 | Broke out of the "depressed loner" thing, but being nocturnal doesn't help either. Fml. | |
| Vote ID : 8401 | Broke out of the "depressed loner" thing, but being nocturnal doesn't help either. Fml. | |
| Vote ID : 8402 | Married. | |
| Vote ID : 8408 | swell | |
| Vote ID : 8412 | Being single is getting really boring. | |
| Vote ID : 8414 | She is the woman I'm going to marry. | |
| Vote ID : 8416 | Why | |
| Vote ID : 8422 | engaged in an open relationship | |
| Vote ID : 8426 | what can I say ..... | |
| Vote ID : 8451 | Ive had fun with some poeple I know through friends and at work and stuff like that | |
| Vote ID : 8500 | same girl, almost 6 years. | |
| Vote ID : 8501 | Broke up with ex around october, and got a new boyfriend around january. | |
| Vote ID : 8509 | Happily Married out of my league! | |
| Vote ID : 8513 | Two long term relationships back to back with super sexy but bitchy girls. Give me a fucking break. Third times a charm! | |
| Vote ID : 8517 | I was in a monogamous two year relationship where the sex was incredible. Since it ended 5 months ago, I've been having "catch up" sex with people I'd met during that 2 year relationship, where there was an obvious connection. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | I have not had a steady relationship this year, but I have had steady partners. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | single | |
| Vote ID : 8529 | Sleeping around, as much as normal, and then by pure accident, fell in love. What a kick in the head it is. | |
| Vote ID : 8537 | a bad break up | |
| Vote ID : 8542 | I love it! | |
| Vote ID : 8557 | She is absolutely fantastic, a very passionate lover, excellent communicator,very thoughtfull, generous, tolerant and non judgemental. | |
| Vote ID : 8567 | I have some casual partners, but was not in and am still not in a romantic relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 8570 | Its trying | |
| Vote ID : 8592 | Married for 2 years | |
| Vote ID : 8601 | awesome. glad im doing this in my 20s | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | it's great | |
| Vote ID : 8644 | leave me alone | |
| Vote ID : 8651 | Happily married, no children, ....? | |
| Vote ID : 8678 | Married | |
| Vote ID : 8680 | Bitches be crazy. | |
| Vote ID : 8705 | long term relationship | |
| Vote ID : 8710 | The gold digger left me after she spent all my money | |
| Vote ID : 8712 | Re: being a total pussy, I've only recently arrived at a place where I feel confident enough in myself to try getting involved with someone else. | |
| Vote ID : 8723 | single | |
| Vote ID : 8730 | married for 7 years | |
| Vote ID : 8734 | In the past 20 months I've been in and out of a number of short term relationships. | |
| Vote ID : 8741 | marriage is ending, rethinking the future | |
| Vote ID : 8743 | We've been doing about the same for fifty years, just have to row the boat more slowly. | |
| Vote ID : 8754 | Dated one woman for 6 months and then started dating another woman for the past 11 months | |
| Vote ID : 8765 | One year anniversary of marriage is in a couple weeks. | |
| Vote ID : 8778 | It's fun. | |
| Vote ID : 8779 | We got sick of chasing each other from one city to the next. | |
| Vote ID : 8789 | Happily married to a great girl! | |
| Vote ID : 8796 | 5 year plus relationship | |
| Vote ID : 8802 | Got hooked up through friends. | |
| Vote ID : 8811 | I am 38 she is 26. We are not on the same page at all. However we have 2 girls together. she has 2 girls of her own. As well I have 2 teenage girls from a previous relationship. 6 girls and the GF, I am totally out numbered. Not to mention all the drama. | |
| Vote ID : 8835 | my wife | |
| Vote ID : 8851 | bed buddies with a steady partner | |
| Vote ID : 8864 | No interest in a relationship, just enjoying fun. | |
| Vote ID : 8871 | It's all good! | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | married 11 years | |
| Vote ID : 8890 | it's all god, need more sex though | |
| Vote ID : 8891 | getting married | |
| Vote ID : 8896 | Pretty crappy relationship, so I bailed on Ontario when I got my degree and left an abusive partner. | |
| Vote ID : 8903 | Married. Wife is carrying our child. | |
| Vote ID : 8913 | It is a wonderful relationship | |
| Vote ID : 8919 | My ex was finishing up her degree and I went to a different city to do my Master's degree and it put an inevitably unreconcilable strain on our relationship | |
| Vote ID : 8925 | It's lonely. | |
| Vote ID : 8941 | Daily learning about myself and my partner. Not always pretty, always enlightening. | |
| Vote ID : 8947 | After 5 years, things weren't working out. Being single is scary but liberating. | |
| Vote ID : 8958 | I,,,,,,,am married | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | My partner of four yrs | |
| Vote ID : 8988 | Open marriage | |
| Vote ID : 8997 | married for almost 30 years | |
| Vote ID : 8998 | Married for nearly 11 years | |
| Vote ID : 9004 | Broke up with my partner of 4 years 10 months ago | |
| Vote ID : 9016 | We have been together for over 4 years. | |
| Vote ID : 9017 | I've been married for 21 years. | |
| Vote ID : 9033 | Been Married 5 yrs | |
| Vote ID : 9034 | Married but play around a little on the side | |
| Vote ID : 9060 | Married 21 yrs and still going. It's been a pretty good year for sex. | |
| Vote ID : 9107 | married | |
| Vote ID : 9112 | 41+ years married | |
| Vote ID : 9113 | It's complicated, okay? | |
| Vote ID : 9133 | I broke up with my girlfriend of 6 yrs and started dating someone else. It's now been 9 months. | |
| Vote ID : 9142 | gt | |
| Vote ID : 9152 | I still respect him and wish him well. I just don't *like* him anymore... | |
| Vote ID : 9157 | Good old marriage! | |
| Vote ID : 9160 | married | |
| Vote ID : 9162 | Married for over 16yrs, together for almost 20. | |
| Vote ID : 9164 | very happy | |
| Vote ID : 9170 | Broke up with partner of 4 years and now in new relationship | |
| Vote ID : 9208 | One girl was not the right fit and rather obsessive, the other was emotionally immature | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | i have a couple of fwb's | |
| Vote ID : 9210 | It's awesome. Up and down but generally very satisfying and sex is still good after 4 years. | |
| Vote ID : 9225 | Married 5 years | |
| Vote ID : 9247 | , | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | We've been dating for 2 and a half or so years | |
| Vote ID : 9254 | I just got married and it's awesome! Same relationship forever! | |
| Vote ID : 9273 | married... for the second time | |
| Vote ID : 9284 | wanted the first one but it didn't work out,don't really want the second one but cant seem to shake it. also afraid that there are no other options. | |
| Vote ID : 9319 | Rad girl, 5 years my senior, down to earth, and low maintenence. Not overly girly girl, but sexy, and rad to hang with | |
| Vote ID : 9332 | Well, it's off and on with the same girl. | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | I'm not a fool hardly romance seeker following the whims of whatever tryst might fall into my lap. | |
| Vote ID : 9371 | married 9 years | |
| Vote ID : 9379 | I great! She likes blow jobs :) | |
| Vote ID : 9380 | Yawn. Same old same old. | |
| Vote ID : 9382 | Chicks are fucking crazy. But great to fuck. | |
| Vote ID : 9390 | longest and best relationship i have been in. i was terrible at being a good boyfriend untill i met this girl | |
| Vote ID : 9444 | ex with benefits | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | Been with my boyfriend for three years, crazy in love with him! | |
| Vote ID : 9517 | Happily married for 18 years and counting. | |
| Vote ID : 9521 | kinda like like these days. | |
| Vote ID : 9556 | Great. She's my best friend. | |
| Vote ID : 9572 | The lady I started out dating has become a very dear and intimate friend, although I'm looking into dating others now. | |
| Vote ID : 9579 | Internet dating has made dating much better because we are able to find other like minded people, rather than simply basing the date on physical attraction. | |
| Vote ID : 9594 | Finally got together with a great, like-minded human being. Turns out it was a good call on both our parts. SEXXXXXX | |
| Vote ID : 9600 | A late night booty call that somehow ended up turning into a long term relationship | |
| Vote ID : 9607 | Fell in love, she fell out. We got back together, but it was never good again. Ended it a second time. Now just dating and being happy being on my own. | |
| Vote ID : 9610 | Just celebrated our 1-year anniversary =) | |
| Vote ID : 9611 | Married and happily loyal for 25 years. | |
| Vote ID : 9615 | In the throws of breaking up. | |
| Vote ID : 9639 | We've been together for a year and a half, and it's wonderful. Healthy sex life, for the first time in 5 years (thanks to prior sexually dysfunctional relation-shit *thanks to Dane Cook*) | |
| Vote ID : 9647 | Looking for a girl is hard for an unattractive but cool me | |
| Vote ID : 9648 | I've been with my (first and only) girlfriend for over 2 years (and counting!) | |
| Vote ID : 9650 | Not easy. I make attempts to talk and progress seems stifled. How does this work? | |
| Vote ID : 9655 | She's a whore. | |
| Vote ID : 9670 | Happily married | |
| Vote ID : 9677 | Its awesome. | |
| Vote ID : 9721 | I had some girls for a couple of times, but only sex. And some one-nighters too. | |
| Vote ID : 9724 | They both have the same name | |
| Vote ID : 9734 | Married happily - 12 years and counting! | |
| Vote ID : 9749 | i had a two and a half year reelationshipwith my fiancee end. we just grew appart | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | I just love being single. | |
| Vote ID : 9755 | sometimes it's easier to smoke joints and hit on your friends and make little mistakes while dealing with the crushing ego-blows | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | I'm a hopeless romantic | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | A horrible mismatch that didn't work out. Playing the feild a little now and having way more fun with that! | |
| Vote ID : 9823 | Married 9.5 years | |
| Vote ID : 9824 | I love my life partner very much. | |
| 14) The approach I take to my relationship is | ||
| Monogamous | 76.60% | |
| Non-monogamous | 7.45% | |
| Secretly non-monogamous | 4.61% | |
| Sometimes non-monogamous | 10.64% | |
| 15) What that means to me is | ||
| Vote ID : 8401 | I'll fuck anything, please. | |
| Vote ID : 8402 | Haven't done it yet but have entertained the thought of a 3rd joining us in the bedroom. | |
| Vote ID : 8408 | what's monogamous mean? | |
| Vote ID : 8412 | I'm open to both monogamy or non-monogamy, depending on a conversation with my partner(s). Not that this has gone beyond theory at this point, because I've been single for many years at this point. | |
| Vote ID : 8414 | It's a bond, trust. Why cheat when you love someone. | |
| Vote ID : 8416 | I love me | |
| Vote ID : 8422 | we are swingers | |
| Vote ID : 8426 | 100% | |
| Vote ID : 8428 | one and only one. | |
| Vote ID : 8451 | Im commited to who Im in a relatoinship with | |
| Vote ID : 8500 | its important to trust and remain faithful | |
| Vote ID : 8501 | I'm not polyamorous but I've been in sexually open relationships. | |
| Vote ID : 8509 | Only be with my wife. | |
| Vote ID : 8513 | Sex is waaaaay better when you are growing together in a relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 8517 | The older I get, the less monogamy matters. Maybe that's because I havent met someone I'd like to be monogamous with; maybe it means I realize how unrealistic the idea is. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | All is fare in love. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | i date girls ,but like to have serx with men too | |
| Vote ID : 8529 | I lay out what I'm about, and they're free to take it or not. I'm not into crude deception, that's for insecure wankers and misogynists. | |
| Vote ID : 8537 | Safer sex for both parties & but if a consented threesome was ever brought up it could be considered. | |
| Vote ID : 8542 | only my beautiful girl. | |
| Vote ID : 8557 | I am not playing around, tried but was never good at it, could not remember my lies and not overly interested in managing more than 1 relationship | |
| Vote ID : 8592 | Take my wedding vows seriously | |
| Vote ID : 8601 | if you're with someone, you're with that person. you can ogle at others... no touch | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | just the way it is | |
| Vote ID : 8644 | you don't cheat on people | |
| Vote ID : 8651 | I love and live with one person! With option to experiment. | |
| Vote ID : 8678 | Damn, my wife's hot, but others women too! | |
| Vote ID : 8680 | Ummmm, that I'm not monogamous obviously. | |
| Vote ID : 8705 | if I am presented with the opportunity for sex, I can take it, but I am not searching for a regular affair | |
| Vote ID : 8712 | I'm just generally not interested in polyamory. I have some trust hang-ups and self-esteem issues and I find it hard to share. | |
| Vote ID : 8718 | one sexual partner | |
| Vote ID : 8723 | mutual masterbation | |
| Vote ID : 8730 | faithful to her only | |
| Vote ID : 8741 | one at a time | |
| Vote ID : 8743 | Essentially monogamous but graciously accept donations. | |
| Vote ID : 8754 | Committed to one woman and have one sex partner and one significant other (same person) | |
| Vote ID : 8765 | Like owls. | |
| Vote ID : 8778 | No hanky-panky with others. | |
| Vote ID : 8779 | I generally want to fuck just one person at a time, but maintain flexibility depending on the partner. | |
| Vote ID : 8789 | that trust is important. | |
| Vote ID : 8796 | Safe and reliable | |
| Vote ID : 8802 | Relationships are open but only one sexual partner. | |
| Vote ID : 8809 | just an unfortunate relic of our Judeo-Christian heritage | |
| Vote ID : 8811 | Neither one us would be with oneone else other then each other | |
| Vote ID : 8835 | honour | |
| Vote ID : 8851 | no commitments. Bed buddies is OK, as long as everyone is OK with the non-exclusive-ness | |
| Vote ID : 8864 | When I have been in a relationship I have had extra sexual partners. There was never an emotional attachment and was all physical. | |
| Vote ID : 8871 | We're both allowed to play with others, but there are rules... | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | no sex with another person | |
| Vote ID : 8891 | don't do anything I wouldn't want my other to do | |
| Vote ID : 8896 | Dating one person at a time. I tried the non-monogamy thing and it's not for me. | |
| Vote ID : 8898 | I'm a happy, polyamorous slut! | |
| Vote ID : 8903 | I do not fuck anyone else. | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | Nothing sexual/physical outside of the relationship | |
| Vote ID : 8919 | I stay exclusive if I'm in a relationship. I cheated on a former girlfriend once and I still deeply regret it and vowed never to do something so stupid and disrespectful again | |
| Vote ID : 8925 | Trust | |
| Vote ID : 8941 | Building something that is greater than the sum of its parts. | |
| Vote ID : 8947 | Monogamy is my default, I'm open to non-monogamous relationships, but think they should be done with full disclosure from all parties involved. | |
| Vote ID : 8958 | look it up in Websters | |
| Vote ID : 8970 | I will date to find a life-partner. | |
| Vote ID : 8997 | i occasionally stray | |
| Vote ID : 8998 | I'm married and faithful and content | |
| Vote ID : 9004 | Emotional and physical companionship only with my partner | |
| Vote ID : 9005 | I see sex existing on a broad spectrum of ways people can interact and it's not even the most intimate thing on that spectrum. So I don't see it as beneficial or rational to limit my partner to just experiencing sex with me (since they've done it with others before and might in the future again). If my partner and someone else stayed up all night talking about hopes and dreams and fear I'd be more hurt than if they had sex. | |
| Vote ID : 9016 | A lot. Trust is very important to me. | |
| Vote ID : 9017 | She is the only woman I've been with since 1988. | |
| Vote ID : 9033 | Sex with only my wife | |
| Vote ID : 9034 | I think I could be a sex addict | |
| Vote ID : 9060 | over 24 yrs ago, I agreed to monogomous and until the terms change, that's what I'll do. | |
| Vote ID : 9068 | Only having to look cool for one girl | |
| Vote ID : 9096 | it's just a little less complicated (theoretically) | |
| Vote ID : 9097 | Normaly 100% monogamous, unless argeed on | |
| Vote ID : 9107 | wish i could have open sex but respect my wife | |
| Vote ID : 9112 | i sex partner | |
| Vote ID : 9113 | One partner is time/money consuming enough as it is. | |
| Vote ID : 9133 | sleeping with one person. | |
| Vote ID : 9142 | f | |
| Vote ID : 9152 | One is more than enough to have to handle, no? | |
| Vote ID : 9156 | One, and only one. | |
| Vote ID : 9157 | She's worth it. | |
| Vote ID : 9160 | sex with one women | |
| Vote ID : 9162 | We actively pursue and enjoy a "swinger" lifestyle. | |
| Vote ID : 9164 | sexually/romantically commited to only her, and her to i | |
| Vote ID : 9170 | One sexual partner | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | depends | |
| Vote ID : 9210 | A little flirting is OK but no touching. | |
| Vote ID : 9225 | That I have sex with my wife | |
| Vote ID : 9247 | depends on a million things | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | We have talked about seeing other people while we're together but never tried or met anyone. | |
| Vote ID : 9254 | My partner and I have no other partners. | |
| Vote ID : 9273 | monogamous | |
| Vote ID : 9274 | I am faithful to my partner and she is faithful to me. and anything outside of that is talked about openly and agreed apon (monogamous) | |
| Vote ID : 9284 | It means I make mistakes,I cant commit, I don't see the point of coupling for life, | |
| Vote ID : 9319 | If I don't want to fuck you anymore, I'll leave you. If you stop fucking me, I will fuck someone else. Yeah... Gangster! Also monogomy is rad cause you don't have to wear condoms, and you can get kind of bored and be forced to start doing progressively more perverted shit to eachother | |
| Vote ID : 9325 | If a girl is exclusive to me, I have to be exclusive to her. I wouldn't feel right about it any other way. | |
| Vote ID : 9332 | Me and her, and her and me. No matter how they toss the dice. | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | Do you need a dictionary? One mate/partner at a time without starting one relationship before ending another. Also not making advances towards another while committed. | |
| Vote ID : 9368 | important | |
| Vote ID : 9379 | We don't do other people. | |
| Vote ID : 9380 | Need to be true as I can be. | |
| Vote ID : 9382 | I will cheat on a girl I am having a relationship with and try to get away with it. | |
| Vote ID : 9390 | i just dont feel like sharing myself with anyone else | |
| Vote ID : 9444 | same partner regard less of our issues | |
| Vote ID : 9459 | fucking is good | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | We have an open-ish relationship, and usually always play together. | |
| Vote ID : 9502 | one person | |
| Vote ID : 9517 | We have "special friends" that join us occasionally. | |
| Vote ID : 9521 | what the hell does this mean? is there such a thing? of any of these?? | |
| Vote ID : 9556 | Not sleeping with anyone else. Although, we are non-aggesively looking for a woman who would like to join for a three-some. | |
| Vote ID : 9572 | I'm open to a monogamous relationship, but I don't need it. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | my partner and will engage with others (always together though) | |
| Vote ID : 9594 | No dickens other ladies. | |
| Vote ID : 9600 | Partner swapping | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | Depends on the relationship and how the people involved feel about monogomany | |
| Vote ID : 9607 | If you're going to commit to one person, might as well commit body and mind. | |
| Vote ID : 9639 | I only have sex with my partner. If I would feel jealous if she did something I was thinking about doing, then I don't do it. | |
| Vote ID : 9647 | i dont wanna cheat on my girlfriend if i had one | |
| Vote ID : 9655 | Dedicated to one person | |
| Vote ID : 9670 | No interest in cheating | |
| Vote ID : 9677 | I play around when I'm single but I simply could not cheat on a girlfriend. I would break up with them if I felt the need to sleep with someone else. | |
| Vote ID : 9721 | I really don't fuck around when I have a girl | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | I can do whatever, whoever, wherever & whenever I want. | |
| Vote ID : 9775 | One partner, and only one partner. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | NO CHEATING | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | You shoukd have respect for who you are with, but sometimes the relationship is over before you make it official. If my relationship is OK or good, I dont need to sleep with anyone else, and I do not want to disrespect them that way. | |
| Vote ID : 9823 | One & only. | |
| Vote ID : 9824 | I appreciate my partner and have a close friend who I am intimate with. We hide it to protect our partners who do not accept polyamory. | |
| 16) I use condoms because | ||
| I don't use condoms because neither I, nor my partner, have a penis | 0.00% | |
| I want to protect against pregnancy | 15.96% | |
| I want to protect against disease | 7.80% | |
| I want to protect against pregnancy AND disease | 30.50% | |
| I have been stepping out on my partner | 1.77% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I am monogamous | 36.88% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I have a death wish | 1.77% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I’m a virgin | 4.26% | |
| 17) Last year, I contributed to the sex industry by | ||
| Looking at porn but not paying for it | 78.72% | |
| Buying pornography | 25.89% | |
| Buying a sex toy | 36.88% | |
| Going to the peelers | 22.70% | |
| Going to the baths / peeps | 4.61% | |
| Going to a sex professional | 4.96% | |
| I did not contribute to the sex industry | 5.32% | |
| 19) I would have sex more often if it weren’t for | ||
| Being single and not meeting people | 28.37% | |
| Working too much | 28.72% | |
| Being too busy | 31.91% | |
| Having an unwilling partner | 21.28% | |
| My damn kids | 6.03% | |
| This STI | 0.71% | |
| My sexual dysfunction | 3.55% | |
| High prices of sex professionals | 5.67% | |
| I love the amount of sex I have | 22.70% | |
| 20) My abilities as a lover are | ||
| Amazing | 15.96% | |
| More than adequate | 60.28% | |
| OK | 20.57% | |
| Not that good | 0.71% | |
| I need some serious help here | 1.42% | |
| 21) Tell us about that | ||
| Vote ID : 8401 | I do my research, I try to learn up on odd things and I'm willing to try. Just nothing to practice on. | |
| Vote ID : 8402 | I think I'm a pretty good lover generally based on the feedback/comments from past and present partner. Having made some girls cum who otherwise thougth they couldn't and managing to get my last girlfriend to become much more sexually confident and helping her to realise that sex isn't a dirty secret but something to embrace and enjoy. | |
| Vote ID : 8408 | At least that's what they tell me | |
| Vote ID : 8412 | Hey, my left hand is perfectly adequate for my requirements... | |
| Vote ID : 8414 | I am told so by my fiancé, and let's face it..... U | |
| Vote ID : 8422 | i get the job done | |
| Vote ID : 8426 | I'm gonna need a second opinion | |
| Vote ID : 8428 | I really have no idea, only one partner in my life. | |
| Vote ID : 8451 | at first my sexual experience was mostly oral and manual stimulatoin based so I became pretty good at it as well my stamina increased over time so Ive been able to keep up with my more experienced sexual partners | |
| Vote ID : 8501 | He's my ideal partner, but he can be a bit selfish at times. | |
| Vote ID : 8508 | too tired | |
| Vote ID : 8509 | I do what I can. | |
| Vote ID : 8517 | I wish I had more size/endurance. Who doesnt? | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | I do my best, and I think my partners are happy. Why else would there still be long term casual sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | good with my mouth , toungue ,hands , touch | |
| Vote ID : 8529 | I've had at least 20 women tell me that I was the best they're ever had. I'm not that good, ergo, other dudes must be fucking terrible. | |
| Vote ID : 8537 | Amazing kisser and a good nipple sucker...I have my methods. | |
| Vote ID : 8542 | not really sure here | |
| Vote ID : 8557 | "self praise is no praise", I would like to say amazing but it's all about how my partner responds and the level of openess and experimentation that she is willing to undergo | |
| Vote ID : 8567 | I need more practice, but I've not had complaints. | |
| Vote ID : 8570 | Its all about her when we are together | |
| Vote ID : 8578 | My woman always has a G spot Orgasm | |
| Vote ID : 8597 | Very good with my tongue. Willing to spend hours focusing on pleasuring a woman | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | i have never had a problem getting my partners off, in ways that can't be faked ;) | |
| Vote ID : 8644 | i need to find some hood rats | |
| Vote ID : 8651 | I aim to please! And am equipped to please! | |
| Vote ID : 8678 | She loves me and is satisfied (she tells me) | |
| Vote ID : 8680 | Why? | |
| Vote ID : 8705 | I am experimental and willing to do anything my partners enjoys, especially oral sex | |
| Vote ID : 8712 | I've only had a few sex partners, and I'm a bit shy about experimenting. I know what I like, but I'm afraid to ask for it, and for some reason the people I have sex with seem to be the same way. | |
| Vote ID : 8718 | so I've been told. | |
| Vote ID : 8723 | I could lick some good pussy. | |
| Vote ID : 8730 | could work on endurance | |
| Vote ID : 8734 | I'm new to the city and have only met a few people recently. | |
| Vote ID : 8741 | I am a multi orgazmic male good for two or three ejaculations about 40 minutes apart | |
| Vote ID : 8743 | Not deep but fancy. | |
| Vote ID : 8749 | I think I'm patient and good at foreplay | |
| Vote ID : 8754 | I was married for 25 years and enjoyed exploring my partner's needs. I try and do the same now in my relationships. Their pleasure adds pleasure for me and as well their desire to have sex more often | |
| Vote ID : 8779 | I've never been insulted by anyone but can't assume I am just a wonderful lover. | |
| Vote ID : 8796 | I have always managed to satisfy my lovers with orgasms before I reach my own release | |
| Vote ID : 8802 | *censored* | |
| Vote ID : 8809 | On my only one-night stand, I didn't finish. She later called my endurance a "God-given gift;" I beg to differ. | |
| Vote ID : 8835 | care means doing iy right | |
| Vote ID : 8851 | I loves the ladies, I do. They seem satisified! | |
| Vote ID : 8864 | Never any complaints and partners keep coming back for more. | |
| Vote ID : 8871 | No complaints yet, and a few compliments. | |
| Vote ID : 8890 | i'm here to please | |
| Vote ID : 8891 | Apparently I'm good. | |
| Vote ID : 8896 | Although I haven't had many partners, my unit has an interesting downward curve that lends itself very well to a few positions! | |
| Vote ID : 8898 | I have magic hands - need I say more? | |
| Vote ID : 8903 | I have had enough sex and watched enough porn to know what I am doing | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | I know I'm good, but not cocky enough to say I'm "amazing." Some people are more difficult to get off. | |
| Vote ID : 8919 | I think, and have heard that I'm good at what I do. But I wouldn't be so bold as to say I'm amazing, though I know I can be | |
| Vote ID : 8925 | Out of practice | |
| Vote ID : 8941 | Learning from your partner and keeping things fresh are to be strived for. | |
| Vote ID : 8947 | I definitely have some things I could work on, but both my previous partners seemed very much impressed. | |
| Vote ID : 8958 | good partner equals good times. | |
| Vote ID : 8998 | Not enough practice :) | |
| Vote ID : 9004 | Can you ever be good enough. The point you stop trying is the point you are "not that good" | |
| Vote ID : 9005 | Getting my partner off is way more interesting than getting off myself so I put a lot of effort (research, experimentation, discussion) into being good at it. | |
| Vote ID : 9016 | I have had few complaints from my partner. | |
| Vote ID : 9017 | I am a bit large for my wife. I have to get her started shivering before I can even think about penetration. | |
| Vote ID : 9033 | My wife says so | |
| Vote ID : 9034 | It takes me a while to finish and I love to try new things! | |
| Vote ID : 9064 | love the vag | |
| Vote ID : 9096 | n/a? | |
| Vote ID : 9107 | . | |
| Vote ID : 9112 | I have been complimented | |
| Vote ID : 9113 | Never beent old different, although every guy wonders from time to time... | |
| Vote ID : 9133 | well if my girl friend fakes it she is a good actress. And really who cares if she does. | |
| Vote ID : 9142 | h | |
| Vote ID : 9152 | GGG! | |
| Vote ID : 9156 | suppose it depends on who you ask... | |
| Vote ID : 9157 | I've got some pretty sweet moves. | |
| Vote ID : 9160 | i am well practiced | |
| Vote ID : 9162 | But I tend to sell myself short. Partners say I'm very good. | |
| Vote ID : 9164 | honestly i dont care about my orgasm, i just love seeing her face | |
| Vote ID : 9208 | I would like to be more expressive and experimental without worrying about disappointing the other person | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | i am happy with the response i get | |
| Vote ID : 9210 | Sometimes I'm a little quick but I'm really good at going down. | |
| Vote ID : 9225 | I am a god in bed according to my partner. | |
| Vote ID : 9247 | epicness abounds | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | Sometimes I can`t orgasim and I can usually tell before we're done and it effects my performance | |
| Vote ID : 9254 | I've gone without any formal training in love and so still consider myself an amateur. Definitely sufficient but I don't think I would win any prizes or write a book on the subject. | |
| Vote ID : 9274 | i aim to please | |
| Vote ID : 9284 | I don't fucking know. After the first time it all seemed to go much better. best sexual relationship I have had was my previous girlfriend. it ended because that was really the only part of our relationship.She commented near the end " all we've got is food and sex, and both are great but...." | |
| Vote ID : 9319 | What I lack in skill/physique/girth, I make up for with exuberance, creativity, and celeberity impressions | |
| Vote ID : 9325 | I'll try anything at least once if I think it will please her, and I usually end up enjoying it just as much! | |
| Vote ID : 9332 | Depends on what the woman wants. I'm not really into the kama sutra stuff. I'm more basic, aggressive (non-violent), passionate. | |
| Vote ID : 9371 | intercourse not long enough, good at digital, decent at oral | |
| Vote ID : 9379 | Every girl I get serious with has told me... | |
| Vote ID : 9380 | Never a complaint cause I give and give and give. | |
| Vote ID : 9382 | If the girl is hot, I'm motivated, I'm not too drunk I fuck like an orchastra conductor. At least two orgasms per one of mine or I'm not satisfied. | |
| Vote ID : 9390 | i would rather make someone feel good than feel good myself. being a giver is what gets me off | |
| Vote ID : 9444 | reading material on how to be a better lover,starting to make a difference | |
| Vote ID : 9459 | lick like a champ | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | Unless the fella is lying to me :oP | |
| Vote ID : 9517 | I have had 30 different partners over the years and three of them expereienced their first orgasms with me. Four others discovered a talent for female ejeculation that was new to them until my time with them. | |
| Vote ID : 9521 | a hedonist yes, a meglomaniac no.... my cock is under 9 inches...... damn you god..... | |
| Vote ID : 9556 | I give pretty damn good cunilingus | |
| Vote ID : 9572 | I've been with two partners, and both have complimented me on my consideration and patience. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | partner comes first (pun intended) | |
| Vote ID : 9594 | I only say that becuase the people I've been with have been all on the same page. I understand that I give great head, and lots of attention. I don't know, I just like watching the other person come. A lot. | |
| Vote ID : 9600 | No complaints so far | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | I really can't say, I have been told I'm good but who knows. | |
| Vote ID : 9607 | If you find someone you are sexually compatible with, sex is incredible. I seem to be more compatible with new partners more often than not. | |
| Vote ID : 9611 | My partner and I are continually amazed at the heights we reach! She tells me it's wonderful and she's not lying. | |
| Vote ID : 9639 | I've been consistently told that I'm good. I get turned on my making my sexual partners climax as often as possible in one session. So far, I haven't failed at that. The word "amazing" has been used often, but I don't want to come across cocky | |
| Vote ID : 9650 | The girl I dated who I first had sex with, though she had several partners previous and I had none, said I turned out to be the best she's had. | |
| Vote ID : 9654 | My partners nearly always have an orgasim and there almost always feels like we've made an intemate connection. | |
| Vote ID : 9655 | I've gotten older and gained control as well as learned about women and what they need to orgasm. Then I make it happen. | |
| Vote ID : 9670 | My woman always goes first. | |
| Vote ID : 9677 | Almost every girl I have ever slept with has said pretty much he same thing so I'm inclined to think I'm decent. | |
| Vote ID : 9721 | Good responses | |
| Vote ID : 9749 | i love to satisfy but not every woman wants to be satisfied by me lol | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | Being BI, having a long tongue and a cock that can go for hours. | |
| Vote ID : 9755 | but only with my head in my hands | |
| Vote ID : 9775 | Well, my penis has a nickname....Girth Brooks. It helps. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | You'll have to come and find out for yourself :) | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | I have gotten a lot of compliments! I think being selfish in the bedroom is always a bad plan, I want us both (or more!) to have a good time and I try to please. It makes it better for me to see them enjoying the encounter. Every single guy and girl I've slept with that I ever ran into again, or that took my number has always come back for more! :) | |
| Vote ID : 9824 | I listen. | |
| 22) I would experiment outside the bounds of my sexual orientation | ||
| Yes | 26.95% | |
| No | 49.29% | |
| Maybe | 22.34% | |
| 23) I would “partner swap” | ||
| Yes | 26.95% | |
| No | 39.36% | |
| Maybe | 32.27% | |
| 24) I would go to a sex club | ||
| Yes | 34.75% | |
| No | 33.33% | |
| Maybe | 30.50% | |
| 25) I would use a sex toy on myself | ||
| Yes | 64.54% | |
| No | 20.21% | |
| Maybe | 13.83% | |
| 26) I would use a sex toy on my partner | ||
| Yes | 88.65% | |
| No | 3.19% | |
| Maybe | 6.74% | |
| 27) I would make a dirty movie | ||
| Yes | 52.84% | |
| No | 23.05% | |
| Maybe | 22.70% | |
| 28) I’d take it in the butt | ||
| Yes | 30.50% | |
| No | 50.00% | |
| Maybe | 18.09% | |
| 29) I would visit a sex worker | ||
| Yes | 16.67% | |
| No | 59.93% | |
| Maybe | 21.99% | |
| 30) I would consider bestiality | ||
| Yes | 2.84% | |
| No | 90.78% | |
| Maybe | 4.96% | |
| 31) I would do it in a public place | ||
| Yes | 73.40% | |
| No | 8.87% | |
| Maybe | 16.31% | |
| 32) I would sleep with someone who is married, but not to me | ||
| Yes | 45.04% | |
| No | 30.85% | |
| Maybe | 22.70% | |
| 33) I’d have an abortion | ||
| Yes | 36.88% | |
| No | 43.97% | |
| Maybe | 17.73% | |
| 34) I always follow the “half my age plus seven” rule | ||
| Yes | 28.01% | |
| No | 49.65% | |
| Maybe | 20.92% | |
| 35) I would sleep with someone for money | ||
| Yes | 29.79% | |
| No | 41.84% | |
| Maybe | 26.95% | |
| 36) I would use drugs to enhance sexual pleasure | ||
| Yes | 40.43% | |
| No | 36.52% | |
| Maybe | 21.63% | |
| 37) I would cheat on my partner | ||
| Yes | 13.83% | |
| No | 66.67% | |
| Maybe | 18.09% | |
| 38) I’d use the Internet to hook up: | ||
| Yes | 46.10% | |
| No | 21.28% | |
| Maybe | 31.21% | |
| 39) Is there anything else you’d like to tell us about? | ||
| Vote ID : 8401 | I would if I could. | |
| Vote ID : 8426 | what happened to the world ...it used to be so easy! lol | |
| Vote ID : 8501 | I haven't had sex regularily because my boyfriend is currently out of town for the summer. | |
| Vote ID : 8513 | I found my last girlfriends g-spot. Her and her friends were convinced it was a mythical unicorn. But I found it alright! She asked if I'd ever found it before with other girls. I played coy but eventually had to be honest that I've found a few ladies gspots for the first time. Then she got mad at me and was like "oh so this is your thing huh?". I told her to drop it. It was suppossed to be a special moment of intimacy for us and she was cheapening it by throwing it back in my face. She continued to give me the gears until I pointed out she'd slept with twice as many people as I have. Yeah that shut her up quickly. I rolled over and went to sleep. Just another reason why she is my ex ! | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | I would love to have sex with a cop,police guy ,nicely built | |
| Vote ID : 8542 | no | |
| Vote ID : 8557 | Not at this time... | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | nah | |
| Vote ID : 8644 | me so horny | |
| Vote ID : 8651 | I allow my wife to experiment freely with others. She has experimented and finds I am still her best lover! | |
| Vote ID : 8678 | I love anal sex | |
| Vote ID : 8680 | No. | |
| Vote ID : 8705 | My wife and I have a honest relationship, and although it is possible to have sex with another person, I have never | |
| Vote ID : 8723 | I made a amateur movie I would like to share. *censored* | |
| Vote ID : 8734 | I've already done most of the yes, no or maybe questions. And am not opposed to doing them again. | |
| Vote ID : 8743 | The pleasure should reflect the time invested. Better to wait to hit a home run than die on base. | |
| Vote ID : 8754 | I enjoy mutual masturbation. My partner and I masturbating ourselves in fron to each other. I enjoy waking up in the morning or just whenever and masturbating in front of my partner. She then gets in the mood for sex | |
| Vote ID : 8765 | people think marriage is a constricting arrangement but i don't know anyone who has sex as often as i do. and since we are so familiar with one another, we've gotten very good at making each other squeel. | |
| Vote ID : 8796 | I really miss receiving juicy blow jobs.... | |
| Vote ID : 8811 | My gf and I met on the internet. She was and is still married. We live together for the past 4 yrs. She has still not gotten a divorce. Her X lives with her mother. | |
| Vote ID : 8851 | bring on the masks, and the furries. | |
| Vote ID : 8898 | "I would cheat on my partner" is unfair to those of us in Poly/open relationships - might want to have a "it wouldn't be cheating" option or something like that | |
| Vote ID : 8903 | This is cool. | |
| Vote ID : 8947 | BDSM is awesome. | |
| Vote ID : 8958 | i am interesting in pegging with my wife | |
| Vote ID : 9004 | I love curvey women. I love you all don't change your beautiful. | |
| Vote ID : 9016 | Sex can be a very fun and exciting thing, but it also entails many emotions and you have to be very careful with sex sometimes. | |
| Vote ID : 9017 | If I lost my wife I would probably use the internet to make contact with available women. | |
| Vote ID : 9034 | I am very kinky and just love to go down on girls. | |
| Vote ID : 9068 | Always make sure you go to the bathroom before the act, because there's no going during | |
| Vote ID : 9107 | no | |
| Vote ID : 9112 | no | |
| Vote ID : 9142 | h | |
| Vote ID : 9157 | Ummm... no. | |
| Vote ID : 9160 | no | |
| Vote ID : 9162 | I'd like to engage in more of the bdsm culture, we currently are involved but we'd like to see a professional. | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | very sex positive | |
| Vote ID : 9225 | Practise a little bdsm | |
| Vote ID : 9247 | no | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | Nope | |
| Vote ID : 9284 | Sex is weird. My body likes it, but I don't. it's messy, weird, complicated,and it's only real use is procreation. I emphatically do not want children and therefore would really rather not have sex or all the bullshit that comes with it...however I have a really strong sex drive. This irritates me. | |
| Vote ID : 9319 | Chicks don't like anal. Some chicks like you enough to make you believe they do, but as a rule, they just don't like that shit, so don't go for it If you really like the girl | |
| Vote ID : 9332 | Biggest fantasy is watching/filming my partner having sex with an ethnic man. Second to that, her being an escort. | |
| Vote ID : 9379 | I like the Vue, if you were a girl, I'dd fuck you! | |
| Vote ID : 9380 | All good. | |
| Vote ID : 9390 | used to use dating sites. had mild success, more so in just getting laid than finding a good partner. met my current pretty lady in REAL LIFE!!! can you believe it? that still happens? | |
| Vote ID : 9444 | no | |
| Vote ID : 9459 | masterbating as i take the survey | |
| Vote ID : 9517 | Nope. | |
| Vote ID : 9521 | probably. | |
| Vote ID : 9556 | Not really | |
| Vote ID : 9600 | nopes | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | I'm gay, and out but only had sex with a girl for the last couple years. | |
| Vote ID : 9607 | Canada is way too uptight about sex, and sexual education is not adequate. Sexual orientation is discriminated against still. A woman's right to choose still faces bigoted and ignorant opposition which undermines a Canadian woman's right to safety of body and mental health. | |
| Vote ID : 9611 | It's a beautiful thing! | |
| Vote ID : 9650 | By "hook up", do you mean sexual encounter or just a casual date? | |
| Vote ID : 9677 | I'm decently well-hung? | |
| Vote ID : 9749 | nope | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | I'm quite open minded when it comes to sex. | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | I wish everyone would be more open to new things, new experiences and talking to your partner and friends about what you need. There are far too many uptight people out there! | |
| Vote ID : 9823 | Married at 19 to the girl I had dated since 15. Never had another girlfriend. Married 9 years now, and our sex life is better than ever. 4-5x/week, its HAWT. | |
| 40) Tell us about the most exciting sex you’ve had in the past year | ||
| Vote ID : 8401 | Exciting would be giving it too much credit. | |
| Vote ID : 8402 | My wife went out and purchased some new underwear, came home dressed up for me and as we went at it she asked me to tell her what I'd do to her if I was to share her with another guy. She got so turned on she asked me to do her anally while she used a vibrator on herself to simulate a DP. Very hot sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8417 | Tied to a bed, hands wrapped around throat, nipples clamped, butt plugged... | |
| Vote ID : 8422 | a had a fivesome for my birthday | |
| Vote ID : 8451 | I was at my friends wedding and His wifes cousin at I hit it off really well so well in fact the while people were still leaving the wedding we were having sex up againt the tool shed outside of the hall we started out 69ing on the ground the she got on top and started riding me then to finish I picked her up against the shed and went standing missionary after we continued oral for an hour or so | |
| Vote ID : 8501 | I'm not entirely sure how to answer this. | |
| Vote ID : 8509 | It is all pretty exciting I am a lucky man. | |
| Vote ID : 8513 | I had sex with this babe when she was 18. It was really awkward and forgettable. Several years later we hook up. We are both now in our late twenties. WOW what a difference. I could control my release. She sucked my dick and made me so hard it hurt! She sat on my face and I didn't even have to ask. She came 6 times to my 2. I even got to smoke a joint with her in between rounds. Yeah most chicks hate that I smoke weed period. Fucking while listening to Black Flag rules! | |
| Vote ID : 8517 | My girlfriend at the time and I went to her best friend's wedding. My gf noticed I had brought some condoms along, "just in case," I joked. As we were driving home that night after the reception, she told me to pull over on a side road out in the country, and we ended up having the most unbelievable sex in the car—and on top of it, standing up through the sunroof—under a full moon. I think the combination of her desire, confidence, flexibility (sex in the driver's seat takes skill!) and the risk of doing it out in the open, never mind the beautiful night, made it so exciting and memorable. Afterward, we drove home totally dazed, laughing and looking at each other like, "did that just really happen?!" | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | I got my current fuck buddy to fuck me with a strap-on. She really enjoyed it and so did I. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8529 | I met a nice young women while out for the evening, after some drinks and conversation, we decided to head out. As we were meandering out, her friend proceeded to get rather 'pouty.' Being neither supercilious nor prude, we ended up taking her home for the night...and the next day and a half. | |
| Vote ID : 8537 | An experience with a milking machine, a rubber hood and handcuffs made for a rather pleasant experience. | |
| Vote ID : 8542 | bo | |
| Vote ID : 8557 | I would have to say, this has been with my present partner. The last relationship I had, I don't think she was turned on enough with me, she was fairly dry (it could be that she was one of those women that don't get very wet generally), having said that, she and I had an "extra marital" affair, so that was exciting in some respects, however, I could not keep up with her "stories" so I had no alternative but to end this destructive relationship... | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | soul - full connected all night on E FAB | |
| Vote ID : 8651 | Sex in the afternoon in the kitchen, while I was trying to get away for work! | |
| Vote ID : 8678 | I had sex with a sex worker | |
| Vote ID : 8680 | Birthday present 3some from my roommate who brought two girls home for me at 3am even though I went home to pass out at 10. Good guy. | |
| Vote ID : 8705 | Sex in public places and/or having sex while people may be watching or catch us. | |
| Vote ID : 8712 | My brother and his not-girlfriend drove up in the middle of the middle of the night from Red Deer for a visit, which turned into me fucking the not-girlfriend while my brother slept outside. I would have felt guilty except that my brother is completely uninterested in this girl. As for her, I think she just wanted sex from a blood relation of my brother. | |
| Vote ID : 8718 | anal for the first time with a super hot super cool chick ( one night stand). We fucked all night. It was fantastic. The wine was good too. | |
| Vote ID : 8723 | amateur movie *censored* | |
| Vote ID : 8741 | My current secret girlfriend and I ended up outside, in a public park, near the beach the first time and several times after. Every time since the first one some sort of animal has been visible to us, Bald Eagle, Deer, otters, cats, humming birds, blackbirds. Something everytime. | |
| Vote ID : 8743 | Nothing exciting this past year or the year before. I'm on my way to becoming a born-again virgin. Remembering however, that virginity is not like having money in the bank to be saved for one's retirement. | |
| Vote ID : 8749 | anal | |
| Vote ID : 8754 | My previous relationship (past 12 months or so) I had sex with my partner in the back rows of the theatre at South Common. the theatre was nearly empty and it was a restricted film. No one was nearer than 5 rows of us and we masturbated each other, then performed oral on each other and finally we Dog fucked with her in my lap while she watched the movie......We both enjoyed it so much we did it again 2 weeks later. It was exhilerating. | |
| Vote ID : 8765 | On our honeymoon(in the maritimes) we had sex everywhere we could: a lighthouse, the back of our car, ocean caves, 30 dollar cabin rentals, open fields in long grasses, grassy noles, sandy peninsulas, parked behind churches, parked on the side of the road, and of course: bed & breakfast places. | |
| Vote ID : 8778 | Watched the greatest movie ever with an ex: "Young People Fucking". And so we did. And did the exact same with another ex a few months later. Good times. | |
| Vote ID : 8796 | Fantastic missionary sex with my gal while using a clit buzzer to get my sweetie off . It is such a turn on to see her so hot and bothered with her toy while my cock stuffs her puss | |
| Vote ID : 8799 | 3 some with my wife and a member of my band ! | |
| Vote ID : 8802 | Having sex on a gondola was pretty cool. | |
| Vote ID : 8811 | Only exciting sex in the past yr has been my fantasies. Our sex life is far from exciting. | |
| Vote ID : 8827 | All of it | |
| Vote ID : 8851 | in the parkade at work, in the back of mah vee-hickle | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | none | |
| Vote ID : 8896 | It was a short-term relationship, but she was very open. We visited Intimate Times, a swap club in Edmonton. She was somewhat timid about having sex in the building, but was very turned on by it! | |
| Vote ID : 8903 | Fucking like crazy for the purpose of insemination when i got back from Europe. Two weeks of sex everyday. | |
| Vote ID : 8919 | My ex and I visited after being apart for over a month. We both had a lot of pent up lust and she ended up giving me the best blow job of our 3-year relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 8950 | I got to fuck my friend and his husband while we were all in Toronto. | |
| Vote ID : 8958 | both my wife and I have lost a lot of weight and the sex has been better than ever because we are fit and more experienced. | |
| Vote ID : 8961 | My long time good friend (of the opposite sex) and I have been progressively 'fooling around' more and more; getting more and more into one another, and frequently getting naked and having oral sex, mutual masturbation, etc. Recently we met out of town by chance and it just happened. we had the hardest, longest, and most fulfilling sex of my life. | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | The best sex just happens. It's not the planned or most romantic. Sometimes things (and people) just come together. | |
| Vote ID : 8998 | Got laid watching Bridget Bardot in Godard's Le Mépris. Mmmm...academic-film-cynicism-a-licious. | |
| Vote ID : 9004 | Was with my ex. Had not scene eachother in awhile. I invited her to a concert. It was in the afternoon. I was on top then took her from behind. It was the look in her eyes. She looked amazing. It was the hottest sex iv ever had. | |
| Vote ID : 9005 | U of A campus just as Reading Week was starting. First in the little study area on the Business Atrium stairs. There were quite a few interruptions that lead to frantic scrambling and "look natural" moments. Then in a darkened Business lecture hall with poor students studying in adjacent rooms. | |
| Vote ID : 9016 | While camping, it was a weekday and we were the only two in our area of the campground and we were able to have sex in the middle of the day while in front of the fire. | |
| Vote ID : 9017 | It was over a year ago but it is when I introduced my wife to anal stimulation. It was a first for both of us. Now she takes fingrs or vibrater up her ass. She can't take my dick though....too big around for her dainty little bum. | |
| Vote ID : 9033 | The sex after drinking while filling out this survey | |
| Vote ID : 9034 | I slept with an Asian girl while I was on a work trip and she was amazing! She took all I could give and asked for more I came 3 times and I lost count for her. Every position possible and in every hole available. | |
| Vote ID : 9060 | After being married for 20+ years, out of the blue one afternnon while watching TV with the kids, the wife called me on her cellphone, which she hates to use, and asked me to come upstairs to help her with something. I was suprised to find her in a robe, newly applied red lipstick, white thigh-highs and freshly shaved pussy. She said the thing she needed help with being fuck in the mouth, pussy and ass. I was happy to lend a hand. | |
| Vote ID : 9097 | Had my pants off before my shoes, and never even got a chance to say hi, at a friends front door when i showed up for a booty call, never usualy gos that fast. | |
| Vote ID : 9107 | My partner is kind of a prude, and so it's difficult to say. | |
| Vote ID : 9112 | used my left hand | |
| Vote ID : 9142 | h | |
| Vote ID : 9157 | Wife coming back from week-long vacation. We tore into each other. | |
| Vote ID : 9162 | Swapping partners is always excellent and has been great. Watching your significant other get fucked is a huge turn on. Currently bdsm with lots of strap-on and fisting play coupled with cbt. | |
| Vote ID : 9170 | Had sex in a park at midnight. Just after we finished the cops pulled up, luckily all they did was tell us to leave the park because we were trespassing. | |
| Vote ID : 9208 | A very fresh, exciting partner that was beautiful but a bit naive. There was an age difference that created a dynamic i had never experienced before, and having the ability to be in the position of being the more skilled lover of the tow of us was amazing and a great turn-on. | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | I was invited to a seven man gang bang of a woman. I fucked her several times during the evening. She even kissed me with a mouthful of come from one of the other guys. I was also in a threesome with a 'living together' lesbian couple. I was supposed to be a treat for the one was a virgin, but the other was a hot Aussie who I couldn't help enjoy more. Then the virgin fucked me in the ass with her strap on that she uses on her partner. Hot!! | |
| Vote ID : 9210 | A quickie in my friend's bathroom at his party. My girlfriend pulled me into the bathroom to "cure her hiccups". Let's just say it works really well! | |
| Vote ID : 9225 | When I introduced my partner to basic anal. | |
| Vote ID : 9247 | every position on checklist | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | We had sex on the couch in the living room and I had a butt plug in which meant that I couldn't stop coming. It was also very Rough lots of biting scratching etc. | |
| Vote ID : 9254 | In the washroom at her parents' house. The risk of being caught made it that much more exciting. | |
| Vote ID : 9284 | Just the fact that I actually had sex in the last year is pretty amazing. I tend to not want to put in the effort to get to that point. I will not have sex if it's not with someone I know, therefore there is actually a lot of "getting to know you" that goes on before i can sleep with someone. I don't want to invest that much time on a one night stand and I am not in any particular mood to be in a relationship again anytime soon, so I busy myself with projects and masturbate to kill the urges. The way I look at it is I would rather have sex with a woman who is not putting up walls. Women who are 'being sexy' are irritating and not interesting, because they are always so conscious of how they are being perceived and adjusting accordingly. This is why I have the bar scene, everyone is walking around like a peacock and doing nothing of value. If one happens to get physical with a friend then there is none of that stupid pretense Sex is not exciting it is utilitarian. It's a biological imperative and it runs a large portion of our brains. I find people who are enthusiastic about sex to be irritating Why is "that" the best thing that people can think of? Seriously all it is for is passing on genetics, there is no beauty to it, no greater connection ....where the hell did all these ideas of sexuality come from? who the hell falls for "sexy" ads? If you want me to look at your ad and then refuse to buy your product, then make a sexy ad! anyway I could rant for ever... but I won't. long story short, Sex is over rated. | |
| Vote ID : 9319 | The first time with my current girlfriend. She was my manager at the time, and it was the first time I've diddled a co-worker, and bonus points for being my boss. Redragons | |
| Vote ID : 9325 | In one night, we watched porn, filmed ourselves, and used toys on each other, all for the first time as a couple. | |
| Vote ID : 9332 | Y'know, it's pretty much the same old, same old. The most exciting sex, I guess, is when she came back from Mexico after having a mini-affair (sort of) with a local guy there (we were "off" at the time). But that was a while ago, so my memory might be a bit vague. Yeah, I'm not very adventurous. | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | It hasn't been that great. lol Besides if you refer to my other answers I'm still trying to hold out for the ideal. | |
| Vote ID : 9379 | Hmmmmm, outside sex has been the best overall, but this one time in the kitchen stands out for its spontinaity. | |
| Vote ID : 9380 | Drunk sister in-law went down on me, and I gave, and gave, and gave. It was spectacular. She wants me, and I'm ready again anytime. | |
| Vote ID : 9390 | My sweet hot baby (she loves that i call her that) and I have a pretty good sex life. been togather 2 and a half years and we still have great sex. It's certainly not as frequent as either of us would like, but when we do it's always great. I'm finding it a bit tough to pinpoint a single episode over the last year that was more exciting than the others. I'm content just grouping the whole of last year togather in my mind as a single awesome sexual experience. | |
| Vote ID : 9444 | oral sex on my partner,basiclly sitting on my face | |
| Vote ID : 9459 | ate a pussy till she gushed in my mouth | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | Out in the sand dunes with my bf, on the back of our ATV with other ATVers zooming cluelessly around us. That got filmed. | |
| Vote ID : 9502 | Sex in the parking lot by Healy Ford while some guy at the bus stop was watching | |
| Vote ID : 9517 | I masturbated in a church during a service, back stage. | |
| Vote ID : 9521 | met a 6 foot blonde,.... like a valkrie, or some other type of eastern european giantess. i'm 5'10 so this was absolutely fantastic! Legs..... wow. lithe like a cat and defintely feral in nature. good thing i'm in a bit of shape or she would mangle me. passion.... with passion who needs love? and does even such a thing exist? anyways, it was dark and spectacular. | |
| Vote ID : 9556 | On drugs, in the office. | |
| Vote ID : 9572 | It was pretty good, but I have yet to achieve orgasms comparable to my best while masturbating. | |
| Vote ID : 9579 | I met a couple on line and we arranged to meet at a hotel for a threesome. We had drinks, talked, laughed and then he suggested she change into some hot clothes and model them for us. I followed his lead. It was their fantasy after all and I was just their sex toy. She had an amazing body and they both enjoyed me touching her in the ways he suggested. It wasn't long before she was on the bed and we (the guys) took turns licking, fingering and fucking her. It was great to help them make a fantasy come true. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | Many memorable 3somes and 4somes :) | |
| Vote ID : 9600 | Outdoor sex late at night during a music festival. People were walking past and could see us. | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | Nothing of mention. | |
| Vote ID : 9607 | There is something amazing about being with a partner who you are sexually in-tune with. And when you come home one day, and start cooking, and she pushes you against the counter unexpectedly, with a hungry look in her eyes, you lose yourself in the moment. Incredible. | |
| Vote ID : 9639 | One night when my gf and I were having rougher sex, I flipped her onto her knees and she told me to slap her pussy. Hard. That was fucking hot! | |
| Vote ID : 9650 | Solo. I came. | |
| Vote ID : 9655 | The ex girlfriend and I had sex before our social dance class in the basement of a ukrainian church's sunday class room on the teachers desk. | |
| Vote ID : 9670 | Always good with my wife, sometimes she goes nuts and busts out the really filthy talk/act. | |
| Vote ID : 9677 | We hadn't had sex in a couple weeks as she had just been out to Vitoria with her family, I was busy the three days she was back and then she left for Vancouver for a week. We finally found time to hang out on the Wednesday once but we were planning for a sleepover on the friday but neither of us could wait anymore. We only had an hour in which to accomplish this. I think the whole thing only last about twenty minutes but everything we did was just "spot on". There wasn't any thinking, we just went to town on each other. The anticipation mixed with the great sex was very pleasurable. | |
| Vote ID : 9743 | A rambunctious romp after a dinner out. We managed to make it back to my place without passing out. | |
| Vote ID : 9749 | well i receently reconected with the woman that took my virginity. we had sex for 3 days straight and then went to a carnival. it was a fantastic week. she loves early morning sex. i wasnt complaining. | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | In Bangkok with a katoey(ladyman)& a woman. 2 orgasms(one on each). Enjoyed so much went back 1 and a half hour later. I love my Double/Double. Only regret my tight ass wasn't penetrated. I'll work on that starting with small vibrator and work till I can take large cock. | |
| Vote ID : 9775 | I was home in bed sleeping on a Tuesday night when the sound of my bedroom door banging open at 3 in the morning startled me awake. In the halflight from the hall I could see my roommate's girlfriend's best friend, wobbling a little as she stripped off her clothes and crawled under my covers. I had met her just the weekend before and didn't know her that well. All she said was "You wanna do this?". I could smell the gin on her breath. I just nodded and she went straight to work, jerking my shorts down and going to town on my quickly stiffening dick. We fucked through about 6 positions before collapsing in a sweaty heap. "Happy birthday to me," she says in a sing song voice before passing out. The thought of this girl I barely know sneaking into my room at night to suck my dick and bang my brains out still brings a smile to my face and a straining to my shorts. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | Mmmmm, do I have to chose just one? Probably the time I slept with this guy who had a six pack, smooth blond hair, sweet lips, etc. Let's just say that he was physically perfect in my eyes. Being a slim guy, these type of men don't usually go after me, so it was almost a fantasy moment. Oh, and did I mention that he was taken (and still is to my knowledge) Maybe it was the fact that we were both incredibly intoxicated, but that didn't stop us. One of my best sex moments in the past year. | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | Behind my friends back with his boyfriend. Being bad has never been soooo good! | |
| 41) The greatest triumph in my sex life is when I: | ||
| Vote ID : 8401 | Actually get a regular partner. | |
| Vote ID : 8402 | Gave an ex her first orgasm while experiencing going down on a girl for my own first time. Also making a one night stand quirt. | |
| Vote ID : 8422 | nailing that model | |
| Vote ID : 8426 | too many to list as they are all very memorable but being with a playboy model would I guess was a bit of a triumph or sorts | |
| Vote ID : 8451 | Finallyt got the V-card monkey off my back | |
| Vote ID : 8500 | gave my girlfriend 12 orgasms in a single night. | |
| Vote ID : 8501 | Gave currently partner multiple orgasms. | |
| Vote ID : 8509 | Had a couple Threesomes. | |
| Vote ID : 8510 | Having sex with 15 people at the same time. | |
| Vote ID : 8513 | Me and my ex stopped having sex before we split. It was always too forced (her wanting it even when I said i didn't) and the anxiety made me come to fast like everytime. So I started doubting my abilities and my ego was pretty bruised. Until my first partner after. She came over one evening. We started boning and I was fuck fuck please don't come to quickly. I ended up fucking her for 4 hours straight and she came 10 times (to my one), I shit you not. She then finished me a second time with an orgasm strictly from nipple play. We wrecked my couch cushion and traumatized my dog. | |
| Vote ID : 8517 | bring someone to orgasm. Twice. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | Make the other cum. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | I had sex with another guy ,discovered bath houses ,M2M sex | |
| Vote ID : 8537 | Able to orgasm...antidepressants are vile. | |
| Vote ID : 8542 | no | |
| Vote ID : 8557 | None to shout about! | |
| Vote ID : 8601 | bagged my first after a long term relationship. started the single life - man that felt good. | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | convinced 5 girls they were bi and should all have sex with me | |
| Vote ID : 8613 | Realized how much better sex is when I make it about making my partner feel amazing. | |
| Vote ID : 8644 | discovered socks are excellent for clean up | |
| Vote ID : 8651 | Being my wife's best lover! | |
| Vote ID : 8678 | fucked 6 times in a single day | |
| Vote ID : 8680 | come on faces. Always a good time. | |
| Vote ID : 8705 | Realising after my youth, there is more to a relationship than sex and being patient to give pleasure to my partners, as opposed to just getting myself off. | |
| Vote ID : 8712 | Haven't had anything notably triumphal yet, but the day will come. | |
| Vote ID : 8718 | Make my gf cry with joy when I go down on her and she orgasms. | |
| Vote ID : 8723 | came on myself and not all over the place. | |
| Vote ID : 8741 | Have it. I enjoy sexuality in every way and think it is a gift every time, even quickies and one nighters. | |
| Vote ID : 8743 | brace my back against the door to save my honour - initially at least. | |
| Vote ID : 8749 | got my wife to try anal | |
| Vote ID : 8754 | Get my partner to have an orgasm ....... | |
| Vote ID : 8765 | Tonight my wife gave me a blow job that was so unreal I went from being a regular 7/7.5" to an 8 at least. Once we had sex six or seven times in one day. Perhaps it was more. We honestly lost count. | |
| Vote ID : 8778 | Cum in the mouth of a girl I love. | |
| Vote ID : 8796 | Managed to bed down with the hottest babe in our office, after all the other guys had been turned down and discouraged I somehow seduced her without even trying. It was hot!! | |
| Vote ID : 8802 | had a night of non-stop sex between me and my girlfriend shortly after we met. | |
| Vote ID : 8827 | Did it three times in one evening | |
| Vote ID : 8851 | had a threesome! | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | had a threesome | |
| Vote ID : 8896 | Got to sleep with a very petite woman, who was an A-cup! | |
| Vote ID : 8903 | Had anal sex | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | Hooked up with someone for the first time. It's only fair to give credit to my younger self and the courage it took to do that with no previous hook-up experience. | |
| Vote ID : 8919 | The summer between grades 11 and 12, against all odds, I got a blow job from a girl that was 4 years older than me and amazingly sexy. | |
| Vote ID : 8925 | Had a 4 some with 3 girls, and other people watched, while on LSD, and her parent's were home. True story. | |
| Vote ID : 8950 | realized that sex is the most sophisticated form of adult play. | |
| Vote ID : 8958 | get my wife to orgasm. | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | weird question.... | |
| Vote ID : 8998 | I learned that's it's not all about me. | |
| Vote ID : 9004 | Got a girl off for the first time | |
| Vote ID : 9005 | I've produced some pretty epic orgasms in my partners, those are pretty triumphal. | |
| Vote ID : 9017 | When I got two babes, and I mean BABES, to come home with me for a night to remember, and I'll never forget it. | |
| Vote ID : 9033 | ? | |
| Vote ID : 9034 | My ex-gf invited her roommate to spend the night with us I had my gf riding my dick and her roommate was sitting on my face and making out with my gf.....wow | |
| Vote ID : 9060 | Was the time we went to her cousins wedding. She got really drunk and at home, she sucked me off, I generally don't cum from blowjobs, but this was amazing. Then I ate her for a while. When my dick was hard again. I fucked her pussy and came in it when she demanded I fuck her ass. After a while of sleeping, I woke up spooning her and she was rubbing her ass vigorously against me. She told me there was one place I didn't fuck her and she really needed it there. So I fucked her ass, doggie style, then flipped her onto her back and fuckd her ass more until she grabbed my cock like she was never giving it back and I came. We fell a sleep again. When the sun came up, we woke up and started talking. She laughed about me cummin in her pussy when she demanded to be fucked in the ass. She said she was sorry I didn't get to fuck her ass. I told her I did, and she asked when. I told her the story about her waking me up and it got her horny and she demanded I fuck her ass again. So I did. It was the first and only time I got to cum in her mouth, pussy and ass in one night. | |
| Vote ID : 9064 | 5 times baby. | |
| Vote ID : 9068 | Made her cum 3 times | |
| Vote ID : 9107 | . | |
| Vote ID : 9112 | can control myself | |
| Vote ID : 9142 | h | |
| Vote ID : 9157 | Knock us both out for the count. | |
| Vote ID : 9160 | blowing on my wifes face | |
| Vote ID : 9162 | Watched my wife get fucked by someone else while I was fucking another woman. | |
| Vote ID : 9170 | Gave my partner multiple orgasms | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | Some of the amazing women I have fucked through the years and embracing my bi side and learning how amazing it is to take it up the ass.. Also, the time I picked up a hot bodied lady on wreck beach and stretched her | |
| Vote ID : 9210 | Made my partner come several times in one go. | |
| Vote ID : 9225 | discovered my partner was submissive to my dominance | |
| Vote ID : 9247 | finally got around to that orgy | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | Manage to pop my 3 inch butt plug. | |
| Vote ID : 9254 | manage to give my partner three or more orgasms before I climax. It can be a challenge but is super fun. | |
| Vote ID : 9284 | I have none... I do not think of sex a triumphant in any way | |
| Vote ID : 9319 | I've slayed pretty much every chick I've put a mind to. It's kinda rad that I don't have a crowning achievement that pops to mind, cause every sexual experience has been rad for different reasons. | |
| Vote ID : 9325 | Had sex on top of a mountain with the woman I loved on a beautiful summer afternoon. | |
| Vote ID : 9332 | As "latte generation" as this sounds, it would have been when I let my current girlfriend suck me off. She opened the doors to a new world to me and changed how I view sex. | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | A triumph in sex?! Are we still pushing the ideal that sex is conquest? Have we not matured as a species to the understanding that it is simply a joy and fortunate treasure to share such intimacy with another? Incase you people missed it we have populated the globe and there is no longer a need to mindlessly wander about stalking down the next prey to prolong our genes. That is of course unless you want the rate of rape and sex crimes to continue or worse yet, increase. | |
| Vote ID : 9379 | Get her to orgasm or put it in her butt. Its a toss up really. | |
| Vote ID : 9380 | Well, when my sister in-law did me. | |
| Vote ID : 9390 | would have sex with a woman for the first time. it was kind of a conquest type of thing. I have given it up now being in a stable monogamous relationship, but "the thrill of the kill" was always a triumph. I'm not a tall guy, im not an asshole, and im not a perfect 10 (all things women like most in men, hahaha), which means they must have liked ME to have slept with me. Each time I would have sex with a woman for the first time was a triumph. | |
| Vote ID : 9444 | i can bring my partner to orgasm more often | |
| Vote ID : 9459 | see above with best friends wife | |
| Vote ID : 9502 | Hooked up with my current partner. | |
| Vote ID : 9517 | Can't think of one right now. | |
| Vote ID : 9521 | my experiences with women started young and I was the pursued of older women. milfs rule. | |
| Vote ID : 9556 | Had a partner play a cello right after sex, while I smoked and watched. You have to have your legs wide open to play the cello. | |
| Vote ID : 9572 | Had sex for the first time. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | Finding a partner who: 1) shares my attitude(s) 2) is open to exploring new things/experimentation | |
| Vote ID : 9600 | I literally fucked a girl into unconsciousness | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | Have real awesome (non anonymous) sex with a guy. | |
| Vote ID : 9607 | Was made to feel so incredibly sexy. | |
| Vote ID : 9614 | sex with two for three hours | |
| Vote ID : 9639 | There's two. When I lost my virginity and made my partner cum. The second was when I slept with my ex-girlfriend's friend, a cheerleader. | |
| Vote ID : 9650 | Lost my virginity the same week I met and hung out with my favourite band. It was a good week. | |
| Vote ID : 9655 | During an intense sex session, my girlfriend was riding cowgirl style and she slammed down so hard that she orgasmed and released so much fluid it splattered on my walls like a "Pizza Pop" commercial. | |
| Vote ID : 9670 | Leave her worn out and extra satisfied. | |
| Vote ID : 9677 | Had sex for over four hours straight. She came about four times and I came twice. We just kept going, with only about five minutes to change condoms, etc. Or the time I had sex on someone's front lawn that neither of us knew. Cars drove past. It was exciting. | |
| Vote ID : 9749 | every time i get some lmao | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | Make a woman have multi-orgasams, take 2 guys at once, and have at least 2,000 partners. | |
| Vote ID : 9775 | Finally got it into a girl's asshole. Having a girthy cock is awesome, but it really isn't conducive to anal. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | gained confidence at what I did! | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | Unfortunately, nothing has qualified as "triumphant". Just fun. | |
| Vote ID : 9801 | Had sex with my girlfriend (the recetionist) is my annoying co-workers office during work hours. | |
| 42) My greatest regret about my sex life is the time I | ||
| Vote ID : 8401 | There is so little of it an none of it was much good, so I regret the whole of it. | |
| Vote ID : 8402 | Played the part as the other guy in a couples threesome. The sex was great but they split up soon after because he couldn't take what they had done, even though he enjoyed it at the time. Looking back he felt emasculated letting another guy have sex with 'his' girl. | |
| Vote ID : 8417 | can't just get off for sex's sake. | |
| Vote ID : 8422 | feel asleep losing my v-card | |
| Vote ID : 8426 | said no ......just that one time lol | |
| Vote ID : 8451 | didnt pursue the opportunities prsented to me | |
| Vote ID : 8500 | didnt take as many chances as i could have. i missed out on some great sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8501 | Cheated on one of my partners on a whim. We were on the verge of breakup, but it's still a huge mistake on my part. | |
| Vote ID : 8509 | Banged crazy chicks. very crazy chicks. | |
| Vote ID : 8513 | Is when I gave up my regular hookups with a 22 year old easygoing sex nymph (who would always come multiple times, squirt and enjoyed giving me head all the time) for a short lived relationship with a girl who was constantly mean to me and only liked to have sex in the same two positions. She gave good handjobs, but come on ! | |
| Vote ID : 8517 | Never picked up on the green light signal. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | Do not give my best effort. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | did not start early to explore my sexuality but than again grew up in strict house hold | |
| Vote ID : 8537 | caught HPV. | |
| Vote ID : 8542 | no | |
| Vote ID : 8557 | No regrets, just lessons learnt! | |
| Vote ID : 8601 | I would have been interested in starting sooner | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | failed to cheat on my girl with my ex, a week before i broke up with the gf | |
| Vote ID : 8613 | Had a vasectomy reversal but my girlfriend broke up with me. | |
| Vote ID : 8644 | never closed the deal with that girl in vegas | |
| Vote ID : 8651 | lost my virginity! Wished I knew then what I know now! | |
| Vote ID : 8678 | chose to ditch a super hot woman in a bar because I was too drunk | |
| Vote ID : 8680 | don't get laid on a regular basis. | |
| Vote ID : 8705 | I was shy with some women, and did nto have sex with them even though they were prepared and willing. | |
| Vote ID : 8712 | didn't clue in that the co-worker I was banging was just in it for the sex. Felt pretty silly afterward. | |
| Vote ID : 8718 | Had sex with a girl my cousin previously fucked. Not that matters, but she was a starfish. My biggest regret is that I fucked her again 6 months later thinking it might be better. Nope, she was still a starfish. | |
| Vote ID : 8723 | chose someone over my hand. | |
| Vote ID : 8741 | missed. There have been too many long spaces in between that build resentment. | |
| Vote ID : 8743 | spent sniffing bicycle seats rather than the source. | |
| Vote ID : 8754 | I have no regrets though wished that my Wife would have enjoyed giving and receiving oral sex more. She would do it when she wanted but not all the time... | |
| Vote ID : 8765 | spent my entire teenage life feeling terrible after everytime i would masturbate. | |
| Vote ID : 8778 | Found some dude's phone outside Wooly Bully's and had phone sex with his girlfriend by pretending to be him. | |
| Vote ID : 8796 | Had a chance to sleep with 2 women at once, but I got nervous and spent the night on my own. | |
| Vote ID : 8799 | First wife | |
| Vote ID : 8802 | broke a condom and almost got my girlfriend pregnant. | |
| Vote ID : 8809 | pushed her for something that she was not ready for | |
| Vote ID : 8811 | Moved away an left behind the most beautiful girl I had ever known. | |
| Vote ID : 8851 | had a threesome =/ (they divorced because of it) | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | caught chlamidia | |
| Vote ID : 8896 | Had an acute case of ED with a really cool Pakistani girl. Argh. | |
| Vote ID : 8898 | went 10 months with no sex, | |
| Vote ID : 8903 | No regrets | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | I was with this really attractive woman and we decided to have sex, but something I ate that day was making me real gassy, and because I was concentrating so hard on not doing anything embarrassing, she couldn't get me off and took it quite personally. Nothing happened after that, so I guess I regret whatever I ate earlier that day. | |
| Vote ID : 8919 | I cheated on an ex when I was in high school. I was drunk and made a very bad decision, and my ex didn't deserve it at all. | |
| Vote ID : 8950 | wasted time and energy on believing a hetro normative life was for me. | |
| Vote ID : 8958 | did not sleep with Tara and Lisa P or realize I was propositioned with a threesome with 2 women until it was to late. | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | spent 17 years in a marriage knowing I was gay | |
| Vote ID : 8998 | Is my first time--my partner wasn't ready and it didn't turn out well. | |
| Vote ID : 9004 | Cheated on my highschool girlfriend with a girl who was dating my good friend. | |
| Vote ID : 9005 | Didn't proposition this girl in hostel I was staying at. We had a room to ourselves and I was leaving a few hours later. I'm 99% certain she would have said yes, but I just didn't go for it. | |
| Vote ID : 9016 | No real regrets as of yet. | |
| Vote ID : 9017 | Had a one night stand with a married woman who was angry at her husband. I never met him and never saw her again but heard rumor that she had a baby less than a year later. | |
| Vote ID : 9033 | n/a | |
| Vote ID : 9034 | I wanted till I was 20 before I realized all women are whores just like men. | |
| Vote ID : 9060 | That I didn't open up about the sexual experiences I wanted to try in life when were dating. A lot of them she would have tried before we were married with kids. | |
| Vote ID : 9107 | Got into a serious relationship with a girl I love before sleeping with multiple hot broads. | |
| Vote ID : 9112 | did not take a chance | |
| Vote ID : 9142 | h | |
| Vote ID : 9157 | Tore her butt... | |
| Vote ID : 9162 | Failed to act on obviously interested women. | |
| Vote ID : 9170 | Slept with a random drunk girl from a party and didn't use protection. | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | got too drunk to hook up (many times) | |
| Vote ID : 9225 | Not having sex ealier in life | |
| Vote ID : 9247 | . | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | we tried anal and failed | |
| Vote ID : 9254 | No regrets. | |
| Vote ID : 9284 | had sex. | |
| Vote ID : 9319 | Almost swung a three way, but got cock blocked by my gay buddy at my own hous party | |
| Vote ID : 9332 | Convinced myself that my ex-wife wouldn't change her feelings on her fantasies (her feelings changed, but mine didn't). It was a problem. | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | Had a drunken one night stand of meaningless sex this past month. Only to follow it up with a booty call just to "see if it would work" despite feeling nothing towards the partner. Yeah, retarded. | |
| Vote ID : 9379 | Usualy cum around 5 minutes or less. 10 would be better. | |
| Vote ID : 9380 | No regrets. | |
| Vote ID : 9444 | did not learn how to pleasure a women till later in life,life is grand when the woman can't catch her breath. | |
| Vote ID : 9459 | did not bury my cock in the same woman | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | I stayed a virgin way too long. | |
| Vote ID : 9506 | Missed an opportunity for a threesome with 2 incredibly hot exchange students. | |
| Vote ID : 9517 | failed to take advantage of an offered opportunity to have two girls at once. I completely mis-read the signals.... | |
| Vote ID : 9521 | milf's ruled. | |
| Vote ID : 9556 | Was 20, and so drunk, that two beautiful women were making out with each other and asked if I would like to go upstairs and have sex with both of them, but instead I answered "not thanks ladies, I'm going to bed". | |
| Vote ID : 9572 | No regrets. | |
| Vote ID : 9579 | I deeply regret any time I've ever been unfaithful while in a relationship back when I was young, imature, and stupid. Damn the ego. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | Got married | |
| Vote ID : 9594 | didn't have it for like 2 years. Probably a good idea, though. | |
| Vote ID : 9600 | Didn't hook up with that one girl even though now I am aware my partner wants to be non-monogamous at times. | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | Had anonymous sex with a man when I was young. Although I am gay, it wasn't really a smart thing, and I was still struggling with my sexuality at the time, I had a really hard time dealing with it. | |
| Vote ID : 9607 | Lost someone who was the best sexual partner I've ever had. | |
| Vote ID : 9614 | aborshion | |
| Vote ID : 9639 | Cheated. | |
| Vote ID : 9650 | Wish I was able to score a relationship several years sooner. | |
| Vote ID : 9655 | Pounding a girl and slipping out of her to hit her with my dick and bruise her and crack my dick. | |
| Vote ID : 9677 | had sex with a friend and told some people about it. She got mad at me. She seems to be okay with it, but I still feel guilty. Even though she forgave me and everything. Thats when I learned never to "kiss and tell". | |
| Vote ID : 9749 | when i didnt use protection and recived a not so friendly gift. | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | Contacted HEP B. | |
| Vote ID : 9775 | couldn't get it up and actually said "Honestly, this never happens". At the very least I could have said something a little less cliche. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | slept with someone that I cared about. We've all made the mistake to sleep with someone that we shouldn't of. I don't have regrets as I I did want it at one point in time. I will say that I shouldn't have slept with one of friends who was taken, in a serious realationship. Hasn't been the same since. Obviously. | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | The first time I rejected who I now realize would have been the perfect guy. We took turns with one of us coming on to the other, and the other saying no. Then reversing roles the next time we met. Timing IS everything, and mine is bad. | |
| 43) Tell us a secret you would never tell your partner | ||
| Vote ID : 8402 | We have a good relationship because we have been very open about our pasts which leads to us feeling comfortable asking for want in the bedroom. I genuinely have nothing she doesn't know about. | |
| Vote ID : 8417 | Regular sex bores me so I don't feel inclined to have it. | |
| Vote ID : 8422 | i have no secrets from her | |
| Vote ID : 8426 | no secrets | |
| Vote ID : 8501 | I sometimes wish I could be with more girls. | |
| Vote ID : 8509 | Honestly can't think of anything she doesn't know. | |
| Vote ID : 8513 | On the weekends I have gay time with my dog. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | I had sex with your sister/brother. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | I like men too ,good looking ones , often fantazise | |
| Vote ID : 8537 | I am actually a closeted furry. | |
| Vote ID : 8542 | no | |
| Vote ID : 8557 | I have no secrets to share, that is why they are called secrets! | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | she needs to trim her eyebrows more | |
| Vote ID : 8651 | I have shared pictures of her with others! out of pride! | |
| Vote ID : 8678 | I would like to be part of a gang bang | |
| Vote ID : 8680 | I've been with about 200 partners. Give or take... | |
| Vote ID : 8705 | mild bi-male fantasies giving oral pleasure | |
| Vote ID : 8712 | I'm a furry, sometimes. | |
| Vote ID : 8718 | Had sex with a prostitute overseas. First and only time. It was arranged as kind of part of doing business there. Typical in eastern bloc countries. She was Ukranian and didn't speak english. She was very beautiful and nice. Men there tend treat women like objects, rather than equals. I treated her the same as I would if she were my girlfriend. I think it was an escape for both of us. she wanted to be held when we were done. I obliged and she just curled up in my arms. She wouldn't let go even when her handler was beating on the door. She just yelled something to him and stayed another 5-10 minutes. She gave me a long hug when she finally went to leave. I would never seek out the services of a prostitute because I'm quite satisfied with my sex life , but with this particualr woman in this particular instance, I can honestly say I have no regrets. I still sometimes wonder about her. | |
| Vote ID : 8723 | I would do the same things you would do. | |
| Vote ID : 8741 | I have a girlfriend now. | |
| Vote ID : 8743 | I aint never gonna tell her that she aint as good as she useta wuz. | |
| Vote ID : 8749 | I'm obsessed with anal | |
| Vote ID : 8754 | I had sex on a plane with my wife (I am since divorced) but my partner does not want to do it | |
| Vote ID : 8765 | ... | |
| Vote ID : 8778 | I don't love you. | |
| Vote ID : 8796 | I fantasize about fucking women who flirt with me daily.... | |
| Vote ID : 8802 | I love having sex in public places. | |
| Vote ID : 8851 | i'd do her niece. | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | have a threesome with two hot shemales | |
| Vote ID : 8903 | She is boring at times and poor at head | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | I still masturbate to sexy photos I took of past partners. | |
| Vote ID : 8919 | I really enjoy watching, but am not sure I want to engage in, anal sex (male-female). | |
| Vote ID : 8950 | No secrets...only specific answers to questions that haven't been asked. | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | I'm not sure it's gonna last. | |
| Vote ID : 8998 | I'd like her middle finger up my butt. | |
| Vote ID : 9004 | I read fucked up sex stories | |
| Vote ID : 9005 | I've slept with a married woman. Not while we were dating, but still not something I'm going to tell anyone. | |
| Vote ID : 9016 | I would really like to have sex more often. | |
| Vote ID : 9017 | She is not the best sex I've ever had regardless of 22 years together. | |
| Vote ID : 9033 | ummm..... | |
| Vote ID : 9034 | I cheated. | |
| Vote ID : 9107 | I almost cheated on you when I was super hammered. | |
| Vote ID : 9112 | yeah right | |
| Vote ID : 9142 | b | |
| Vote ID : 9157 | Sorry, it's a secret. | |
| Vote ID : 9162 | None. | |
| Vote ID : 9170 | I fantasize about other women while we are having sex. | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | I had unprotected sex with a man once and really, really loved it. I have since tested cleaned, many years later, but I still think about how good it felt to take an uncovered cock in the ass. | |
| Vote ID : 9210 | I sometimes wish I was single just for brief periods so I could sleep with other people (then come back to her with no regrets). | |
| Vote ID : 9225 | None | |
| Vote ID : 9247 | have attempted autofellatio | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | I used a ball gag and attempt self bondage when I masturbate | |
| Vote ID : 9254 | Having a third person in the bed would be really cool | |
| Vote ID : 9284 | I would like to not be attracted to them. | |
| Vote ID : 9319 | You know that friend of mine you met? Well she's actually my best friend and ex girlfriend of like 3 years. | |
| Vote ID : 9325 | I've experimented with men in the past. | |
| Vote ID : 9332 | I've actually told her everything...except... I can't even trust you guys with it. | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | No secrets! As your relationship builds you should be opening more doors. | |
| Vote ID : 9379 | No! | |
| Vote ID : 9380 | I did her sister. | |
| Vote ID : 9390 | the number of partners i have had. I dont want to know how many she has had, and im damn sure she doesnt want to know how many i've had. | |
| Vote ID : 9444 | that i watch some internet porn | |
| Vote ID : 9459 | see above | |
| Vote ID : 9517 | I want to fuck her friend. | |
| Vote ID : 9521 | a tranny..... asian..... yummy. | |
| Vote ID : 9541 | I know better than that! | |
| Vote ID : 9556 | No | |
| Vote ID : 9572 | I have a 'pegging' fantasy. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | We have no secrets; she even knows about the bestiality FANTASY | |
| Vote ID : 9594 | n/a | |
| Vote ID : 9607 | I don't have secrets. I believe in complete honesty. | |
| Vote ID : 9639 | I still think of a cheerleader I slept with for a time, when she is giving me head...also when I am having trouble "finishing" | |
| Vote ID : 9650 | I'm open and honest. I would ensure any relationship I am in harbours no secrets except between ourselves...assuming I am positive I can trust my partner. | |
| Vote ID : 9655 | You look like your mom. | |
| Vote ID : 9670 | I use "masturbation instructions" porn. | |
| Vote ID : 9677 | I told her all my secrets about that. We can't properly enjoy ourselves while holding things from each other. | |
| Vote ID : 9749 | hmmmm dont have one. | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | How many partners I've had. | |
| Vote ID : 9775 | I'm turned on by the idea of her pissing on me. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | I really hate sucking your cock.. | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | Who I'm secretly lusting over instead of them. | |
| 44) How do you engage your partner in experimentation in the bedroom? | ||
| Vote ID : 8402 | Nowadays we just talk to each other and are confident enough to just ask. In the past I have watched a porn dvd with ex's and when it came to something that I wanted to do like anal, facials or light bondage I'd ask them if they have ever would ever do those things. Depending on their answer I'd take it from there. The best thing is to start a dialogue and get the subject out in the open. | |
| Vote ID : 8422 | talk it out first | |
| Vote ID : 8500 | talk to them and about what we want. | |
| Vote ID : 8501 | I talk to him about it. | |
| Vote ID : 8509 | I ask her. | |
| Vote ID : 8513 | Just go for it ! | |
| Vote ID : 8517 | Triple martinis at Devlins. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | Talk, it is the only way to do anything. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8529 | Just ask, in polite fashion and at appropriate times. Most folks can be talked into almost anything. | |
| Vote ID : 8537 | never came up. | |
| Vote ID : 8542 | no | |
| Vote ID : 8557 | By initiating and conversing with her as to her likes and dislikes. | |
| Vote ID : 8601 | lookin for more of this | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | lol, take the lead and make sure she's following | |
| Vote ID : 8613 | Talk to her about it outside the bedroom first and then by being prepared in whatever ways are required to make it fun. | |
| Vote ID : 8651 | Slowly, patiently and politely | |
| Vote ID : 8678 | - | |
| Vote ID : 8680 | Keep going till you hear 'no'.... then try one more time. | |
| Vote ID : 8705 | I try to have fun and see if she wants to explore the activity. | |
| Vote ID : 8712 | That's something I wish I were better at. | |
| Vote ID : 8718 | JUst suggest it. lol. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. It works both ways. However it goes, it never seems to cause any awkward moments. | |
| Vote ID : 8723 | mutual. | |
| Vote ID : 8743 | At my age, one doesn't try too much fancy experimentation. Getting from here to there is an experiment in itself. | |
| Vote ID : 8749 | ask | |
| Vote ID : 8754 | I start by taking control and have my partner relax and then I explore with her and once she is aroused I experiment with my body as well as hers | |
| Vote ID : 8765 | Not with any difficulty. | |
| Vote ID : 8778 | "Wanna try something?" | |
| Vote ID : 8796 | It is pretty much up to her to let me know what she is interested in... | |
| Vote ID : 8802 | I just do it without telling them! ;) | |
| Vote ID : 8809 | poorly | |
| Vote ID : 8811 | She never experiments. Sex is sex, she just wants straight sex. No foreplay or oral sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8827 | Ask her | |
| Vote ID : 8851 | just ask - she's VERY willing | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | suggest it | |
| Vote ID : 8896 | How don't I?! Experimentation is the spice of life, man! | |
| Vote ID : 8898 | We're so open minded, our brains have fallen out onto the sheets quite a few times... | |
| Vote ID : 8903 | Ask for it | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | Conversation. | |
| Vote ID : 8919 | Sometimes by talking, other times by sensuously suggesting. | |
| Vote ID : 8925 | Asking politely. | |
| Vote ID : 8950 | We take it as it comes. | |
| Vote ID : 8958 | Joke about it first to see how she reacts and if she giggles or laughs then it could be fair game. | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | We talk about it, and if we agree, we do it | |
| Vote ID : 8998 | Water. Lots of it. Keep her hydrated for the acrobatics. | |
| Vote ID : 9004 | I just let her know I will really like it. | |
| Vote ID : 9005 | "Hey, this looks freaky, wanna try it?" | |
| Vote ID : 9016 | Often just by talking and communicating with my partner and seeing what each of our limits are. | |
| Vote ID : 9017 | I don't ask I just start to try something and see how she reacts. That method has been pretty successful so far. | |
| Vote ID : 9033 | I say "So what do you think about blank?" | |
| Vote ID : 9034 | I usually suggest things when she has came but I have not she is more egar to please me then. I know I'm going to hell but at least it's warm there and I'll know lots of people. | |
| Vote ID : 9060 | I mention things after sex I'd like to try in the future and see how they go over. Then I let it stew in her brain for a while. I then mention it a few weeks or month later to see how far it's gone. She will then bring it up when she's cool with it, or it never comes up again. | |
| Vote ID : 9068 | Ask her | |
| Vote ID : 9107 | enimas. | |
| Vote ID : 9112 | not gonna happen | |
| Vote ID : 9142 | g | |
| Vote ID : 9157 | Dirty stories and role play. | |
| Vote ID : 9160 | waiting untill she is so hot that she will do anything | |
| Vote ID : 9162 | We are both equally adept at pushing the boundaries; our depravity knows no bounds... | |
| Vote ID : 9164 | positive, reassuring attitude. get hyped up by both watching porn/going to the adult store, talking to friends about it | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | My current fwb's are very open and bi | |
| Vote ID : 9210 | It's hard because we're both shy, but sometimes we get through just by slowly talking it through. | |
| Vote ID : 9225 | I tell my submissive partner what we are going to do and we do it. She'll do anything at least once. | |
| Vote ID : 9247 | depends | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | I present her with different ideas of what might be fun to try. | |
| Vote ID : 9254 | Just ask about something new. Straight forward. | |
| Vote ID : 9284 | don't | |
| Vote ID : 9319 | Like a river cutting a canyon. Go a little farther every time, and before you know it, your doing the wackiest shit you can think of. | |
| Vote ID : 9325 | I just ask, and she's usually open to trying things, as am I. | |
| Vote ID : 9332 | Bedroom experimentation for me means sucking on nipples or something (my partner's nipples are pathologically sensitive). So engaging her in that activity can mean about of uh...assertiveness, that is, I just try it and if she kicks me, I stop. | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | No partner. | |
| Vote ID : 9379 | Its easiest just to ask. | |
| Vote ID : 9380 | Straight up begging. Successful 8% of the time. She's just not into sex. Low libido. | |
| Vote ID : 9390 | with laughter. new things are easier to try when you're having fun. | |
| Vote ID : 9444 | talking | |
| Vote ID : 9459 | don't any more...sick and tired of the sick and tired | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | If there's something either of us wants, we're not shy about mentioning it. | |
| Vote ID : 9502 | Just ask she's very good, giving and game | |
| Vote ID : 9517 | Simply suggest it. She is open-minded. | |
| Vote ID : 9521 | martial aids. don't leave home without them. | |
| Vote ID : 9541 | Open discussion. If they know that the idea being proposed will help you feel good, then they should have no real reason to refuse. | |
| Vote ID : 9556 | Try to talk - more like get her to ask for me to do things, but it's actually quite difficult. | |
| Vote ID : 9572 | We talk. | |
| Vote ID : 9579 | I talk about it with her first. Outside of the bedroom I tell her things I know will get her going and gently take her in the direction of the experimentation I'm interested in to see how receptive she is. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | Openly and honestly | |
| Vote ID : 9594 | We are both GGG, all the way. | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | Just try things slowly and gauge the reaction. | |
| Vote ID : 9607 | I say, "I want to try this" and if your partner is open, you do it. | |
| Vote ID : 9639 | I just ask. She's open and honest. It's really that simple. | |
| Vote ID : 9650 | I say "do you want to move the bed over here, or keep it where it is?" Or "do you want your clothes folded or would you like to try hangers?" ....I got nothin'. | |
| Vote ID : 9655 | Talk about it and then bring it up while inthe bed room to give it a try. Or just yell "SUPRISE!" | |
| Vote ID : 9677 | Straight up ask them? | |
| Vote ID : 9743 | Bring it up naturally. Don't lie. Just be honest. | |
| Vote ID : 9749 | just go for it man | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | Ask them. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | Don't take no for an answer | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | You just have to be open and honest. You have tell them "I think this would be a lot of fun!" and see how it goes. If they are willing, then it should should be easy to talk about. If not, it will be pretty obvious by a bad reaction. You gotta realize you can't make anyone do anything they don't want to do. Communication is always very important. | |
| 45) What’s the most interesting sexual request you’ve gotten this year? | ||
| Vote ID : 8402 | Nothing too unusual this year but a long time ago one girl did ask me to choke her while we had sex. Not really my thing but I indulged her as it got her off. | |
| Vote ID : 8426 | anything would be lol | |
| Vote ID : 8451 | to slap her in the face with my cock... it just seemed kinda strange | |
| Vote ID : 8501 | "Tie me up", something along those lines. | |
| Vote ID : 8513 | This is funny. I brought home the drunkest chick from the bar. We played a frustrating game of sexual cat and mouse back at my place. No she doesn't want it, then she says she will be the best sex I've ever had. Pants off. Pants On. Pants off. Gets mad at me and slaps me because I have a condom in my hand while she's changed her mind again and is not having sex with me. Then she pulls me on top and says mmmmmmuuuhhh SLIP IT IN SLIP IT IN . It was really bad and I could barely keep it up. I usually have the opposite problem. I had Sonic Youth on the stereo while we were banging. Then while I was (barely) inside of her she requests "Like, can you put some good music on already? Like I really want to hear LIGHTING CRASHES by LIVE". I said we were done and called her a taxi. Then I had to give her $20 for the cab ride just so she would get the fuck out of my house. I cried myself to sleep and questioned my sexuality. I couldn't even jerk myself off for three days afterwards. YIKES. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | My current, wanted to be double penetrated. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8537 | Being a leather boy for the weekend. | |
| Vote ID : 8542 | no | |
| Vote ID : 8557 | The most interesting request..hmmmm...let me think about that one.... | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | Outdoor sex in a public place | |
| Vote ID : 8613 | To meet a woman in the river valley and watch her masturbate. | |
| Vote ID : 8651 | A woman wanted me to let her give me head, in a parking lot! | |
| Vote ID : 8678 | Anal sex | |
| Vote ID : 8680 | Dunno. | |
| Vote ID : 8705 | a friend is asking me to try a male-male experience. | |
| Vote ID : 8712 | Nothing terribly interesting. "Grab my ass", I think. | |
| Vote ID : 8718 | no interesting requests per se. Some wild shit happened, but it just seemed to happen. | |
| Vote ID : 8723 | something in german? | |
| Vote ID : 8741 | " Um i could have a good spanking" | |
| Vote ID : 8743 | Two actually "I'd like to know you as more than a friend. Show me that you're not gay." "You like it. I like it. Why are we standing here?" | |
| Vote ID : 8749 | none :( | |
| Vote ID : 8754 | When I was in a hotel bar while travelling for work, I had two women at the bar ask me to come back to their room and fuck them both ...I declined as I was in a relationship and I also thought it was a setup and was not a good idea. | |
| Vote ID : 8765 | I don't know. She used the word "deep-throat" the other day. | |
| Vote ID : 8778 | Wanna try anal? | |
| Vote ID : 8796 | Honey, can you go to the grocery store and pick up another one of those awesome Long English cucumbers... | |
| Vote ID : 8802 | Can you tie me up to the vineyard lattice and savagely eat me and f*** me? | |
| Vote ID : 8811 | I haven't gotten any requests | |
| Vote ID : 8827 | To do her in the butt | |
| Vote ID : 8851 | let's have cam-cam sex | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | none | |
| Vote ID : 8896 | Masturbating for a girl in her backyard. On our second date. | |
| Vote ID : 8898 | "Bind me, then whip me with this strap... please?" *innocent eyes* | |
| Vote ID : 8903 | Sex while eating | |
| Vote ID : 8919 | Sex on the beach | |
| Vote ID : 8947 | Opening up the relationship. Fantastic idea, but poorly executed... | |
| Vote ID : 8950 | To get off on the desk in the office of a friend. | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | threesome | |
| Vote ID : 8998 | Could we take a break. This wasn't interesting in the hon-I'd-'like-try-this-new-move-using-a-tire-pump kinda way. It was more interesting in the BP oil spill way. | |
| Vote ID : 9004 | None really that interesting | |
| Vote ID : 9005 | I was invited to be the first experiment for a couple exploring an open relationship, but turned it down. I'm all for poly relationships, but I don't think they were ready for it. | |
| Vote ID : 9017 | Fuck Me! from my wife of 21 years after going almost three months without having sex. Needless to say she didn't have to ask twice. | |
| Vote ID : 9033 | Too normal for this survey | |
| Vote ID : 9034 | A girl wanted me to fuck her till she came and then suck my dick clean until she swallowed my load. And she did. | |
| Vote ID : 9107 | . | |
| Vote ID : 9112 | handjob at work | |
| Vote ID : 9142 | n | |
| Vote ID : 9157 | Can't think of anything. | |
| Vote ID : 9162 | From a high school classmate; she wanted to finally fuck. | |
| Vote ID : 9170 | To be tied up while having sex. | |
| Vote ID : 9208 | If i would be willing to have another man join the mix | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | Take it in the ass from a lesbian with a strap on | |
| Vote ID : 9210 | To try vibrators in bed. They didn't work out that well though. | |
| Vote ID : 9225 | Bondage | |
| Vote ID : 9247 | random offers from strangers of both genders | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | That I get my tongue pierced. | |
| Vote ID : 9254 | Nothing out of the ordinary | |
| Vote ID : 9284 | ..... none | |
| Vote ID : 9319 | Choke me harder | |
| Vote ID : 9325 | To spank her ass hard enough to leave a handprint in the morning. | |
| Vote ID : 9332 | She wanted to watch me suck off a guy. | |
| Vote ID : 9379 | You can put it in my butt, if you warm it up first. | |
| Vote ID : 9380 | Nada. | |
| Vote ID : 9390 | My sweet hot baby has shown an interest in ways to get me off. different kinds of hand jobs, blowies.... hahaha she is also a giver. She requests that i let her just go to work on me. pretty cool (what a nice woman, eh?) | |
| Vote ID : 9444 | none(sigh) | |
| Vote ID : 9459 | maybe that will be this evening | |
| Vote ID : 9517 | A friend asked me about sex toys and anal work. | |
| Vote ID : 9521 | nothing out of norm. | |
| Vote ID : 9541 | I was asked to watch, but not participate, as two female friends had sex with each other. | |
| Vote ID : 9556 | To "role play" during (and actually before) sex. | |
| Vote ID : 9579 | A women asked me to fist her. I was under the impression that fisting was something done only in porn because it didn't look like it would feel good. It was interesting to do something that I'd never imagined doing and had no experience with but she loved it. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | I was told, "My wife is going to fuck your wife, and we're just going to watch." (a serendipitous connection while on vacation in Mexico) PS - there WAS some male participation (never say never) | |
| Vote ID : 9600 | To fuck on active train tracks | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | "Stick this up your ass"-from a girl. | |
| Vote ID : 9607 | when she said, "I want you to fuck another woman, while she goes down on me." Maybe not interesting, just hot and it came out of nowhere. | |
| Vote ID : 9639 | She wants to video my cock sliding into her. | |
| Vote ID : 9650 | This survey enticed me from your front page... | |
| Vote ID : 9655 | Yet to be seen. | |
| Vote ID : 9677 | Nothing super out of the ordinary this year. Although last year I almost had a four some. We were all naked and everything, my partner at the time and I started, they chickened out. It was interesting though. | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | Nothing really. | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | Sex in a park. Nothing unusual for a while unfortunately. | |
| 46) What kinds of things are just too “out there” for you to try sexually? Why? | ||
| Vote ID : 8401 | Skat and piss. Just, no. | |
| Vote ID : 8402 | Scat play is a big no no for me, I just imagine the smell would be terrible. Beastiality is out, call me a prude but I just don't get it! Dogs, horses etc...why? Underage role play, no thanks. Anything involving kids, fantasy or not is just not on in my world. I think people who do need to take a long hard look at themselves and probably see a doc. Don't like to be a submissive, it just doesn't go with my personality type. | |
| Vote ID : 8422 | im pretty open to new things | |
| Vote ID : 8451 | Beastiality that shits just wrong | |
| Vote ID : 8501 | Anything illegal or nonconsensual. For obvious reasons. Also some of the more extreme stuff, because they make me uncomfortable/gross me out instead of turn me on. | |
| Vote ID : 8509 | Anything gay, just not my thing. That is about it. Pretty open minded. | |
| Vote ID : 8513 | BBW on Craigslist. NO THANKS ! | |
| Vote ID : 8517 | Poop, pee, kids and animals. Really great sex with a consenting adult is enough. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | Bestiality, I could never know if the animal is in pain or pleasure. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8537 | scat and watersports...that's just weird shit. | |
| Vote ID : 8542 | no | |
| Vote ID : 8557 | Being tied up and whipped. Latex Sex.. For starters, the 1st one is painfull and the second one is simply downright freaky and does not turn me on... | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | animals, blood bathing, just to weird for me | |
| Vote ID : 8651 | Bestiality, rape fantasy, pee fetishes. | |
| Vote ID : 8678 | Never sex with animals... This is too much! | |
| Vote ID : 8680 | Most of the 'phelias' I guess. Mostly necro. | |
| Vote ID : 8705 | anything related to mouth and anus. Other anus activity would be acceptable. | |
| Vote ID : 8712 | Super, super hard stuff is outside my range. I'm not into hard S&M, coprophilia, beastiality, stuff like that. | |
| Vote ID : 8718 | beatility, sex with another guy, a 3 some involving another guy, or taking it up the ass. why? just too weird for me. | |
| Vote ID : 8723 | well, yeah. don't know. | |
| Vote ID : 8741 | Scat, etc. Some things are just hard to see as sexy. | |
| Vote ID : 8743 | A few hairs between the teeth are ok but licorice on the whiskers is too far-out for me. | |
| Vote ID : 8749 | animals just seem wrong | |
| Vote ID : 8754 | Guy on Guy sex as I am straight.......... | |
| Vote ID : 8765 | Anything homoerotic. Those things just honestly don't feel right for me. (obligatory hater disassociation: i do not harbour any malice or ill-will toward homosexuals whatsoever). I wouldn't have or ask my wife to have anal sex. That seems awfully odd as well. | |
| Vote ID : 8796 | S&M ,Ass licking - They are too disrespectful and Dark. | |
| Vote ID : 8802 | Bestiality would probably be too much for me. | |
| Vote ID : 8809 | urine/feces. because it's gross. | |
| Vote ID : 8811 | I would never try anything with another man. Other then that I am totally open. | |
| Vote ID : 8851 | scat! boooo!!! | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | beastiality. It is not right | |
| Vote ID : 8896 | Scat play, and blood play. | |
| Vote ID : 8898 | Bestiality, because an animal can't say "yes" | |
| Vote ID : 8903 | Anal insertion on me...too scary. | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | Watersports, playing with feces... It just grosses me out too much. | |
| Vote ID : 8919 | I'm not interested in abusive sex (face slapping, punching, etc.). It does not arouse me and does not interest me when I am aroused. | |
| Vote ID : 8925 | All the things I said "no" to in the list above. Because I don't need to do those things to be happy, sexually. | |
| Vote ID : 8947 | Scat. I'm not into poop. | |
| Vote ID : 8950 | KAP...kids, animals and poo | |
| Vote ID : 8958 | Swapping | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | Anything involving urination,defecation, etc. | |
| Vote ID : 8998 | Anything with animals or outside the bounds of monogamy. Guess I'm old fashioned. | |
| Vote ID : 9004 | Shitting. No explanation needed I dont think. | |
| Vote ID : 9005 | Anything involving significant amounts of pain. Spanking, yes. Ball crushing, no. Extreme power differences, humiliation, simulated violence. | |
| Vote ID : 9016 | I don't like anything with bums. I am not homophobic at all, but sexually I do not like my bum to be touched really. | |
| Vote ID : 9017 | Same sex, taking something up my ass, dealing with piss or shit, piercing of genitalia. | |
| Vote ID : 9033 | gay sex. Wrong on so many levels> | |
| Vote ID : 9034 | Beastiality. Just weird! | |
| Vote ID : 9060 | No kids, animals or shit. | |
| Vote ID : 9107 | tranny sex. nuff said. | |
| Vote ID : 9112 | anal/homosexual | |
| Vote ID : 9142 | b | |
| Vote ID : 9157 | Swapping. Because I'm loyal and trusting. | |
| Vote ID : 9162 | Not sure if there is anything other than having my peers know what I was into. Nobody's business but mine and my wife's. | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | Scat | |
| Vote ID : 9225 | Would try pretty much anything | |
| Vote ID : 9247 | animals, food, anything with receptive backdoor activities-not even because of hangups or anything, just seems physically impossible | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | Beastiality | |
| Vote ID : 9254 | I'm not sure that I've looked into it far enough. | |
| Vote ID : 9284 | oh god soooo much of it... I will willingly admit I look down on almost all those crazy people. fetishists, bondage, furrys, what the fuck is wrong with people on this planet??? sometimes I secretly wish all these people were sexually attracted to fire! | |
| Vote ID : 9319 | Stuff in my butt cause dude butts are gross | |
| Vote ID : 9325 | Scat. For so many reasons. | |
| Vote ID : 9332 | Amateur porn where I'm in the scene (hate seeing myself on camera). BDSM - can't see the appeal. I have a hard enough time "losing myself" in moments, and it would be hard to endure that while taking it seriously. | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | Pain, piercing, scat, urine, bestiality. | |
| Vote ID : 9379 | Scat/beastiality/incest- its gross. | |
| Vote ID : 9380 | Same sex copulation. Need to stay on my team. | |
| Vote ID : 9390 | animals of course. i'm not sure i would let my woman use a strap-on if she asked me to. i just dont take pleasure from anything in my bum. | |
| Vote ID : 9444 | gay, animals, swaping | |
| Vote ID : 9459 | degradation...children... animals...serious pain | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | Scat is just gross. | |
| Vote ID : 9502 | Furries. I just don't get it dressing up like a stuffed animal just doesn't do it for me. | |
| Vote ID : 9517 | All-over shit-blistering and sexual surgery. Why not? Jeez, look at what I just wrote....I'm horny, not whacko. | |
| Vote ID : 9521 | fuck a animal or a guy, or get shit on or eat shit. fuck that. i'm a dirty man, but even i have my standards. | |
| Vote ID : 9541 | Girlfriend putting her finger in my ass. I'm afraid and very reluctant to go anywhere near there. | |
| Vote ID : 9556 | Anything with pain - I don't understand why pain would be sexy or feel good in any way. | |
| Vote ID : 9572 | Pain and scat are not interesting at all. Both pose risks to health. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | Kids, pain, poop and blood. No explanation required. | |
| Vote ID : 9594 | Once, a girl offered up anal, and all I could do was say "That's okay." Like, don't put yourself out or anything. I don't know, it just ain't my thing. | |
| Vote ID : 9600 | Scat play... really anything involving the ass | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | Anything that could be physically dangerous. Asphyxiation and the like. I've just seen to many csi episodes where things get out of hand. | |
| Vote ID : 9607 | Extreme violence. If she asks me to punch her or choke her, we're done. Nothing makes my dick softer. | |
| Vote ID : 9639 | I don't want to defecate or piss on my partner. That's really gross...however, if it REALLY turned on my partner, I miiiight consider it... | |
| Vote ID : 9650 | To me, the anus is where poop comes out and is occasionally the subject of medical examination. That's it. I don't understand why people try to force an unnatural sexual function on it, and perhaps I don't want to find out. | |
| Vote ID : 9655 | Swapping partners with friends and same sex relationships. Just not what I am into. | |
| Vote ID : 9677 | Using toys during coitus, on me. This is because I A) Don't enjoy having my ass played with (tried it before, not my cup of tea) and B) Would rather a good clean fuck. | |
| Vote ID : 9749 | im willing to try anything once | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | Fisting, that's just gross. Hell I am still trying to get a cock back in there. | |
| Vote ID : 9775 | Coprophagia. Eating shit just doesn't do it for me. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | Sleeping with a woman. That's just wrong. If God wanted man and woman to be together, he would of given woman a penis. | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | Just the usual beastiality and pedophilia. Some things are just too wrong to try. | |