| 1) I most identify as a | ||
| Male | 100.00% | |
| Female | 0.00% | |
| 2) My sexual orientation is | ||
| Gay | 0.00% | |
| Straight | 0.00% | |
| Bisexual | 100.00% | |
| 3) My age is | ||
| Under 18 | 3.45% | |
| 18 - 25 | 31.03% | |
| 26 - 35 | 24.14% | |
| 36 - 45 | 27.59% | |
| 46+ | 13.79% | |
| 4) I lost my virginity when I was | ||
| Under 18 | 51.72% | |
| 18 - 20 | 31.03% | |
| 21 - 25 | 10.34% | |
| 26 + | 0.00% | |
| I’m a virgin | 6.90% | |
| 5) It was | ||
| Awesome | 17.24% | |
| All right | 58.62% | |
| Awkward | 13.79% | |
| Awful | 3.45% | |
| Absent, because I’m a virgin | 6.90% | |
| 6) Tell us a bit about your first time: | ||
| Vote ID : 8501 | I don't regret it, but I was nervous and never climaxed. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | I was on vacation in Hawaii and met this American girl, and we fucked for the week we were there together. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | got fucked by n older guy | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | young in puppy love, a little awkward cause we were both first timers, but by the 3rd round we were both lovin it | |
| Vote ID : 8864 | She was my neighbor (we were both 13), we found a stash of her dad's porn tapes and followed along. | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | Talk about premature ejaculation and then immediately going soft! | |
| Vote ID : 8898 | Too dry! Then too wet! | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | On a very creaky bed in the afternoon, with her family members just beyond the door. | |
| Vote ID : 9164 | with my best friend, whos now my girlfriend, never been happier | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | we played strip trivial pursuit and i won | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | We had been apart for just over two month | |
| Vote ID : 9349 | love love love | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | former girlfriend at a party - one time only | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | It was with Ginger, a hooker in Montreal. She liked it up the ass & sucked cock. Then I found out why, so I went down on her and she shot her load all over my chest. | |
| 7) In the past month I have had sex: | ||
| Never | 31.03% | |
| Once or twice | 17.24% | |
| A few times | 17.24% | |
| A bunch of times | 31.03% | |
| At least once a day | 3.45% | |
| 8) In the past month I have masturbated | ||
| Never | 0.00% | |
| Once or twice | 0.00% | |
| A few times | 6.90% | |
| A bunch of times | 65.52% | |
| At least once a day | 27.59% | |
| 9) In the past 12 months I have had | ||
| 0 sex partners | 17.24% | |
| 1 sex partner | 20.69% | |
| 2 - 4 sex partners | 34.48% | |
| 5 - 10 sex partners | 10.34% | |
| More than 10 sex partners | 17.24% | |
| 10) The longest I’ve ever gone without sex is | ||
| one day | 0.00% | |
| one week | 6.90% | |
| one month | 6.90% | |
| more than one month | 41.38% | |
| one year | 10.34% | |
| more than one year | 27.59% | |
| All the time up until now because I'm a virgin | 6.90% | |
| 11) Why did you go that long? | ||
| Vote ID : 8412 | Because life is cruel. | |
| Vote ID : 8501 | Inbetween relationships, I don't have casual sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | I was in a drug induced coma, for overdosing. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | depression ,stressed , no one to have sex with , low motivation | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | waiting for a women who really got my attention | |
| Vote ID : 8864 | Was in the hospital. Tough to get laid when you're pulling around an IV poll. | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | Lost interest | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | No other willing parties. | |
| Vote ID : 9164 | she/i was on vacation | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | living in fort mac | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | I was not in the same country as my partner. | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | Why not? Sex isn't a necessity! Our current culture puts far to much focus on sex and selling sex in every manner. Why should people be questioned for NOT having sex!? Holding out for better options is the common choice for a lot of people with work or other areas of their personal lives. Why then are we imposed to be so desperate when it comes to choosing sexual partners?! | |
| Vote ID : 9349 | logistics | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | masturbation | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | Just a bad dry spell. | |
| 12) In the past 12 months I am | ||
| In the same relationship | 31.03% | |
| Out of an old relationship | 0.00% | |
| In a new relationship | 0.00% | |
| Out of an old relationship AND into a new relationship | 10.34% | |
| Playing the field | 31.03% | |
| No change in my relationship status | 27.59% | |
| 13) Tell us about that | ||
| Vote ID : 8412 | Being single is getting really boring. | |
| Vote ID : 8501 | Broke up with ex around october, and got a new boyfriend around january. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | I have not had a steady relationship this year, but I have had steady partners. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | single | |
| Vote ID : 8567 | I have some casual partners, but was not in and am still not in a romantic relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | it's great | |
| Vote ID : 8864 | No interest in a relationship, just enjoying fun. | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | married 11 years | |
| Vote ID : 9164 | very happy | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | i have a couple of fwb's | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | We've been dating for 2 and a half or so years | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | I'm not a fool hardly romance seeker following the whims of whatever tryst might fall into my lap. | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | I just love being single. | |
| 14) The approach I take to my relationship is | ||
| Monogamous | 34.48% | |
| Non-monogamous | 31.03% | |
| Secretly non-monogamous | 10.34% | |
| Sometimes non-monogamous | 24.14% | |
| 15) What that means to me is | ||
| Vote ID : 8412 | I'm open to both monogamy or non-monogamy, depending on a conversation with my partner(s). Not that this has gone beyond theory at this point, because I've been single for many years at this point. | |
| Vote ID : 8501 | I'm not polyamorous but I've been in sexually open relationships. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | All is fare in love. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | i date girls ,but like to have serx with men too | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | just the way it is | |
| Vote ID : 8864 | When I have been in a relationship I have had extra sexual partners. There was never an emotional attachment and was all physical. | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | no sex with another person | |
| Vote ID : 8898 | I'm a happy, polyamorous slut! | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | Nothing sexual/physical outside of the relationship | |
| Vote ID : 9096 | it's just a little less complicated (theoretically) | |
| Vote ID : 9164 | sexually/romantically commited to only her, and her to i | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | depends | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | We have talked about seeing other people while we're together but never tried or met anyone. | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | Do you need a dictionary? One mate/partner at a time without starting one relationship before ending another. Also not making advances towards another while committed. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | my partner and will engage with others (always together though) | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | I can do whatever, whoever, wherever & whenever I want. | |
| 16) I use condoms because | ||
| I don't use condoms because neither I, nor my partner, have a penis | 0.00% | |
| I want to protect against pregnancy | 6.90% | |
| I want to protect against disease | 17.24% | |
| I want to protect against pregnancy AND disease | 51.72% | |
| I have been stepping out on my partner | 6.90% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I am monogamous | 10.34% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I have a death wish | 0.00% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I’m a virgin | 6.90% | |
| 17) Last year, I contributed to the sex industry by | ||
| Looking at porn but not paying for it | 82.76% | |
| Buying pornography | 31.03% | |
| Buying a sex toy | 65.52% | |
| Going to the peelers | 24.14% | |
| Going to the baths / peeps | 17.24% | |
| Going to a sex professional | 13.79% | |
| I did not contribute to the sex industry | 0.00% | |
| 19) I would have sex more often if it weren’t for | ||
| Being single and not meeting people | 31.03% | |
| Working too much | 31.03% | |
| Being too busy | 41.38% | |
| Having an unwilling partner | 13.79% | |
| My damn kids | 0.00% | |
| This STI | 0.00% | |
| My sexual dysfunction | 6.90% | |
| High prices of sex professionals | 13.79% | |
| I love the amount of sex I have | 24.14% | |
| 20) My abilities as a lover are | ||
| Amazing | 17.24% | |
| More than adequate | 58.62% | |
| OK | 24.14% | |
| Not that good | 0.00% | |
| I need some serious help here | 0.00% | |
| 21) Tell us about that | ||
| Vote ID : 8412 | Hey, my left hand is perfectly adequate for my requirements... | |
| Vote ID : 8501 | He's my ideal partner, but he can be a bit selfish at times. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | I do my best, and I think my partners are happy. Why else would there still be long term casual sex. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | good with my mouth , toungue ,hands , touch | |
| Vote ID : 8567 | I need more practice, but I've not had complaints. | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | i have never had a problem getting my partners off, in ways that can't be faked ;) | |
| Vote ID : 8864 | Never any complaints and partners keep coming back for more. | |
| Vote ID : 8898 | I have magic hands - need I say more? | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | I know I'm good, but not cocky enough to say I'm "amazing." Some people are more difficult to get off. | |
| Vote ID : 9096 | n/a? | |
| Vote ID : 9164 | honestly i dont care about my orgasm, i just love seeing her face | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | i am happy with the response i get | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | Sometimes I can`t orgasim and I can usually tell before we're done and it effects my performance | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | partner comes first (pun intended) | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | Being BI, having a long tongue and a cock that can go for hours. | |
| 22) I would experiment outside the bounds of my sexual orientation | ||
| Yes | 89.66% | |
| No | 0.00% | |
| Maybe | 10.34% | |
| 23) I would “partner swap” | ||
| Yes | 55.17% | |
| No | 20.69% | |
| Maybe | 24.14% | |
| 24) I would go to a sex club | ||
| Yes | 62.07% | |
| No | 6.90% | |
| Maybe | 31.03% | |
| 25) I would use a sex toy on myself | ||
| Yes | 100.00% | |
| No | 0.00% | |
| Maybe | 0.00% | |
| 26) I would use a sex toy on my partner | ||
| Yes | 96.55% | |
| No | 0.00% | |
| Maybe | 3.45% | |
| 27) I would make a dirty movie | ||
| Yes | 62.07% | |
| No | 17.24% | |
| Maybe | 20.69% | |
| 28) I’d take it in the butt | ||
| Yes | 86.21% | |
| No | 10.34% | |
| Maybe | 3.45% | |
| 29) I would visit a sex worker | ||
| Yes | 24.14% | |
| No | 41.38% | |
| Maybe | 34.48% | |
| 30) I would consider bestiality | ||
| Yes | 13.79% | |
| No | 75.86% | |
| Maybe | 10.34% | |
| 31) I would do it in a public place | ||
| Yes | 72.41% | |
| No | 10.34% | |
| Maybe | 17.24% | |
| 32) I would sleep with someone who is married, but not to me | ||
| Yes | 58.62% | |
| No | 20.69% | |
| Maybe | 20.69% | |
| 33) I’d have an abortion | ||
| Yes | 55.17% | |
| No | 31.03% | |
| Maybe | 13.79% | |
| 34) I always follow the “half my age plus seven” rule | ||
| Yes | 24.14% | |
| No | 58.62% | |
| Maybe | 17.24% | |
| 35) I would sleep with someone for money | ||
| Yes | 62.07% | |
| No | 13.79% | |
| Maybe | 24.14% | |
| 36) I would use drugs to enhance sexual pleasure | ||
| Yes | 37.93% | |
| No | 31.03% | |
| Maybe | 31.03% | |
| 37) I would cheat on my partner | ||
| Yes | 31.03% | |
| No | 55.17% | |
| Maybe | 13.79% | |
| 38) I’d use the Internet to hook up: | ||
| Yes | 72.41% | |
| No | 6.90% | |
| Maybe | 20.69% | |
| 39) Is there anything else you’d like to tell us about? | ||
| Vote ID : 8501 | I haven't had sex regularily because my boyfriend is currently out of town for the summer. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | I would love to have sex with a cop,police guy ,nicely built | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | nah | |
| Vote ID : 8898 | "I would cheat on my partner" is unfair to those of us in Poly/open relationships - might want to have a "it wouldn't be cheating" option or something like that | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | very sex positive | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | Nope | |
| 40) Tell us about the most exciting sex you’ve had in the past year | ||
| Vote ID : 8501 | I'm not entirely sure how to answer this. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | I got my current fuck buddy to fuck me with a strap-on. She really enjoyed it and so did I. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | soul - full connected all night on E FAB | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | none | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | I was invited to a seven man gang bang of a woman. I fucked her several times during the evening. She even kissed me with a mouthful of come from one of the other guys. I was also in a threesome with a 'living together' lesbian couple. I was supposed to be a treat for the one was a virgin, but the other was a hot Aussie who I couldn't help enjoy more. Then the virgin fucked me in the ass with her strap on that she uses on her partner. Hot!! | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | We had sex on the couch in the living room and I had a butt plug in which meant that I couldn't stop coming. It was also very Rough lots of biting scratching etc. | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | It hasn't been that great. lol Besides if you refer to my other answers I'm still trying to hold out for the ideal. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | Many memorable 3somes and 4somes :) | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | In Bangkok with a katoey(ladyman)& a woman. 2 orgasms(one on each). Enjoyed so much went back 1 and a half hour later. I love my Double/Double. Only regret my tight ass wasn't penetrated. I'll work on that starting with small vibrator and work till I can take large cock. | |
| 41) The greatest triumph in my sex life is when I: | ||
| Vote ID : 8501 | Gave currently partner multiple orgasms. | |
| Vote ID : 8510 | Having sex with 15 people at the same time. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | Make the other cum. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | I had sex with another guy ,discovered bath houses ,M2M sex | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | convinced 5 girls they were bi and should all have sex with me | |
| Vote ID : 8613 | Realized how much better sex is when I make it about making my partner feel amazing. | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | had a threesome | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | Hooked up with someone for the first time. It's only fair to give credit to my younger self and the courage it took to do that with no previous hook-up experience. | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | Some of the amazing women I have fucked through the years and embracing my bi side and learning how amazing it is to take it up the ass.. Also, the time I picked up a hot bodied lady on wreck beach and stretched her | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | Manage to pop my 3 inch butt plug. | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | A triumph in sex?! Are we still pushing the ideal that sex is conquest? Have we not matured as a species to the understanding that it is simply a joy and fortunate treasure to share such intimacy with another? Incase you people missed it we have populated the globe and there is no longer a need to mindlessly wander about stalking down the next prey to prolong our genes. That is of course unless you want the rate of rape and sex crimes to continue or worse yet, increase. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | Finding a partner who: 1) shares my attitude(s) 2) is open to exploring new things/experimentation | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | Make a woman have multi-orgasams, take 2 guys at once, and have at least 2,000 partners. | |
| 42) My greatest regret about my sex life is the time I | ||
| Vote ID : 8501 | Cheated on one of my partners on a whim. We were on the verge of breakup, but it's still a huge mistake on my part. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | Do not give my best effort. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | did not start early to explore my sexuality but than again grew up in strict house hold | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | failed to cheat on my girl with my ex, a week before i broke up with the gf | |
| Vote ID : 8613 | Had a vasectomy reversal but my girlfriend broke up with me. | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | caught chlamidia | |
| Vote ID : 8898 | went 10 months with no sex, | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | I was with this really attractive woman and we decided to have sex, but something I ate that day was making me real gassy, and because I was concentrating so hard on not doing anything embarrassing, she couldn't get me off and took it quite personally. Nothing happened after that, so I guess I regret whatever I ate earlier that day. | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | got too drunk to hook up (many times) | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | we tried anal and failed | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | Had a drunken one night stand of meaningless sex this past month. Only to follow it up with a booty call just to "see if it would work" despite feeling nothing towards the partner. Yeah, retarded. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | Got married | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | Contacted HEP B. | |
| 43) Tell us a secret you would never tell your partner | ||
| Vote ID : 8501 | I sometimes wish I could be with more girls. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | I had sex with your sister/brother. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | I like men too ,good looking ones , often fantazise | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | she needs to trim her eyebrows more | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | have a threesome with two hot shemales | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | I still masturbate to sexy photos I took of past partners. | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | I had unprotected sex with a man once and really, really loved it. I have since tested cleaned, many years later, but I still think about how good it felt to take an uncovered cock in the ass. | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | I used a ball gag and attempt self bondage when I masturbate | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | No secrets! As your relationship builds you should be opening more doors. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | We have no secrets; she even knows about the bestiality FANTASY | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | How many partners I've had. | |
| 44) How do you engage your partner in experimentation in the bedroom? | ||
| Vote ID : 8501 | I talk to him about it. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | Talk, it is the only way to do anything. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | lol, take the lead and make sure she's following | |
| Vote ID : 8613 | Talk to her about it outside the bedroom first and then by being prepared in whatever ways are required to make it fun. | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | suggest it | |
| Vote ID : 8898 | We're so open minded, our brains have fallen out onto the sheets quite a few times... | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | Conversation. | |
| Vote ID : 9164 | positive, reassuring attitude. get hyped up by both watching porn/going to the adult store, talking to friends about it | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | My current fwb's are very open and bi | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | I present her with different ideas of what might be fun to try. | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | No partner. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | Openly and honestly | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | Ask them. | |
| 45) What’s the most interesting sexual request you’ve gotten this year? | ||
| Vote ID : 8501 | "Tie me up", something along those lines. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | My current, wanted to be double penetrated. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | Outdoor sex in a public place | |
| Vote ID : 8613 | To meet a woman in the river valley and watch her masturbate. | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | none | |
| Vote ID : 8898 | "Bind me, then whip me with this strap... please?" *innocent eyes* | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | Take it in the ass from a lesbian with a strap on | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | That I get my tongue pierced. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | I was told, "My wife is going to fuck your wife, and we're just going to watch." (a serendipitous connection while on vacation in Mexico) PS - there WAS some male participation (never say never) | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | Nothing really. | |
| 46) What kinds of things are just too “out there” for you to try sexually? Why? | ||
| Vote ID : 8501 | Anything illegal or nonconsensual. For obvious reasons. Also some of the more extreme stuff, because they make me uncomfortable/gross me out instead of turn me on. | |
| Vote ID : 8518 | Bestiality, I could never know if the animal is in pain or pleasure. | |
| Vote ID : 8521 | N/A | |
| Vote ID : 8611 | animals, blood bathing, just to weird for me | |
| Vote ID : 8881 | beastiality. It is not right | |
| Vote ID : 8898 | Bestiality, because an animal can't say "yes" | |
| Vote ID : 8912 | Watersports, playing with feces... It just grosses me out too much. | |
| Vote ID : 9209 | Scat | |
| Vote ID : 9252 | Beastiality | |
| Vote ID : 9348 | Pain, piercing, scat, urine, bestiality. | |
| Vote ID : 9592 | Kids, pain, poop and blood. No explanation required. | |
| Vote ID : 9752 | Fisting, that's just gross. Hell I am still trying to get a cock back in there. | |