| Poll Summary | ||
| 1) I most identify as a | ||
| Male | 100.00% | |
| Female | 0.00% | |
| 2) My sexual orientation is | ||
| Gay | 100.00% | |
| Straight | 0.00% | |
| Bisexual | 0.00% | |
| 3) My age is | ||
| Under 18 | 0.00% | |
| 18 - 25 | 50.00% | |
| 26 - 35 | 20.00% | |
| 36 - 45 | 10.00% | |
| 46+ | 20.00% | |
| 4) I lost my virginity when I was | ||
| Under 18 | 40.00% | |
| 18 - 20 | 40.00% | |
| 21 - 25 | 20.00% | |
| 26 + | 0.00% | |
| I’m a virgin | 0.00% | |
| 5) It was | ||
| Awesome | 40.00% | |
| All right | 20.00% | |
| Awkward | 40.00% | |
| Awful | 0.00% | |
| Absent, because I’m a virgin | 0.00% | |
| 6) Tell us a bit about your first time: | ||
| Vote ID : 8537 | hotel hookup & burly bearish fun | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | When I was on my honeymoon | |
| Vote ID : 9152 | I wish I could. I was so loaded I can hardly remember. Might be a good thing... | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | Hookup with a guy from gayedmonton.com... no fun at all. | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | Random hookup in a public bathroom | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | A learning experience. | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | It was with a girl, I couldn't admit yet that I'm into guys instead, It took a really long time cause I just wasn't into it enough. | |
| 7) In the past month I have had sex: | ||
| Never | 30.00% | |
| Once or twice | 10.00% | |
| A few times | 20.00% | |
| A bunch of times | 40.00% | |
| At least once a day | 0.00% | |
| 8) In the past month I have masturbated | ||
| Never | 10.00% | |
| Once or twice | 10.00% | |
| A few times | 10.00% | |
| A bunch of times | 30.00% | |
| At least once a day | 40.00% | |
| 9) In the past 12 months I have had | ||
| 0 sex partners | 0.00% | |
| 1 sex partner | 30.00% | |
| 2 - 4 sex partners | 30.00% | |
| 5 - 10 sex partners | 30.00% | |
| More than 10 sex partners | 10.00% | |
| 10) The longest I’ve ever gone without sex is | ||
| one day | 0.00% | |
| one week | 0.00% | |
| one month | 40.00% | |
| more than one month | 40.00% | |
| one year | 10.00% | |
| more than one year | 10.00% | |
| All the time up until now because I'm a virgin | 0.00% | |
| 11) Why did you go that long? | ||
| Vote ID : 8502 | Long distance relationship. | |
| Vote ID : 8537 | too busy in the process of moving...to Montreal. | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | Busy, preoccupied | |
| Vote ID : 9152 | It was a lot longer than I wanted! But a boy's gotta have standards. | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | Wasn't particularly seeking it. I jerked off a lot more though! | |
| Vote ID : 9524 | medical reasons | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | I was in the closet, and too scared to pursue anything | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | I have self control? | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | Not out, and a horrible previous relationship got me way to depressed to be interested. | |
| 12) In the past 12 months I am | ||
| In the same relationship | 30.00% | |
| Out of an old relationship | 30.00% | |
| In a new relationship | 10.00% | |
| Out of an old relationship AND into a new relationship | 0.00% | |
| Playing the field | 10.00% | |
| No change in my relationship status | 20.00% | |
| 13) Tell us about that | ||
| Vote ID : 8537 | a bad break up | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | My partner of four yrs | |
| Vote ID : 9152 | I still respect him and wish him well. I just don't *like* him anymore... | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | Been with my boyfriend for three years, crazy in love with him! | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | I'm a hopeless romantic | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | A horrible mismatch that didn't work out. Playing the feild a little now and having way more fun with that! | |
| 14) The approach I take to my relationship is | ||
| Monogamous | 60.00% | |
| Non-monogamous | 10.00% | |
| Secretly non-monogamous | 0.00% | |
| Sometimes non-monogamous | 30.00% | |
| 15) What that means to me is | ||
| Vote ID : 8537 | Safer sex for both parties & but if a consented threesome was ever brought up it could be considered. | |
| Vote ID : 9152 | One is more than enough to have to handle, no? | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | We have an open-ish relationship, and usually always play together. | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | Depends on the relationship and how the people involved feel about monogomany | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | NO CHEATING | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | You shoukd have respect for who you are with, but sometimes the relationship is over before you make it official. If my relationship is OK or good, I dont need to sleep with anyone else, and I do not want to disrespect them that way. | |
| 16) I use condoms because | ||
| I don't use condoms because neither I, nor my partner, have a penis | 0.00% | |
| I want to protect against pregnancy | 0.00% | |
| I want to protect against disease | 70.00% | |
| I want to protect against pregnancy AND disease | 10.00% | |
| I have been stepping out on my partner | 0.00% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I am monogamous | 20.00% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I have a death wish | 0.00% | |
| I don’t use condoms because I’m a virgin | 0.00% | |
| 17) Last year, I contributed to the sex industry by | ||
| Looking at porn but not paying for it | 80.00% | |
| Buying pornography | 30.00% | |
| Buying a sex toy | 70.00% | |
| Going to the peelers | 10.00% | |
| Going to the baths / peeps | 30.00% | |
| Going to a sex professional | 0.00% | |
| I did not contribute to the sex industry | 0.00% | |
| 19) I would have sex more often if it weren’t for | ||
| Being single and not meeting people | 50.00% | |
| Working too much | 30.00% | |
| Being too busy | 30.00% | |
| Having an unwilling partner | 10.00% | |
| My damn kids | 0.00% | |
| This STI | 0.00% | |
| My sexual dysfunction | 0.00% | |
| High prices of sex professionals | 0.00% | |
| I love the amount of sex I have | 30.00% | |
| 20) My abilities as a lover are | ||
| Amazing | 20.00% | |
| More than adequate | 60.00% | |
| OK | 20.00% | |
| Not that good | 0.00% | |
| I need some serious help here | 0.00% | |
| 21) Tell us about that | ||
| Vote ID : 8537 | Amazing kisser and a good nipple sucker...I have my methods. | |
| Vote ID : 9152 | GGG! | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | Unless the fella is lying to me :oP | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | I really can't say, I have been told I'm good but who knows. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | You'll have to come and find out for yourself :) | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | I have gotten a lot of compliments! I think being selfish in the bedroom is always a bad plan, I want us both (or more!) to have a good time and I try to please. It makes it better for me to see them enjoying the encounter. Every single guy and girl I've slept with that I ever ran into again, or that took my number has always come back for more! :) | |
| 22) I would experiment outside the bounds of my sexual orientation | ||
| Yes | 40.00% | |
| No | 30.00% | |
| Maybe | 30.00% | |
| 23) I would “partner swap” | ||
| Yes | 20.00% | |
| No | 30.00% | |
| Maybe | 50.00% | |
| 24) I would go to a sex club | ||
| Yes | 30.00% | |
| No | 30.00% | |
| Maybe | 40.00% | |
| 25) I would use a sex toy on myself | ||
| Yes | 100.00% | |
| No | 0.00% | |
| Maybe | 0.00% | |
| 26) I would use a sex toy on my partner | ||
| Yes | 100.00% | |
| No | 0.00% | |
| Maybe | 0.00% | |
| 27) I would make a dirty movie | ||
| Yes | 60.00% | |
| No | 20.00% | |
| Maybe | 20.00% | |
| 28) I’d take it in the butt | ||
| Yes | 80.00% | |
| No | 10.00% | |
| Maybe | 10.00% | |
| 29) I would visit a sex worker | ||
| Yes | 10.00% | |
| No | 90.00% | |
| Maybe | 0.00% | |
| 30) I would consider bestiality | ||
| Yes | 0.00% | |
| No | 80.00% | |
| Maybe | 20.00% | |
| 31) I would do it in a public place | ||
| Yes | 60.00% | |
| No | 10.00% | |
| Maybe | 30.00% | |
| 32) I would sleep with someone who is married, but not to me | ||
| Yes | 30.00% | |
| No | 30.00% | |
| Maybe | 40.00% | |
| 33) I’d have an abortion | ||
| Yes | 50.00% | |
| No | 50.00% | |
| Maybe | 0.00% | |
| 34) I always follow the “half my age plus seven” rule | ||
| Yes | 40.00% | |
| No | 50.00% | |
| Maybe | 10.00% | |
| 35) I would sleep with someone for money | ||
| Yes | 40.00% | |
| No | 40.00% | |
| Maybe | 20.00% | |
| 36) I would use drugs to enhance sexual pleasure | ||
| Yes | 40.00% | |
| No | 60.00% | |
| Maybe | 0.00% | |
| 37) I would cheat on my partner | ||
| Yes | 10.00% | |
| No | 80.00% | |
| Maybe | 10.00% | |
| 38) I’d use the Internet to hook up: | ||
| Yes | 80.00% | |
| No | 0.00% | |
| Maybe | 20.00% | |
| 39) Is there anything else you’d like to tell us about? | ||
| Vote ID : 9604 | I'm gay, and out but only had sex with a girl for the last couple years. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | I'm quite open minded when it comes to sex. | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | I wish everyone would be more open to new things, new experiences and talking to your partner and friends about what you need. There are far too many uptight people out there! | |
| 40) Tell us about the most exciting sex you’ve had in the past year | ||
| Vote ID : 8537 | An experience with a milking machine, a rubber hood and handcuffs made for a rather pleasant experience. | |
| Vote ID : 8950 | I got to fuck my friend and his husband while we were all in Toronto. | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | The best sex just happens. It's not the planned or most romantic. Sometimes things (and people) just come together. | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | Out in the sand dunes with my bf, on the back of our ATV with other ATVers zooming cluelessly around us. That got filmed. | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | Nothing of mention. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | Mmmmm, do I have to chose just one? Probably the time I slept with this guy who had a six pack, smooth blond hair, sweet lips, etc. Let's just say that he was physically perfect in my eyes. Being a slim guy, these type of men don't usually go after me, so it was almost a fantasy moment. Oh, and did I mention that he was taken (and still is to my knowledge) Maybe it was the fact that we were both incredibly intoxicated, but that didn't stop us. One of my best sex moments in the past year. | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | Behind my friends back with his boyfriend. Being bad has never been soooo good! | |
| 41) The greatest triumph in my sex life is when I: | ||
| Vote ID : 8537 | Able to orgasm...antidepressants are vile. | |
| Vote ID : 8950 | realized that sex is the most sophisticated form of adult play. | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | weird question.... | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | Have real awesome (non anonymous) sex with a guy. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | gained confidence at what I did! | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | Unfortunately, nothing has qualified as "triumphant". Just fun. | |
| 42) My greatest regret about my sex life is the time I | ||
| Vote ID : 8537 | caught HPV. | |
| Vote ID : 8950 | wasted time and energy on believing a hetro normative life was for me. | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | spent 17 years in a marriage knowing I was gay | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | I stayed a virgin way too long. | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | Had anonymous sex with a man when I was young. Although I am gay, it wasn't really a smart thing, and I was still struggling with my sexuality at the time, I had a really hard time dealing with it. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | slept with someone that I cared about. We've all made the mistake to sleep with someone that we shouldn't of. I don't have regrets as I I did want it at one point in time. I will say that I shouldn't have slept with one of friends who was taken, in a serious realationship. Hasn't been the same since. Obviously. | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | The first time I rejected who I now realize would have been the perfect guy. We took turns with one of us coming on to the other, and the other saying no. Then reversing roles the next time we met. Timing IS everything, and mine is bad. | |
| 43) Tell us a secret you would never tell your partner | ||
| Vote ID : 8537 | I am actually a closeted furry. | |
| Vote ID : 8950 | No secrets...only specific answers to questions that haven't been asked. | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | I'm not sure it's gonna last. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | I really hate sucking your cock.. | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | Who I'm secretly lusting over instead of them. | |
| 44) How do you engage your partner in experimentation in the bedroom? | ||
| Vote ID : 8537 | never came up. | |
| Vote ID : 8950 | We take it as it comes. | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | We talk about it, and if we agree, we do it | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | If there's something either of us wants, we're not shy about mentioning it. | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | Just try things slowly and gauge the reaction. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | Don't take no for an answer | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | You just have to be open and honest. You have tell them "I think this would be a lot of fun!" and see how it goes. If they are willing, then it should should be easy to talk about. If not, it will be pretty obvious by a bad reaction. You gotta realize you can't make anyone do anything they don't want to do. Communication is always very important. | |
| 45) What’s the most interesting sexual request you’ve gotten this year? | ||
| Vote ID : 8537 | Being a leather boy for the weekend. | |
| Vote ID : 8950 | To get off on the desk in the office of a friend. | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | threesome | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | "Stick this up your ass"-from a girl. | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | Sex in a park. Nothing unusual for a while unfortunately. | |
| 46) What kinds of things are just too “out there” for you to try sexually? Why? | ||
| Vote ID : 8537 | scat and watersports...that's just weird shit. | |
| Vote ID : 8950 | KAP...kids, animals and poo | |
| Vote ID : 8962 | Anything involving urination,defecation, etc. | |
| Vote ID : 9477 | Scat is just gross. | |
| Vote ID : 9604 | Anything that could be physically dangerous. Asphyxiation and the like. I've just seen to many csi episodes where things get out of hand. | |
| Vote ID : 9787 | Sleeping with a woman. That's just wrong. If God wanted man and woman to be together, he would of given woman a penis. | |
| Vote ID : 9789 | Just the usual beastiality and pedophilia. Some things are just too wrong to try. | |